On the right to speak

A person's pattern is often humiliated and hurt. "Being scolded is an ability." Yes, this is the real workplace environment. If you can treat every humiliation and injury as a nutritional treasure you need for transformation, it will definitely feed your pattern. Otherwise, after things change, others will only remember your outburst, but not the reason, leaving others with the impression that you are incompetent. In the workplace, we all have no choice to avoid humiliation; However, when humiliation comes, you don't have to be afraid. As long as you can exercise yourself and have the ability to reshape yourself every time you get hurt, you will definitely break out of the cocoon in the workplace, and the humiliation and injury you swallow are worth it. Whoever can swallow more grievances will have the right to speak. When you are open, you can undertake more important tasks than others, your boss's trust in you will increase, and what you say will carry more weight. Remember, when you are wronged, it is usually accompanied by a kind of motivation, but this kind of motivation to prove yourself is not as low as that of the eight-point local drama. At the inauguration ceremony of President Mandela, Mandela invited three jailers who guarded him to watch the ceremony. He said that his years in prison taught him to control his emotions, deal with the pain caused by suffering, and stand up in full view to express his respect for the three jailers. This move made the people present and the people all over the world respect each other, which not only made the white South Africans who abused him for many years feel ashamed, but also showed Mandela's extraordinary bearing and pattern. It goes without saying who has the right to speak. In the face of injustice, you really don't need to care too much about other people's eyes, just remember, always be responsible for yourself. Life is doomed to suffer a lot of grievances, you should learn to laugh it off, you should learn to be detached, and you should learn to transform potential energy. Remember: what you swallow is humiliation, but what you feed is your pattern! Persistence will surely succeed! I'm happy to answer your question. Please adopt them.