Are Gemini men really fickle?

Let’s talk about the love of Gemini men, and also to rectify the “love heart” of Gemini.

First of all, if a girl wants to have a happy result, she must not find a Gemini man who is not yet mature. The inability to grasp her own feelings, emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in a down-to-earth manner is inherent in the Gemini star. He has a weak character, which can be summed up in one word - impetuous; but this is another man of the twelve zodiac signs who has strong curiosity and philanthropy, loves making friends and freedom, and has a natural affinity and amazing eloquence, so it is still better to be a Gemini man When you don't really grasp what you want and when you don't really want to settle down, it's easy to stage a tragic love tragedy, which is beautiful but very hurtful. At this time, their love logic is as follows:

First, I am close to you because I am really interested in you, but being interested does not mean that there will be results;

Second, I can be interested in you Very good, and can also be very good to other members of the opposite sex. Geminis are naturally devoted, so is there anything wrong with being nice to others?

3. I can approach N people of the opposite sex at the same time, but I have a certain limit in my heart. I know very well that it is just interest, not love;

4. Even if you and I are closer, Closer, but I still have to keep my own piece of sky, which only belongs to me. I will not let you in unless I love you;

5. If you interfere with my freedom, or because of being with you Contact wants to lock me in to find my true love - I flash!

Young Gemini men are very easy to hurt others for two reasons:

Gemini men have different definitions of interest, liking, ambiguity, and love from ordinary people. In the first two cases, Gemini's logic is: I am not yours and I can run away at any time. This is often misunderstood by girls as half-heartedness;

Although the second young Gemini has his own emotional logic, he is often misunderstood because of his super weak Take control and betray your own logic.

The above are the fundamental reasons why Gemini is known as a "playboy". In fact, Gemini has its own bottom line. For example, when it comes to sex, Gemini is just curious, but they still hold traditional concepts. The classic Gemini quote is: For my sweetheart, I can lend you my shoulders and even my lips, but I will not give you my first night.

Let’s talk about mature Gemini men (in fact, the maturity of Gemini is often more closely related to experience than age). It is easy for Gemini to like someone, but it is difficult to fall in love with someone, and there is no earthly truth. Many reasons, including appearance, family, education, job, region, nationality... are not the standard. It's hard for me to say what the standard is. I can only say that it is very happy to be loved by a mature Gemini.

Why do you say that? (Why)

1. Gemini men are very good at introspection and flexibility. They instinctively know all their weaknesses, and their modest nature makes them happy to admit their shortcomings. When years of precipitation and experience make them After Gemini finally knows how to deal with their biggest enemy "impetuousness" and recognizes the life they want, Gemini's own advantages are fully revealed. Their high sensitivity to new things and their extraordinary learning ability make them You can move forward and retreat freely in this ever-changing era. To measure "whether a Gemini man has matured", we need to see whether he has learned to let go. If a Gemini man is willing to streamline his messy and varied interests to nothing more, and each one is closely related to you, it means that you are indeed the person he is looking for. Some people say that Gemini is very stubborn and it is difficult to change his personality.

This makes sense, but this does not mean that Geminis will not change. On the contrary, they are a group of people who are very willing to change themselves. They are as malleable as children, but their way of change is introspective and comes from within. Therefore, if his love for you has been strong enough to make him reflect on himself to the point where he wants to grow for you, his love has been deeply ingrained and will never change;

Gemini’s innate spirit of exploration gives Gemini the ability to deeply fall in love with him. A girl will be very willing to observe and study this girl, grasp all her emotions, and can control the scale very well. To judge whether a Gemini man has fallen in love with you is actually very simple, just look at how he treats you. If he knows all the details of your life, if he often reveals information about you inadvertently, and even knows it better than you do, then it is obvious that he has fallen in love with you. When you need to talk, he is a quiet listener; when you need advice, he is a rational analyzer; when you need comfort, he is a penetrating spiritual mentor; when you need passion, he is a romantic lover ; When you need warmth, he is a gentle lover; when you need quietness, he will wait quietly by your side; when you need to be alone, he will walk away knowingly... The love contained in Gemini is powerful Yes, it’s just that when they were young, they spread their energy too thinly out of curiosity. And once it reaches a certain point, the energy must be beyond your imagination, just like his zodiac sign, it can bloom double the talent and power.

Three Gemini men are actually very persistent and dedicated. For example, Gemini rarely has principles, and some of them have large and vague principles with multiple interpretations. The right to explain lies with him. He can always give a logical explanation for his actions, and you can't convince him. For example, Gemini men generally believe in the life principle of "take the law first". They always pursue the highest goals in career and relationships, and they like to challenge themselves. But on the day when he fulfills his ambition, you will find that the Gemini man's job or lover does not seem to be perfect. At this time, you are wrong to try to laugh at Gemini man's life principles. You have forgotten that Gemini man has the second half of the sentence: if you get it, what you get may only be average. Gemini man will compromise with life. Accept the outcome that's not too bad. Gemini men seem to have no principles because they are open-minded and more receptive to new things, and Gemini's philosophy is: existence makes sense, and we have no right to deny it easily. Because principles rarely appear, they remain unknown. Once a Gemini thinks they have found true love, they will have a very good grasp of the scale of interactions with other members of the opposite sex and will never go off the rails easily. Maybe you can still see him having fun with other women, but he has given his heart to

Si and Gemini men are very happy to get along with each other, because these are a group of 80-year-old children who still have childlike innocence, and are born humor masters, which are different from the Aries man's funny talent. Gemini man's humor is based on his extensive knowledge and quick reactions. The jokes he tells often have a lag effect that lasts for several seconds or even a night. When you wake up, you suddenly want to understand something Gemini man said last night. From the subtext, you can understand how incredible the man next to you is. Mature Gemini men usually have a very healthy psychological system. What they bring to their lovers is a sunny mentality and a relaxed philosophy of life. Even after five years of marriage, Gemini men can still live their lives like first love and honeymoon

Five Geminis are born to be good communicators and coordinators, good at observing what is happening and understanding others. This talent is a very good lubricant for the lives of two people. You rarely see Geminis quarreling - although they are actually debating. Master - he often doesn't understand why those red-faced people are arguing. This is not to say that the Gemini man is lazy in thinking, but because there are two thoughts in his mind that are constantly fighting. Once the battle reaches a resolution, he will firmly believe in it. Outsiders can hardly shake his belief. He must be rational. It is too difficult to change a Gemini man's decision from a logical perspective, but from an emotional perspective there are often unexpected effects.

Precisely because Gemini men are tactful, in order to avoid getting into endless arguments with others, they simply stay out of the focus of the conflict, with a detached attitude that remains unmoved regardless of the wind and waves. Gemini men like to solve problems in a gentle way, especially with their lovers. Conflicts and conflicts will always be invisible in Gemini-style communication and teasing;

Sixth and most important point, Gemini’s love for love His understanding is dedication rather than possession and request. He loves you, and the process of giving is what makes him happiest, so it is very easy to be loved by Gemini. You will not hear words such as "I have given so much and you have given so much." "What?" With such careless words, Gemini will bless you from the bottom of his heart even when you leave after having paid a lot for you. There is one in Malos' hierarchy of needs theory: people have the need to love and be loved. Most people only see the need to be loved, but in Gemini's view, the need to love is equally or even more important. Most Geminis do not live for themselves, but for the people they love. Geminis who have lost their emotional support are mostly 60-point super bastards. Their energy and wisdom need a fulcrum to explode, and that is "love" .

Having said so many good things about Gemini, I need to clarify that Gemini is not a lover. Whether they are mature or young, they only have one standard for evaluating integrity in love, but it is very strict, and that is - open your heart. interaction. You can be wrong in all kinds of ways, and I even allow you to cheat, but if you always close your heart and wait and watch during the relationship, then this is the most intolerable thing for Gemini. They like to live vigorously and die vigorously. Gemini realizes that all communication is one-way, so Gemini leaves resolutely. (This is the most accurate sentence I can write about Gemini after studying horoscopes)

All Geminis are pure children - even after they have gone through many hardships. People who have been hurt by Gemini, please forgive them. They made mistakes as children, but they were never intentional; girls who have been loved by a serious Gemini, please cherish them, because you rarely have the chance to meet the love you love again. There are such simple people. Once they let go, they will never look back. They will only keep looking for someone worthy of love with a smile on their faces. They will be so cool that you doubt whether they have ever really loved you, but please believe that this is Really, Geminis are the most capable people in the world.