An apology letter to my sister.

I'm sorry, my brother wrote you an apology letter. I hope you can forgive me and grow up because of this.

I apologize to you for two reasons. First, because I hit you when I came home a few days ago, I didn't hold my breath and hit you for my parents. I wanted to teach you a lesson and remember it for a long time. Secondly, because you 15 years old, I care little about you. We are 12 years apart. Supposedly, I will love and care about you very much, but because of family reasons and my long absence from school, I care a lot less about you. But in my mind, our relationship should be like this.

But this is not the case. We seldom talk to each other. The requirements for your life and study are not high, which leads to your poor study now. Therefore, I need to apologize to you and hope you can forgive me. I will take up the responsibility of being a brother in the future.

That night, your sister-in-law found out that you were in love at school, which confirmed my guess and made me fly into a rage later. Maybe you will say that many of your classmates are in love, which is really common on campus. Why not? What I want to tell you is, first of all, I don't want you to get hurt, because you are a girl, and you are easy to fall in love. Although you say "women like themselves", you can't hurt yourself or sacrifice yourself to make others like you and appreciate you. You should be happy that someone secretly loves you and tells you, but I hope they are interested in your talent, your quality, your efforts, not your appearance; Secondly, you two can't work hard to get into the same university together. Third, don't lack anything emotionally. Your parents take care of you, your sister-in-law gives you everything you want, and you are delicious in life. I don't seem to care much about you. Finally, you only promised us years ago that you would never fall in love during school. It wasn't long before you ... So, I was very, very angry. However, I didn't mean to hit you. Before going home, I told your sister-in-law that I wouldn't hit you, I wouldn't hit you. But later, the more I talked about it, the more angry I became, and finally I really stopped being angry. I usually have a good temper, you know. So, what you did this time really touched my bottom line.

Through this matter, we all hope that you can grow up and put all your thoughts on your studies instead of dressing up and falling in love. At the same time, we also hope that you can learn self-discipline and work hard for your dreams.

I hope you can become the latter.

I don't know what you think at home these days, and whether it really has the effect of making you go home to reflect and make fundamental changes. I hope you can realize your mistakes, and then start from the root causes and make a big change in your life.

However, whether you have analyzed the reasons for your mistake or not, I hope I can point it out to you and make you really change.

1. Don't put all the failures and mistakes on others, think more about your own reasons. This is not only what you need to do at school, but also what you need to learn in your later life. Learn to look at yourself in order to grow rapidly;

It is self-deception to fall in love openly on campus. Don't you know that both mother and sister-in-law are at school?

Playing mobile phone after school and during class is a serious violation of school rules, but these things seem nothing to you, including falling in love. Do you think they are all finished? Why can't I?

But why do you go along with them? You should learn not to touch the mud or drop it.

You can't realize your mistakes from a deeper level, and every time you admit your mistakes, you will only avoid the important ones, which is reflected in your study and work that you can't grasp the key points. ...

You need to reflect on the above points, so that the slap on your body is meaningful only when you hear the reprimand from your ears, otherwise you will be beaten and scolded in vain.

In the afternoon video, you said that you were going to school, and you would study hard when you went to school. But the word "study" is easy to say, but it is difficult to study hard. Besides, the goal you set for yourself is Zhejiang University. If you want to fulfill your dream and get into an ideal university, you need to work harder and harder than others.

Learning well requires methods, skills, teachers, environment and many other factors, not just talk. I hope you can make full use of the resources and time around you in the remaining 1000 days, master the learning methods and study the learning skills, instead of keeping up with the competition and pretending to be cool. I'm trying to write now, but I can't write well since I was a child, and my writing level is too poor. But I know that as long as I stick to it, one day in the future, I will definitely thank myself for my diligence. Therefore, I also hope that you will not regret your original efforts even if you don't realize your dreams in the future.

Now you are like running a marathon. If you just rush forward at the initial speed, you will never reach the finish line. If you want to finish the marathon, you must exercise and develop your endurance at ordinary times, so that you can always maintain a constant speed and even accelerate your progress.

I saw a sentence today and shared it with you. I hope you and I can encourage each other.

So, in order to dream, get out of your comfort zone, overcome your difficulties and break through your limits.

Here, you can treat me not as a brother, but as a pen pal far away, and write down your trivial things, troubles and feelings in your usual study and life. Show it to me or not. Use it as an object to talk to and release the usual pressure. I hope you can grow up and become what you want. Come on, believe in yourself, you can do it!

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