My daughter mopped the floor to talk about it.

In life, parents have a lot of things to do every day because of the pressure of life, so they will let their children help their parents share some housework. However, a mother makes her 1 1 year-old daughter do a lot of housework, which leads to endless housework every day, just like a domestic servant.

In life, Li Shiying's mother asked Li Shiying to help share the housework because of too many family chores and great pressure in life. Then Li Shiying helped her mop the floor, wash dishes, wash diapers, take care of her brothers and sisters, and so on. Every day, she has endless housework and it is very hard. Not only did she not get praise from her mother, but she was often rejected by her mother. If she doesn't do well, she will vent her dissatisfaction to Li Shiying. My mother often tells Li Shiying discontentedly.

Once, my mother snatched Li Shiying's favorite book and gave it to her son in her arms. My brother tore it in half. My mother threw it into Li Shiying's body and continued to talk to her son. She didn't comfort Li Shiying. She felt wronged, but didn't cry. She endured silently and kept smiling. She slowly glued on her beloved book. She is used to it. Her sister bullies her sister at will because she has no position in the family. This incident caused netizens.

Netizens have commented: "She is not qualified to be a mother", "She is too eccentric", "It is right for children to do housework, but don't vent their personal feelings on children" and "poor children".

Children suffered from unequal attitudes in childhood, which directly affected their mental health, made them feel insecure and inferior, and made them feel pessimistic and withdrawn. There is a saying: "Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are cured." So parents should not be partial and give their children equal love. So, with two children at home, what should parents do to be impartial?

1, fair

Parents should be fair and just, both materially and spiritually. When buying clothes, you should buy a dress with the same price for both children, and you should get the consent of both children. If there is only one lollipop at home, parents should respect their children's ideas. If two children quarrel, parents should ask the reason clearly, then analyze who did the wrong thing, and finally apologize to who did the wrong thing, and encourage the two children mentally.

2. Parents have a clear attitude

In daily life, parents make rules for their two children, and parents should treat the rules differently. For example, if parents ask their children to do housework, whoever finishes it first will be rewarded with a toy. Finally, my brother or sister finished it first and got the toy. It is wrong for parents to ask them to share it with their younger brothers or sisters. Parents should have a clear attitude when formulating reward rules, and let their children know that they can only be rewarded if they complete the rules.

3, according to the different personal care

Parents should have an equal attitude towards different children, and at the same time, children should give full play to their respective advantages, such as encouraging older children to take more responsibility and be more modest, encouraging children to learn more and respect more, punishing one child when he makes a mistake, and praising another child when he makes progress, so that children can feel brotherhood and be grateful to each other in their growth and progress.

Parents love their children, whether they are one child or two children, but they express them in different ways. But now after reading this story, parents should know that they should treat their two children fairly, not unfairly, and take care of the boss's emotions and feelings.

Today's interactive topic: How many children are there in your family? If you are a second-child family, how do you treat your two children fairly? Welcome to share in the comments below.