Some boys say I'm not easy to control. What does that mean?

No matter what you think, I want to remind you first. In recent years, there have been many cases of girls being raped. Many girls regard boys as their buddies and are raped defenseless. So I want to say that it is better for girls to keep a proper distance from boys. Back to your question. They don't think you are good at driving. It is nothing more than that in their minds, girls are weak and indecisive, but obviously, you are more open-minded and bold in your actions, which is completely beyond their cognition of girls. Besides, let's talk about my suggestion. My suggestion is that you should have a good talk with them and tell them directly that you don't want to fall in love yet. Occasionally casually mention your own mate selection criteria (such as studying well or something). If they really like you, they will work hard, and then in a few years, maybe you want to fall in love, or maybe you like this boy who loves learning and falling in love with progress.