My mother-in-law and nanny take care of the baby together. I want to monitor it just in case. My mother-in-law is very opposed. How can I convince her?

Installing monitoring may make her mother-in-law feel uncomfortable and uneasy, so she needs patience and understanding to persuade her. Here are some suggestions that may be useful:

1. Respect your mother-in-law's opinions: First of all, you need to respect your mother-in-law's opinions and understand her worries and anxieties. Try to communicate with your mother-in-law in a peaceful and rational way, express your thoughts and concerns, and listen to her views and feelings.

2. Emphasize the purpose of monitoring: explain that monitoring is installed to protect children's safety, not to monitor mother-in-law or nanny. It is worth mentioning that in some emergency situations, monitoring can help solve problems and provide additional protection.

3. Consider the mother-in-law's feelings: try to alleviate her mother-in-law's anxiety and worry. You can suggest choosing an inconspicuous monitoring location, such as living room or bedroom, to ensure that only you and your family can view the monitoring content.

4. Propose an appropriate solution: If the mother-in-law still opposes the installation of monitoring, other solutions can be considered. For example, it can be suggested to install a buzzer or an emergency call device, so that relevant personnel can be contacted quickly in an emergency.

5. Help others: If the above methods still can't convince your mother-in-law, you can consider helping others. For example, you can ask relatives or professionals who are familiar with the family situation to explain the necessity of monitoring from the perspective of a third party, or ask someone trusted by your mother-in-law to help persuade you.

Most importantly, keep understanding and respect, and don't let conflicts escalate or affect family relationships.