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It has been more than ten days in a row, and Shuai Shuai always wets the bed at night.

At first, I thought I drank too much water before going to bed, so I controlled him to drink water. After 7 o'clock in the evening, not only did he not drink water, but also his favorite milk and watermelon, not to mention.

Even so, he still wets the bed. I patiently told him the disadvantages of wetting the bed and how uncomfortable it was for him to lie on the wet bedding. He understood, and he understood.

I also taught him how to call Mom and Dad when he wants to pee in the middle of the night, and I specially left nightlight to call us.

What's the reason, Shuai Shuai wet the bed?

Reason one: children sleep too hard.

Maybe I was too crazy and tired during the day and slept deeply at night. Even if I want to pee, I can't wake up. In addition, the child's cerebral cortex is slow to develop and cannot inhibit the urination center. After sleeping, there was no inhibitory contraction, urine excretion and bed wetting.

This situation is called "involuntary carelessness" in psychology. Most babies over three years old wet the bed for this reason. The child didn't mean to, just because the nerve development is not perfect, and he can't control the urination behavior well.

The baby's metabolism is vigorous. The younger you are, the more active your metabolism of heat and water is and the more times you urinate. With the increase of complementary food and the gradual improvement of renal function, the frequency of his urination will gradually decrease.

Because of the baby's individual differences, affected by water consumption, temperature and other factors, urine volume and urination times are also very different.

Shuai Shuai's mother said that Shuai Shuai should not drink water, milk or watermelon before going to bed. That is to say, Shuai Shuai doesn't drink much water, so it's unlikely to wet the bed continuously for this reason.

Excluding physiological factors, Shuai Shuai's bedwetting should explore psychological reasons.

Reason 2: Major events and family changes lead to great stress.

Major family changes, such as parents' divorce, sudden death of important relatives, or moving to a new kindergarten, have caused psychological pressure on children.

However, parents' care and companionship were not in place in time, and children could not feel their parents' love. Without care, they will become eccentric, lonely, timid and unsociable, and may wet their beds at night.

This is the case in Shuai Shuai.

During the continuous bed-wetting, it is the stage of parents' divorce mediation, although they think they are well hidden and don't show much in front of Shuai Shuai.

But for children, even if they are very young, it seems that there is a sensitive radar that can accurately capture the emotional changes of parents and the imbalance of family relations, and they will feel anxious and insecure.

Shuai Shuai's parents didn't take care of his emotions and gave him a good explanation, which made him feel helpless and anxious. So he showed such a purposeful behavior as wetting the bed.

Subconsciously, I tried to attract my parents' attention, get care and attention, reduce anxiety and increase my sense of security with such deviant behavior.

How to reduce bed wetting?

Let the children change their own clothes.

Parents should not help their children change their wet pants, let them take responsibility for changing clothes or bedding themselves, and it is best to wash them themselves.

After children have experienced the discomfort and inconvenience caused by wet urine properly, they will understand the importance of consciously controlling defecation and learn to control defecation.

Correct approach

Let the children change their dirty pants, do their own hygiene and experience the comfort of clean and dry pants, pajamas and mattresses.

You can also put a diaper on your child and tell him to wet the bed if he really can't wake up. With diapers, the mattress won't get wet, which eliminates the children's nervousness, and relieves the psychological pressure.