Who likes to speak ill of others behind their backs?

As the saying goes, no one talks behind people's backs, and no one talks behind people's backs. Why sometimes gossiping behind people's backs has become a normal state? Even friends who usually feel that they have a lot of intersection may turn their heads and talk about themselves without contradiction. What is the reason for this? Is it because we met the right person somewhere, or is it inevitable that we are born with bad habits?

Speak ill of you behind your back. Maybe you have threatened him in some way. The act of saying bad things behind your back is actually a worrying move that you have been afraid of, and you want to temporarily suppress your sharpness with the help of others.

Some people are born like this. They can interact with you in front of others with first-class acting skills and turn around to help you put on your shoes. They are naturally intolerant of people, but they don't want to confront them. So the little tricks behind them are one of their survival skills, and sometimes even when they are used to it, they have inadvertently betrayed the people around them.

People are very good-looking Sometimes there are not many colleagues, friends, relatives or lovers who can bluntly point out your shortcomings, mistakes or even gaffes. After all, no one likes to listen to negative words, and it is easy to make enemies and offend people, but the inner perception will not change. Looking at all kinds of bad habits that you don't like, there will always be emotions, and you should contact yourself every day. You can only express this dissatisfaction and suppress your inner feelings to outsiders to ease your emotions.