Give grandma a bath

In this life, most childhood memories are related to my grandmother. She has always been so strict in my heart that I am afraid. This may be an exaggeration, but it's true. Every time I heard her voice, I used to tremble with fear.

Recently, I listened to Guardian of the Dead, which said that the elderly should be allowed to choose the way to leave, or more about whether it is necessary to carry out life-prolonging treatment. This reminds me of that night last summer. That night, grandma had been in pain all day, and the elders at home still didn't decide whether to take her to the hospital. It was not until after work that I felt afraid of waiting for death and wanted to leave, knowing why.

Listening to her moaning in bed, I feel that since it is all pain, the hope of treatment is better than no treatment. After treatment, the pain will be relieved. It has been a year since I decided to send my grandmother to the hospital.

Today's grandmother is still alive after receiving a critical notice in the hospital. I don't know whether my original decision has brought her life-prolonging effect today. I don't know whether she wants to live to the present or leave us at that time. Time and tide wait for no man, now it has become a very difficult thing to finish self-cleaning.

They all say that their daughters are sweet. Every time my grandmother takes a bath, almost all my aunts go to my uncle's house to give her a bath. Today is my aunt's 50th birthday. She lives at her uncle's house. Taking advantage of the fine weather, my cousin and I decided to give grandma a bath and shampoo, and let my aunt have a rest.

To tell the truth, I have never touched grandma's skin. Seeing the process of her wrinkles increasing, she ignored that her body, like her face, was stolen by time quietly, and her body became only a little skin and bones. There is probably a little bubble meat mixed in the middle, which is not elastic.

I often meet some old people, who will give off peculiar smell and make people stay away from them. My grandmother is over 80 years old, saying that she knows her way too much. Therefore, she has always been a very hygienic person. When I was a child, the dam where my family dried millet was the road that many people walked. In my impression, although grandma also raises chickens and ducks, she has never seen chicken manure and duck manure.

So, up to now, she still talks about hygiene like that. It's just that time waits for no one, and she can only ask others to help her finish it every time. But she was also a strong person when she was young. Because of this, she doesn't want to cause trouble to others, including her own children and grandchildren. She is full of gratitude.

I want to say that at this age, you can't eat and wear as you like, your body loses its beauty, and everything depends on the help of others. When you don't even go out of the bedroom door once a day, you are really better than anyone else.

Having a good attitude is not only about your old age. It triggers your happiness almost anytime and anywhere. Make your life colorful.