How to reach a settlement with parents?

Hello, dear, this requires us to practice our ability to endure the pain of others, and when this other person is our parents, it is our authority since childhood. In the relationship between his parents and his family, we need to let go of these burdens, and we are allowed to endure their own hardships.

We can clearly tell ourselves:

Mom and Dad, I can't change you, but I love you. Mom and dad, I can't suffer for you, but I will understand you and hug you, but at the same time I will live my own life.

In this way, we can see the gift of life together and distinguish the boundaries of life. This boundary can prevent the lack of parents, continue to pass on, and make each generation live better than the previous generation. This is the deepest motivation in life. Your parents want you to have a better life than them. When you grow up, as your child's parents, you want your child to live better than you. This is the truth of life. Our best life is the best cure for the family we came from.