“We went on three blind dates and broke up after only spending 20,000 yuan. He is such a scumbag. I don’t want to be taken advantage of.” What do you think?

"Isn't there a decent woman among today's women?" A few days ago, Xiaoyong said this to me with a sad and angry look.

Xiaoyong is 30 years old this year. His parents are very anxious about his marriage, so they always introduce him to various partners. For Xiaoyong, blind dates are commonplace, but even if No matter how many blind dates he has, Xiaoyong still has a bumpy road on the road of love. In Xiaoyong's words, he is often deceived.

His most recent relationship came and went as quickly as it came. They met on a blind date platform. After three blind dates, the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend was confirmed, but as soon as the relationship was confirmed, Xiaoyong took the initiative to break up.

Because Xiaoyong was very scared, he spent nearly more than 20,000 yuan on that woman after only three blind dates, many of which were requested by the woman, although Xiaoyong's income was good. , he didn’t care about the money, but he still felt it was inappropriate, thinking that this girl was only after her money, because even after confirming the relationship, the woman did not tell him where her company was or where her home was. She also said that being more secretive to each other would be more attractive. No matter how Xiaoyong asked, the other party would not tell her.

It was precisely because of these concerns that when the woman asked Xiaoyong to buy cosmetics for her again, Xiaoyong broke up with her. Xiaoyong originally thought that when he heard that he broke up, this woman would try to persuade him to stay and ask him why, but he didn't know that after listening to his words, this woman said to Xiaoyong very calmly: "Why?" Xiaoyong replied: "I don't want to be taken advantage of, and I don't want to be deceived by you again. Don't you just want me to buy you something?"

Xiaoyong thought that the woman would be speechless after hearing this, but who knew that the woman said righteously: "So you are afraid of spending money, I am just It's just a test for you. After three blind dates, we broke up after only spending 20,000 yuan. What a scumbag." Hearing this, Xiaoyong was speechless and left silently without speaking. He didn't bother to ask for the things that were given away because he didn't want to see this woman again.

It was also after being deceived again and again that Xiaoyong gradually did not believe in love, and even often said, "There are too few good women in the world. Most women nowadays either worship money or are very realistic. They are not at all There are not many decent women.”

It is precisely because of the anxiety about marriage that Xiaoyong asked me: "What kind of woman is a good woman?"

Shili has something to say:

In my opinion, I strongly disagree with what Xiaoyong said, because in my opinion, there are actually not many good women in the world, even Most women are good women. Otherwise, this society would have been in chaos long ago, and there wouldn't be so many happy families.

For most men, it’s not that there are no good women in the world, but that they haven’t met any good women.

In reality, I often hear many men complain that they cannot meet good women. In fact, in my opinion, it is not that they cannot meet good women, or even most men. Everyone has met a good woman before, but at that time, they didn't know how to cherish it, so they missed it.

In my opinion, these two kinds of women are good women, and men will earn money if they marry them.

A woman who can accompany you through thick and thin and never leave you is a good woman.

It is said: "It is easy to add icing on the cake, but difficult to provide help when you need it." When you succeed, there are many people by your side, and there are even many women who can tell you the promise of eachother, but it is true. There must be very few women who can accompany you through thick and thin and never leave you when you are at the lowest point in your life.

In relationships, women who can enjoy happiness with you may not necessarily love you, because they may only love your money; women who can tell you that they are committed to each other may not necessarily love you, either. Because they may just be talking; maybe the woman who is still by your side when you are at the lowest point in your life must love you, because in her heart, you are everything to her, and she can give her all for you. Everything, even if you are betting on the uncertain future, so don’t miss it if you encounter it, and you will earn it if you marry it.

A woman who can understand you and consider you at all times is a good woman.

It is often said that money is easy to come by, but a confidant is hard to find. In fact, it is even more rare to find a woman who can understand you.

In a relationship, a woman who can understand you and consider you at all times is actually a good woman.

Because people are inherently selfish, so when a woman is willing to take the initiative to understand you and consider you at all times, it can only prove that this woman likes you from the bottom of her heart and recognizes you from the bottom of her heart. That's why she treats you like this.

In relationships, in fact, many times, it is not that we have not met our beloved, but that we have met but did not cherish it, so we missed it. So I often tell the boys and girls around me to learn to cherish the people in front of them, because once you miss some people, they will be with you forever.