How to travel with the opposite sex who has a particularly good relationship?

When asking this question, it is not difficult to see that there are only two kinds of good friends of the opposite sex mentioned by the questioner, one is unmarried and the other is married. The seemingly simple problem is actually very complicated.

First of all, you want to ask a friend of the opposite sex to travel. Are you married or unmarried? If you are unmarried, it is natural to ask an unmarried friend of the opposite sex. If the other party allows you to travel, if it is a one-day trip, it is a sign of enhancing friendship. If it is a multi-day tour, if the other party agrees, then she is ready to change from a friend to a lover with you. This may be the result you want. If you let a married opposite sex travel abroad, she will refuse unless she wants to cheat you.

If you are a married person, ask an unmarried friend of the opposite sex to travel. If she promises to go out with you for many days in addition to a one-day trip, there is no doubt that your relationship is not a friend relationship, but a lover relationship. She must be a shameful third party. You are also a hypocrite who betrayed your family.

If you are married, and the opposite sex you are dating is also married, then unless other members of both families take part in the family tour, it will be a betrayal of their respective families, and in all likelihood, it will still bring you money and human and financial resources. We should be cautious about tourism that may produce such a result.

In short, although it is a good activity to make an appointment with the opposite sex to travel abroad, it can cultivate one's sentiment and appreciate the beautiful scenery of nature, but if the relationship is not handled properly, it will not bring good results, but will be a disaster.

Hello! When it comes to traveling with the opposite sex, it is still a very good relationship with the opposite sex, which means that it is a good friend of the opposite sex. Since we are good friends, we should travel together. Is this not good? If everyone likes to travel, if you visit go to dali, Lijiang, Xishuangbanna, Tibet, Sanya, Beijing, Xi 'an, etc., there will definitely be many people who speak the same language. You won't feel lonely on the road because you travel alone, and you won't be disappointed because you don't have the same language with friends who travel in groups.

Since there are people of the opposite sex with very good relationships who can travel together, we must cherish this trip, and also pay attention to communicate with friends more and care less on the way. As long as we have a good attitude, I believe such a trip is particularly unforgettable!

Since you are traveling with a particularly good relationship with the opposite sex, you must eat, live and play when traveling. I believe you are such good friends that you won't let each other suffer. It's not easy to travel. Let's travel by AA system, so that everyone can understand that you don't suffer or owe anyone, so that friends can get along longer.

If you are a man and your best friend is a woman, you should pay more attention to your friends when traveling. If the other person has a lot of luggage, you can help others with some. If you are in a scenic spot, you can take more pictures of your friends. If you are impatient, you can slow down, travel with friends, listen to friends' opinions more, and find friends' shortcomings less, so you can go to more places to travel!

If you are a woman and your best friend is a man, you should feel more secure when traveling, but you should also keep a low profile and don't let the other person suffer. Eat, live and play with AA. Although women may travel a little slower than men in life, they can get up early. Don't let friends wait too long when going out, and don't let them carry everything for you, because friends also have luggage and friends will be tired, so when traveling, think more about each other. Of course, such a trip will not be disappointed!

Among our cycling partners, there are often female cyclists, which makes cycling interesting. Of course, most of them ride around and don't spend the night outside.

Once, four people rode a long distance together, three men and one woman. Arrived at a destination, dark and tired, and found a hotel, leaving only two standard rooms. According to the arrangement, there can't be three men, one triple room and one woman and one single room here. It was already eight or nine o'clock at night, tired and hungry, and I couldn't wait to abandon the car and take a bath for dinner. I don't even want to find a hotel anymore. Besides, you may not find such a small place.

The four men looked at each other, but the woman didn't speak. After a stalemate for a minute or two, the clever "Miao Shi" said, "Camel" and I share a room, and you two share a room. "I can't ride a horse" is the teacher "Cai Yun", so you can rest assured.

That night, we all put on our coats and went to bed. Before going to bed, the female cyclist kept talking about how good her husband was, and said that her husband had warned her never to do anything wrong to him.

I didn't say anything, just trying to convince myself not to get the wrong idea. . . . .

After that night, as long as there is me, she will go to the long-distance running team. When other female riders ride long distances, they should first ask if there are any female riders, for fear of inconvenient accommodation. She's not afraid. She can live with me.

We rode together for more than a month, and * * * had four or five thousand kilometers of long-distance experience. It is right to ride with men and women, and only people in the cycling circle know the secret!

It is not difficult to ride a long distance, and it is more difficult to find a partner to ride the whole journey than to find a lover. This is the general cognition of cycling circle. Many long-distance cycling teams set off vigorously and returned lonely. The reason is that personality broke out on the way, the same sex repelled each other, and no one would let anyone, so they had to go their separate ways. Men and women have different collocation, opposites attract each other, know how to tolerate each other, know how to be modest, and can accompany them all the time. This kind of experience is not something that men or women can feel.

So, riding a long distance doesn't want to be lonely, find a partner to match men and women, ride! Of course, the lone ranger who likes flying solo very much is an exception.

How to travel with people who have a particularly good relationship with the opposite sex? Personally, I may be conservative. I won't travel alone with people who have a particularly good relationship with the opposite sex. Not only will I not travel with people who have a particularly good relationship with the opposite sex, but I will also strongly oppose my friends and relatives traveling with a particularly good friend of the opposite sex. And we will use harsh words to stop it, and maybe even tear our faces to stop it, because we have never eaten pork. Watching pigs cross the road every day.

In Huangmei Opera "The Fairy Couple" and Lu Yu Opera, Yong Dong was worshipped by seven fairies. Yong Dong said: There is a lot of communication between men and women.

What do people advocate nowadays? Confidante? All lies and nonsense? Young men and women are full of hormones, and at a certain time, there will be a burning fire that will get out of hand?

So I am firmly opposed to traveling with the opposite sex! After all, there is no Liu Xiahui in real life, so you can sit still with a beautiful woman in your arms. Maybe there is something wrong with physiology!

I've done this before, and I've endured it very hard! My friend did this, and the consequences were very serious!

Let me tell you the truth first-if you are married and can't guarantee that you are a restless Liu Xiahui, then you'd better not travel with the opposite sex.

Because there will be too many opportunities along the way to make your relationship "better", even good enough to subvert your original pace of life and turn your original life into a chicken feather.

In general, you will encounter all kinds of problems along the way, all about whether your surname is Liu or not.

Let me start with my own experience.

I traveled to Lhasa one year and brought a divorced Hangzhou woman.

How good is my relationship with her? So good that the two of us invested together and opened a small shop in where street in Hangzhou.

This woman is extroverted and a little impatient-for example, she fell in love with a boy for two months and divorced after half a year.

I heard that I was going to Tibet, and she clamored to go with me: Lao Fei, you must take me with you, and I will play!

Let me take you to the hotel we stayed in Lhasa.

As far as the tone of this room is concerned, anyone who takes a small step forward will become a legendary fire. !

After staying for three days, I decided to ask for another room to live separately.

Some jokes made by the other party intentionally or unintentionally reveal an unspeakable ambiguity about the boundaries; In addition, although people's looks are not very good-looking, they are in good shape; Besides, we are really not moral models.

The reason why I don't want to cross the line in the end is not because my surname is Liu, but because I can't afford two prices.

First, how to face your family when cooking once?

Second, after crossing the border, how to face the business created by * * *?

I want to pay the mortgage!

Alas, I have to say that three mountains really kill people!

Tell me more about my friend K.

Lao K is my brother and an architect like me, but he developed better than me and joined the vice president level in a real estate company.

The original plan was for the two of us to make an appointment to visit Spain for two weeks. As a result, Lao K said, let's drive. I'll take a man and a woman.

I asked: Who is it? Are you a couple?

Old k said: not lovers, both of them are my very good friends and my customers.

I smiled: it won't be that Party A's father took the kickback from others and convinced them, will it?

Old k made a haha: What's it to you? Anyway, I have been a backpacker for many years, and I have been to Tibet many times like you, and the gameplay is exactly the same as ours.

The trip to Spain was not long-winded. It was a very romantic country. Everything was normal during the trip and everyone had a good time.

Let's just say what happened not long after returning to China-Lao K divorced, which is almost a clean home, because Lao K was caught by the evidence of his wife's cheating, and Lao K was embarrassed and felt that he was particularly sorry for his wife and even more sorry for his son.

Old k regretted it when he talked to me about it.

I asked: Did you really cheat?

K: Hmm. ...

I asked: When did this happen?

K: That was when we went to Spain.

I was shocked: Spain? No way! We eat together, live together and travel together. Where did you get the chance to play with your little playboy?

Old K sighed: One night in Madrid, you went out to watch a performance with Sun Xiao. Didn't Xiao Na and I leave an account once? ...

Looking at my silence, Lao K added: Alas, even if Xiao Na and I don't have a chance to be alone this time, I think it's hard to say in the future.

I can't resist my curiosity: Sister-in-law is really amazing. Was she captured this time?

Old k said: how can this kind of thing end when it starts?

To my curiosity, I didn't ask him who seduced whom.

Because old K and I both know that no matter who seduces, it is essentially a slap in the face; Plus, it can't change the result of old k chicken feathers now.

Conclusion: I have nothing to say about "how to travel with the opposite sex with a particularly good relationship"; Because I am against it, I advise married people not to try it easily.

If you are in a normal relationship and want to deepen your relationship by going to the next level, this is undoubtedly a good choice-because traveling together has such a particularly prominent function.

It can be a catalyst-let two people who have a crush on each other pierce the window paper of love; You can also let friends of the opposite sex who have a particularly good relationship accidentally cross that line.

Corresponding to the "catalyst" function, travel can also be a "reminder"-it can make two couples who are still dating break up.

Because of the kind of love where you eat a meal and watch a movie in the city, there is still a little distance between the two; But if we travel together, eat, drink, sleep and show each other, it is almost infinitely close to life.

You know: falling in love and living together are not the same difficulty coefficient at all.

It depends on the relationship with the opposite sex and what kind of relationship it will develop in the future.

Friends are friends. Once you cross the border and become lovers, you may not even have to be friends in the end. You must resist the temptation of desire.

If they are all single, they may develop into marriage in the future, just through travel observation.

Before going out, she jokingly told me three times: don't talk to my sister, or she will turn against me on the spot. As a serious person, I can control it no matter what. As for such a good thing as traveling, how can I refuse her? It was this trip that became the only time in my life to travel with the opposite sex with a particularly good relationship. She is an only child with a superior family. We met in a circle of friends in the same city. Her birthday in May 17 was 44 days older than mine, so she became my sister.

She always wanted to travel to Qinghai Lake, but as a girl, she always felt unsafe, so she asked me to accompany her in the summer of 15. Actually, our relationship is really good. We used to climb mountains, have picnics, watch movies and sing karaoke together many times before. At that time, I was her tour guide, photographer, bodyguard, donkey and ...

In fact, I really like her from the bottom of my heart, but I don't think I really deserve her. Because she is not only beautiful, but also a super "powerful" family, I won't say much here. Me, no diploma, no background, no money!

Because she made an appointment with me, she originally said AA, but in fact, most of the big expenses were directly spent by her, such as train tickets and chartered cars. I never even thought about it. She looked up the strategy on the Internet and said that it is best to charter a tour of Qinghai Lake, but the transportation cost in 800 yuan is really not cheap, but the service is really in place. We stayed in a hotel in downtown Xining that night. I forgot the name of the hotel because it took too long, but I will never forget what happened that night.

Yes, she opened a standard room. She said she was afraid of living alone in a strange place, so she said I would protect her, right? I just nodded with a puzzled face. Of course I will protect you.

When I lived in a room, I suddenly found my head blank. It was like escaping from a catastrophe, and my head was buzzing.

She pulled out a small suitcase, pulled out some snacks from it and threw them to me. Then she dug out her black stockings and thick coat from the inside and threw them on the bed.

Why are you staring at me?

In fact, as an adolescent boy, no illusion is false. I said I didn't do anything.

Go to the bathroom and wash your feet, because you are blushing. Say that finish, I snickered with my head down.

When I came to the bathroom, I really blushed like a red apple. I quickly turned on the waterwheel and washed it before coming out.

You have to restrain yourself, understand? There can be no delusions. You must divert your attention. She taught me as if she knew everything.

What if I can't? I said.

I have no choice but to turn against you on the spot. It's up to you. Then she snickered again, and I felt as if she were playing a trick on me.

In fact, she plays tricks on me not once or twice, but almost often.

She changed her pajamas in the bathroom. In the evening, we turned off the light and lay in bed. Only the bathroom light is on.

Then we talked all the time, and I asked her, "We all sleep in the same house like this. What does it matter? " ?

She thought about it and said it might be a confidante, no, a confidante.

What do you mean? I don't understand.

Think for yourself. She said.

She often does this. Every time she hangs people's appetite, she doesn't tell me the result after hanging.

What's the difference with love? I asked tentatively.

Love? She thought for a few seconds and then said, "It's good for us. Think about it. If it develops into love, there will definitely be contradictions between us. Then I will be angry with you and quarrel with you. Finally, I can't stand you, and you certainly can't stand my temper. We will end here and never meet again. " What a pity! I didn't even bully me with a younger brother. (Say something like this)

Say that finish, she smiled again.

I'm still telling her seriously: can that confidante or confidante get along well all his life?

That is. She said positively.

Because of our chat, I forgot my crazy thoughts about her. Suddenly I thought it was beautiful, too. But the more beautiful things are, the more I want to possess them, especially when she doesn't talk and calms down.

Then can we squeeze?

No, such a small bed, if you come over, I'll turn against you right away.

In short, we talked a lot, and then slept till dawn, and nothing happened.

At 7 o'clock the next morning, the driver waited for us under the hotel. After dinner, we set off for Qinghai Lake by bus. Out of Xining, there are many beautiful scenery along the way, and the mountains are undulating. She has been looking at the mountains outside the window, as quiet as a woman in a painting.

I picked up the camera and took some photos. She said that her photos can't be spread outside and can't be seen by others. Since I will keep this secret, she trusts me as much as I trust her.

She was hungry along the way, and I would dig out a lot of snacks from my bag. I didn't expect the mountains and rivers along the Qinghai Lake to be so high above sea level. After going up the mountain, it was smoky and the pass was cold as hell. We didn't stay long and went directly to Qinghai Lake.

Who knew Qinghai Lake was so beautiful? From a distance, it looks like a layer of blue pearls has been sprinkled on the lake. There is a black basket in the distance, and it is sky blue near. We walked in the sea of rape blossoms and the snow-capped mountains on the other side. I didn't expect that there are such beautiful scenery on the earth.

She didn't pay much attention to me all the way. She wandered around her and I followed her like a follower. In the evening, we stayed in a hotel near the sunrise scenic spot of Qinghai Lake, because she especially wanted to watch the sunrise here.

Maybe because we were all very tired that day and the accommodation was poor, we didn't think much. We wandered around the lake until after 8 o'clock in the evening before returning to the hotel, and then we lay in bed and chatted.

That night, she talked about her past. Her mother was strict with her since she was a child, so when she grew up, she felt particularly rebellious, especially now. The more she refuses to do anything, the more she deliberately does something that makes her angry.

I didn't say anything about your mother for your own good. After all, there are many things in this world that a girl can't do. For example, if I really want to have bad thoughts about you, then you are finished.

She said she couldn't count on me, and then snickered somewhere, feeling that she laughed at me like a coward.

I was a little angry at that moment and wanted to teach her a lesson. Who knows, she continued to laugh and said that she was joking with me.

Then she immediately calmed down and said to me. Do you think my mother will let me run so far easily?

I said, why?

That's because you protected me. Then he burst out laughing.

I said you told your mother about our trip?

Can't you see? Such a big thing.

Is your mother at ease?

My mother gave you 100 hearts. My mother says you look like a very honest and serious person.

I ...

After collapsing and losing sleep the next night, I slept in the morning but didn't get up until 8 o'clock. I just remembered that I was going to watch the sunrise last night, but as soon as I opened the curtain, the sun shone on my ass.

She also complained that I didn't call her. It's all my fault.

On this day, we went to Chaka Salt Lake. The beauty of Chaka Salt Lake is like a mirror of the sky. Her soul and I have already flown into the sky.

Don't you even know how to protect girls? If I fall into the pit, you are responsible for me.

Then she took the initiative to hold my hand.

She said that this is her dream place, and she fantasized about coming here with her prince charming.

Are you imagining that I am your prince charming? I asked.

At best, you are a frog prince who doesn't understand romance. She said.

Prince Frog is also a prince.

Right, right, right. Being with a boyfriend may not feel as good as being with the frog prince.

Feelings? How does it feel?

It is the kind of faint, clear, faint, simple and simple feeling without any troubles and miscellaneous feelings. Anyway, you don't understand. It seems that I don't know anything in her eyes.

On the third day, we went to the desert in the north. I didn't expect it to be so hot in the sand that my feet burned red. Walk around and get in the car. Let me rub her feet. If I remember correctly, you haven't washed your feet for three days.

What, you don't want to? You failed in your duty.

Does it include rubbing your feet?

That is, who let you be my bodyguard!

We chatted and the car drove towards downtown Xining. On the way back, there was wonderful light music in the car. She leaned her head on my shoulder and fell asleep directly.

When I got back, I took out my camera. She said it was right to call me out on this trip. Because she really liked the photos I took for her, I sent her home safely. As for the two of us, the only thing that happened was that on the last day, she gave me a grateful hug.

This trip is still fresh in my memory, because I not only really like her, but also feel that my love for her is particularly sacred. Coupled with my calm restraint, it can be said that the sacred love hidden in my heart has not been violated, which also makes this trip one of the most unforgettable trips in my heart.

This requires a good relationship between men and women, casual and affordable, which is not only the bottom line between men and women, but also the absolute trust between friends.

In recent years, when we went to road trip, the four of us shared a car, and two men and two women traveled together, laughing and laughing all the way, not to say that husband and wife can occasionally surpass husband and wife. Very good heterosexual travel, average accommodation, choose a standard room of the same sex. What I'm afraid of is special circumstances. It's time to test the iron relationship between men and women.

One year, we went to stay at Chery RV Tourism Base in the west of the foot of Huangshan Mountain. We want three people in one RV and two RVs, so we have to pay more for two people. If we can get crowded, we just want an RV. After discussion, two women agreed that four people would live in an RV, two women would share a double bed, two men would sleep in bunk beds, and they drank too much and didn't even have to take a shower. It was safe that night. The next day, we stayed alone and saved 160, feeling complacent.

Another time, I went to the South Taihang Mountain in Henan Province and Baligou Scenic Area in Xinxiang City, and went to road trip, and arranged to sleep in a tent. Two women found it inconvenient to take a bath, so I went to find a triple room nearby and invited us to live together, which made it more convenient to take a bath. We have been here for more than half a century, and the boundaries between men and women are not so clear. Besides, two women, a soldier's wife and a policeman's wife, are dangerous goods. We have no evil intentions and no thief's guts.

We took a hot bath in the bathroom when we went to the hotel. Two women and a man each sleep in a bed, and the other man has to sleep on the floor.

It doesn't matter how men and women live together, as long as their hearts are pure. Of course, there are few mixed opportunities for this kind of heterosexual travel.

Traveling alone is not recommended.