Mother-in-law, do you really have no say in buying a house for your sister-in-law with your grandson's 80 thousand lucky money?

My name is Yuan Shan, and I'm 36 years old. In the past two days, my mother-in-law cheated her son of 80,000 lucky money in order to buy a house for her sister-in-law. My sister-in-law divorced, and her husband ate, drank, gambled and finally divorced. When we first got married, my husband's family bought the house in full, without my sister-in-law's name, and her husband had no savings. My sister-in-law almost led her two-year-old daughter out of the house clean. Actually, I feel sorry for her. My sister-in-law went to Lacrimosa every day after returning to her parents' home, and she didn't go out to work, and she didn't like meeting people. My mother-in-law sighed, "Alas, this woman has no house, and she doesn't even have a place to live after the divorce. She wants to buy a house for her daughter! "

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But I don't think it is urgent to buy a house first. My sister-in-law is only 28 this year. It is the right way to find a suitable man for her to remarry as soon as possible. Can't she live with her children all her life alone? But my mother-in-law is going to make a long-term plan. My mother-in-law said, "This man is really unreliable. You see how many people are happy in their second marriage. If my daughter gets divorced and I die, my daughter won't even have a place to stay. No, I have to buy her a house, or I can't close my eyes when I die! " My mother-in-law is determined to buy a house. I can't find a way to buy a house for my daughter. The only worry is that if my mother-in-law buys more than 400 thousand pension money for her sister-in-law, it will all depend on her husband and us.

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However, as a sister-in-law, I can't stand in the way. I discussed it with my husband. I said that your mother bought a house for your sister and paid a down payment at most. What should she pay in full? After spending all the money, isn't it all our business to provide for the aged and see a doctor in the future? Will your sister take care of it? Besides, my mother-in-law lives in this suite with us and has a mortgage. Why do you want to buy a suite for your sister-in-law in full? I just talk and mumble, but my husband is a good man and won't pass these words on to his mother. I thought my mother-in-law would try to lend some money to my sister-in-law to buy a house, but she stole my son's 80 thousand lucky money!

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My father-in-law did business while he was here, and he had some savings in his hand. My son is his only grandson, so he gives a big red envelope every New Year. Now my son 10 years old has saved almost 80,000 yuan. But this money is not in my mother's hand, and has been kept by my mother-in-law. Grandson is looked after by her mother-in-law. Grandma jokingly said, "grandson, you can't give this money to your mother." What if she wants to spend it? " Nobody can move, grandma can help! "

We all know the password of this passbook, which is my son's birthday, but my mother-in-law saved it for so many years and bought a house for my sister-in-law without saying a word! My mother-in-law and I have a problem. My mother-in-law said: "Now I bought the house, and I bought it in full, only 80,000 yuan. This 80 thousand lucky money was originally given by me! What's wrong? " I really regret it. Why didn't I insist on holding the passbook this year? After that, my mother-in-law had no money, and it was all her husband's business to support the elderly. Should I ask my sister-in-law for this 80 thousand yuan? What did you say?/Sorry?