I feel guilty and happy. Tell me about it.

1, more and more understand, don't overestimate your relationship with anyone except three or five friends and close people. There are always a few people who can let you pour out your heart. Some people don't contact each other for a day or two, so they slowly lose contact and gradually become dispensable people in each other's lives. Everyone thinks that friendship can last forever, but the hardest thing is to keep in touch.

2. True practice is not to escape, not to escape, but to face it cheerfully, accept it completely, and accept all the good and bad things you are experiencing at the moment.

It's good to be a quiet person. I don't fight for it. I believe I can't run away, not that I can't grab it. I am responsible for smiling when a group of people are arguing. I'm not too happy or too sad. This is the only time in the world, so I will relax and not be disturbed by others. I can listen to other people's ideas and think about my life. Appreciate others, hello I am not bad, you have a big world and I have a small life. This place is easy to take a leisurely walk.

4. Sometimes, I know something by chance, only to find that what I care about is so ridiculous. Don't think that people who can't let you go will not let you go. Fish will die without water, but water without fish will be clearer. Who is not hypocritical, who is not fickle, and finally no one. Why do you overestimate yourself and take some people and things so seriously?

When people reach a certain age, God will take away some of your dreams and friends, which will make you disappointed again and again in the face of reality. I gradually found that people around me are pursuing different things, and sometimes they can't understand each other's ideas, just like they are not at the same level or in one dimension. Don't be reluctant to talk to each other, don't regret what you left behind, and cherish what you left behind.

6, do not eat idle meals, do not look at the cold face; Don't hide yourself or expose others; Do not lose childlike interest and charm; Don't laugh at the poor and don't owe people money; Dont Ask For Help likes it, but doesn't hate it.

7. The clock will not turn counterclockwise, and time will not stop for anyone. Instead of worrying about the passing time, seize every minute. One mistake that young people often make is to think too much and do too little, and waste a lot of time on meaningless thinking and struggle. So when your talent can't support your ambition, then you should calm down and learn and experience, and don't live up to your best self in the best years.

8. Not explaining is calm. He who sees through is not persistent. Imperfection is life. Live a carefree life with a willing attitude. Where you are, the world is there.

9. I have always felt that a person's best quality is kindness. But the kinder you are, the deeper you are hurt by the bad guys. This is not good or wrong, but your lack of skills to protect yourself. Because your kindness will be considered as cowardice. Often get hurt, just because you are too good. Learning to protect yourself is the premise of kindness. Otherwise, don't be nice to people casually. Everything is enough, and if you are too kind, you will lack your mind; Excessive humility will make you weak.

10, life is nothing more than doing three things well: first, know how to choose, find the way that suits you, don't look around, don't be greedy, and don't get lost in the flowers. The second is to understand how to persist. There are few scenery on the easy road, and there are many hardships on the sparsely populated road. Don't blindly follow suit, and don't blindly follow suit. Only by persisting in this moment can we see the scenery of the next moment. The third is to know how to give up. What belongs to you is limited after all. Give up the stars and you will reap the dawn.

1 1, a person must be neither too smart nor too stupid to be truly happy. People call this state between intelligence and stupidity the wisdom of life.

12, if you can't be a gift in other people's lives, then you'd better not walk into other people's lives.

Live a beautiful life with a willing attitude and live a carefree life.

First, fairy tales are deceptive. Why are there so many Cinderella? At that time, palace or palace, kitchen or kitchen.

Second, life is like a journey, with hardships and scenery. What you can see is your realm of life. Always seeing people who are better than yourself shows that you are going uphill; Always seeing people who are similar to yourself shows that you are almost fooling around; Always seeing people who are not as good as yourself means that you are going downhill. It is better to change yourself than to complain. Mind your own heart and do your own thing better than anything else.

Third, what we need most is a beating, tenacious and powerful heart, not afraid, not flustered and not lost for a while. We should know that others and the world are not changed by us, but they are the best soil for our spiritual growth. Life is always a choice, and the real relic need not be persistent. The good opportunity may be when we let go. We repaired our hearts and saw the road ahead. Things change, no matter how stormy it is, you can still make your own flowers.

Fourth, many times, the threshold that we thought we couldn't cross for a while, but looking back after a while, has actually been easily skipped; The moment we thought we couldn't do, in fact, we endured it and naturally passed. Everything that doesn't beat you will make you stronger. If time can't beat you, it will also save you.

Don't test love, because love is fragile. You either believe it all the time or you don't love it. Temptation again and again is to test deception with deception. Will destroy the foundation of trust. In fact, when you fall in love with someone, it means that you are willing to believe, although you may get hurt. But isn't love just putting your life into an unknown bet? Time is the only test of love.

6. The common problem of many girls' love is to take love too seriously. In fact, love is insignificant in the vast world. Why is it difficult for men to be trapped by love? Because they pay little attention to love. This is probably the healthiest attitude towards love.

Seven, happiness, there is never a shortcut, nor is it perfect, only business, only by sincerity.

Eight, today's events will become small things tomorrow; The biggest thing this year, next year is a story; The biggest thing in this life, the afterlife will be a legend. Life is like a journey, with hardships and scenery. What you can see is your realm of life. Always seeing people who are better than yourself shows that you are going uphill; Always seeing people who are not as good as yourself means that you are going downhill. It is better to think about change than to complain.

Nine, we think we love each other too much to give up, but in a tiny joint, you will suddenly wake up. If you miss it, it will expire. Attachments will also expire. Amy Cheung

Ten, a person in love, more powerful than the devil or angel, can get everything.

Live a carefree life with a willing attitude.

Twelve, time makes deep things deeper and deeper, and makes shallow things shallower and shallower. If you look down, you will get less hurt. Time has changed, love will fade and break up. Don't wait for someone who shouldn't wait, and don't be heartbroken. It was really a long time before I realized what kind of people and things I really missed. ......

Thirteen, people who struggle with the devil should always be vigilant, so as not to become the devil themselves. If you look at the abyss for a long time, the abyss looks at you. -Nietzsche

Fourteen, everyone knows that losing your temper is not good, but you will still lose your temper; The reason why you lose your temper is often because you are incompetent. When you face some problems and your ability is not enough to deal with them, your emotions will get excited and the exhaust gas in your body will rise sharply. If there is no other outlet, losing your temper will become an option; And when your ability is enough to deal with problems, your temper will not breed, and you will become an able person without temper.

Fifteen, be tolerant of others, and you won't always be disappointed; Be strict with yourself and you won't be depressed all the time.

16. Only by accepting the past and the present will you have the energy to pursue your future.

Seventeen, when I was young, I loved swearing, and I often broke up with my friends and my boss. In retrospect, do you regret it? No, I can't force myself. If you live again, you will still make the same choice, but you will remember to be more positive when giving up. It will make you better, make better friends and choose a better job, instead of hiding in a corner coldly and being angry with the world alone.

Eighteen, the heart, should be a tree, standing silently, can not only accept the sun, but also endure the wind and rain.

19. Life is just a trip. You pass by me and I pass by you. Then, we practice separately and move forward separately. -Half-life plainclothes in northern Iraq

Twenty, it is said that women in love have the lowest IQ, and even in the face of deception, they are still stupid and refuse to get away. But after reading a lot of stupid women in love, I realized that love is not an IQ test: a woman is not stupid, just because she can't bear it, so she chooses to play dumb with him-Su Qin.

2 1. Once an enemy becomes a friend, he is more reliable than a friend. Once a friend becomes an enemy, he is more dangerous than the enemy.

Understand 40 sentences of life and live a carefree life with a willing attitude.

Introduction: Feelings are the same as time, and you can't go back. No matter who turns around first and then looks back, it is no longer the original time and space. Instead of saying to yourself: always shallow, but deep; It is better to say to yourself: let go of the past and let yourself go.

1, many people often want a lot, but when they get it, they find that the cost is far greater than the return!

Sometimes I think it's ridiculous. People who occupy a small part of our memory often leave the deepest impression on us.

3. A person's life is a drama. You must be serious when acting, but you must not be too confused.

If there is no soul, the most beautiful thing is just a marionette.

The highest level of friends is that you are gay in the eyes of others.

6. There is always a person who has been living in the bottom of my heart, but has disappeared into life.

7. When you surpass others a little, others will envy you; When you greatly surpass others, others will envy you.

8. Live a carefree life with a willing attitude.

9. A lifelong friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future and tolerates your present.

10, there is a feeling that I have been suffering from insomnia before I admit that it is acacia; There is a fate that I always believe is eternal after waking up from my dream; There is an eye that always sees "attachment" when breaking up; There is a feeling that you will always be lost after parting.

1 1, Sanmao said: If there is an afterlife, be a tree and stand forever, without a sad posture: half in the dust and half flying in the air; Half cool, half sunny. Very silent, very proud, never dependent, never expecting.

12, be yourself, don't try to be someone just to please others. Being the original self is better than being a copy of anyone.

13, the road of life is forced out. You never know how much you can do unless you push yourself. Cut off the retreat, and you will naturally find a way out; Cut off your fantasy and you will work hard. Force yourself to take the first step, and the second and third steps will be much easier. If you don't push yourself, laziness will gradually corrode your heart, your once lofty sentiments will vanish and the value of life will be greatly reduced.

14, a person can easily walk out of other people's world, but can't walk out of his own desert.

15, if you are bullied when you are young, you will always hate to think that you must get ahead in the future, so that people will sit up and take notice. But when there is such a day, I don't remember to hate. It turns out that the real strength is tolerance, not forgiving others, but letting yourself go.

16, when you can face up to the inherent clumsiness and loneliness in your body, you can fully understand yourself in the past. Most people live like us, not smart, but sincere; Although you will make mistakes, you are calm.

17. Prove whether I have a place in your heart. There is only one standard in the whole universe and galaxy, that is, whether you play mobile phone in front of me. -Liu Tong

18, appropriate sadness can show deep feelings, but excessive sadness can prove the lack of wisdom.

19, God answers in three ways: nod to give you what you want; He shook his head to give you something better; He told you to wait, so he gave you the best.

20, hate, can provoke disputes, love, can cover all mistakes.

2 1, like is nature, natural instinct; But love needs to be learned.

22. Don't be afraid to do something wrong. Even if you are wrong, you don't have to be sad. There are right and wrong in life, not to mention many things. In retrospect, right or wrong doesn't matter.

23. It is normal for that person to suddenly not contact you; That person, suddenly contacting you again, is normal and didn't say anything.

24. Don't tell a person who is in the same circle, no matter how reliable you think he is.

Don't say anything when you don't know what to say to him. Silence has infinite meaning.

26. Just be a quiet and reserved person, be free and open in the corner, please people silently, but never attract too much attention, and keep an independent and casual character.

27, a lot of things, just see it; If you can't open it, you have to get through it. Don't think that you can't get through without opening your eyes.

28. The splendor and preciousness of youth lies in its innocence, in the fact that it can be met but not sought, and in the fact that it is gone forever.

29. Fate is so wonderful. If you want to stay, you must always understand that they are just the last fireworks. You don't think about what you won in the past, but you are inadvertently sucked into your lungs like air. When you want to leave, you find that you can't leave him anymore.

30. For life, acceptance is the best gentleness, whether it is accepting a person's appearance or accepting a person's disappearance.

3 1, there is still a long way to go, and you have to go alone. You're on your own. Do it on your own. Instead of relying on anyone.

32. The key point in life is that you met someone who led you a long way. Or something happened that affected your thoughts. From then on, your life will be different.

33. The best way to avoid heartbreak is to pretend that you have no heart.

34. If someone hurts you, please be kind and beautiful as always, and enjoy life and love as if you have never been hurt. One day that person will regret missing you.

35. The art of living lies in grasping every concession and persistence.

36. Feelings, like time, can't go back. No matter who turns around first and then looks back, it is no longer the original time and space. Instead of saying to yourself: always shallow, but deep; It is better to say to yourself: let go of the past and let yourself go.

37. Who comes into your life is determined by fate; Who stays in your life depends on you.

38, like you, don't need a reason; Don't like you, anything can be the reason.

39. Learn to live alone, no matter whether someone around you loves you or not. Do what you should do, and treat it safely with or without love.

40. There is a kind of missing, which is called avoiding and not seeing.

Editor's note: If there is an afterlife, be a tree and stand in an eternal position without sadness: half in the dust and half flying in the air; Half cool, half sunny. Very silent, very proud, never dependent, never expecting.

Live a carefree life with a willing attitude

First, sometimes, we can't be really happy if we forgive that person, because you forget to forgive yourself.

At least once in your life, you will lose your reserve, put down your self-esteem and destroy all your principles for one person.

3. Are parents ready for the first working day of 20xx? To work hard with sweat today is not to see hope, but to work hard to see hope.

Fourth, sitting next to me is you who have never been sad, and sitting next to you is me who has never been happy. Sadly, after the end of the song, I suddenly realized that I can't have you sitting next to me anymore. I am really unhappy.

Fifth, everything is quiet. All eternity, the passage of time is just a dream. When you wake up, people will be scattered.

6. The greatest encouragement for persistence is not that you can, but that after many years, you can say that you are lucky not to give up.

Don't judge others by what you see. Because what you see is exactly what they want you to see. What appears on the surface is often not the truth.

Eight, you have to believe that no one in this world will be good to you for no reason. Every effort has a pair of eyes staring at you eager to be rewarded. If you keep pretending to sleep, you will be awakened sooner or later.

Nine, don't hurt people who love you with decisive words when you are in a bad mood.

I am doing two things now, one is to be excellent, and the other is to wait for you.

Eleven, to forget a relationship, there is always only one way: time and new love. If neither time nor new love can make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough and new love is not good enough.

It must be harder to say goodbye, because whoever looks at it more may be the last one, and saying more may be the last one.

Thirteen, love at first sight, obviously this color. Love grows with time, but it is necessary to weigh the pros and cons. Even growing old together is just a habit.

Breaking is not the most cruel thing, the most cruel thing is to step on these fragments and pretend to be indifferent and stubbornly look for them.

Fifteen, many times, a person's change begins with the arrival or departure of another person.

Sixteen, where the feet can't reach, the eyes can reach, and where the eyes can't reach, the spirit can fly.

Seventeen, when you think you have made the biggest concession and sacrifice, others may just think that this stupid thing is worthless. Don't flatter yourself. If you can't give what you need, everything will be in vain.

18. If you know where you are? In people's minds? It's so important that you will be much happier.

Nineteen, actually people are very cheap. People who love you and spoil you are not rare, and those who are as cold as ice are chasing after you. Finally, I was black and blue.

20. The best life is not that there are no obstacles in Ma Pingchuan, but that you cross or bypass roadblocks and move on; The best chance is not not to be injured, but to be willing to run with injuries.

2 1. Live a carefree life with a willing attitude.

22. Never think that we can escape. Every step we take determines the final outcome, and our feet are towards our destination.

Twenty-three, many things that we thought we would never forget were forgotten in the days that we never forget.

The person who is best to you, in other words, is the person who is the best bully. The woman in the world always bullies the man who is best for her.

Twenty-five, time, let the deep things sink deeper and deeper, and let the shallow things sink deeper and deeper.

The world won't be sad because of you, and we will learn to get along with ourselves.