Talk about children's feelings of asking for money.

If in life, our children suddenly reach out to us for ten yuan of pocket money, what kind of reaction should we make as parents? Xiaoming said to his mother, "Can Mom give me ten dollars?" When his mother asked Xiao Ming what he wanted with the ten yuan, Xiao Ming replied, "My best friend, his birthday is coming, and I want to buy him a small gift with ten yuan."

After listening to Xiao Ming's words, mom slapped Xiao Amin in the face and said to Xiao Ming, "Mom works so hard to make money, how dare you ask her for money?" What gifts do children want every day? " This kind of thing does not happen occasionally. Xiaoming gets such an answer every time he asks his mother for money, and her mother scolds him every time. Over time, Xiaoming's concept of money has also been greatly influenced.

Moreover, Xiao Ming's mother also found that the child was becoming more and more disobedient. She often says that the school needs to pay for books to make up lessons. In short, she asked for money for various reasons. Once, a child came to Xiaoming's house, and his mother said, "Can you take out your pocket money and buy an ice cream for the child?" But Xiao Ming answered "I have no money", which shows that the mother's answer has a great influence on the children.

Because Xiaoming's mother thinks it is very hard for her and her husband to make money, she often nags in her children's ears that she has no money and it is very hard to make money, so Xiaoming also values money very much, so Xiaoming also feels inferior when getting along with friends in life. Therefore, as parents, when children reach out to us for money, they must not say these three sentences, because this will affect their horizons and the height of life.

The first sentence is where do children need to spend money? Parents think that their children's lives are taken care of by their parents, and there is no need to spend money in life, but every child has his own unique social circle whether he goes to school or associates with friends. Ok, I will also send some small gifts to each other. Therefore, they also need money in their lives. If they only accept gifts from their friends, but don't return them, they will be excluded by their friends.

The second sentence is, do you know how hard it is for me to work hard to make money every day? The third sentence is, do you think money is blown by strong winds? I believe many parents like to say this to their children. Parents think that if they tell their children this way, they will understand their parents' difficulties. But what every mom and dad can't think of is that such a complaining tone will not only make children understand, but also make them feel guilty. They feel that it is because of themselves that their parents need to work so hard, so their personality will become very weak.