Cultivate children's feelings in the process of liking kindergarten.

Method 1: Love to play is a child's nature, so allow him to play.

People often say that "playing with things is tiring." It seems that playing in adults' eyes is not a good thing, but playing in children's world is a natural thing. In the process of playing, children's thinking, cooperation, language and other abilities can be exercised. Moreover, games are the first way for children to know the world. Therefore, the mother should obey the child's nature and allow him to play.

Classic example

Case 1:

Every day after breakfast, my mother will take a two-and-a-half-year-old kite to the garden of the community for a walk and play. When she meets other children in the community, her mother will introduce her and say, "Kate, this little sister's name is Mei Mei. Call her sister quickly. " "This little brother is called Komatsu." Under the introduction of his mother, Kite gradually got to know many children. Not only that, mother also encourages kites to play with other children. Knowing so many children, kites will always have a good time.

Case 2:

"Mom, mom, pool ..." Every day after dinner, it's time for mom to play with 3-year-old Tiger Tiger.

"Billiards" is a little game invented by my mother for Huhu, which is to stand in a fixed position and throw the ball at the opposite coke bottle to see who can hit the coke bottle, similar to bowling.

Whenever playing this game, the tribal tiger is very serious, aiming at the opposite coke bottle with rapt attention and throwing the ball hard. Every time he knocked down a coke bottle, HuHu clapped his hands and cheered excitedly: "Oh! Get down, get down! " My mother always praises Hu Hu and says, "The baby is really amazing! Do it again! "

Case 3:

Mianmian is 4 years old. In order to let her learn more knowledge, her mother transferred her to a bilingual kindergarten. There are many courses in this kindergarten. In order to let Mianmian concentrate on her study, the teacher specially asked the teacher to strictly discipline her to prevent Mianmian from being playful.

Soon after, Mianmian said to her mother unhappily, "Mom, I don't like this kindergarten." "Why?" Mom asked. Mianmian said, "The teacher always asks me questions. There are too many classes, and I am unhappy." Mom said, "It seems that the teacher pays more attention to you!" " "Mianmian said unhappily," Hum! I don't like her at all. I'd better be the original kindergarten teacher. "

Educational emotion

Is it better for children to learn cultural knowledge as soon as possible? Do playful children have no future when they grow up? Facts have proved that many "prodigies" who were smart when they were young gradually became ordinary people when they grew up; And many children who are naughty when they are young will make a difference when they grow up.

It can be seen that the success of a child's life has little to do with his age of learning cultural knowledge, and it is not just cultural knowledge that is worth learning. Children learn to talk and walk from birth, and every step of his growth is the result of his continuous learning.

The reason why children love to play is that they like to know everything around them in a variety of ways, such as watching, listening, speaking and touching, and are not used to focusing only on the study of book knowledge. In the process of playing, children have rich imagination and unique creativity. He likes to scribble on paper and write words that only he can understand. In the game, he exercised his thinking, understood the rules and felt very happy. It can be said that play is an excellent way for children to learn. He will learn about the world happily while doing what he likes.

Mom's coup

1. Encourage children to play with children.

Many children cry when they first enter kindergarten, because they have little contact with other children.

Mother usually takes her children to play in the community, and encourages him to make friends with the children in the community, paying attention to cultivating his ability to communicate with others. For example, in the case 1, the mother of a kite not only takes her children out to play, but also introduces other children to her children. When children like to play with their peers and then send them to kindergarten, they can adapt to the new environment as soon as possible and play with other children.

2. Always take children to play outdoors.

Warm sunshine, green grass, in sunny weather, mothers should take their children out for a walk and let him breathe fresh outdoor air. For example, in case 1, kite's mother often takes her for a walk in the garden of the community. Sunlight exposure helps to improve children's physique and enhance their resistance. With more outdoor space, children will feel more comfortable. Running and jumping outdoors and doing sports can exercise his body and make him stronger.

3. Mothers should play with their children more.

In the second case, my mother will set aside a period of parent-child interaction every day, that is, playing billiards with HuHu. Playing with children can make him fully feel his mother's love, so the feelings between children and mothers will become closer.

It is worth noting that mothers should put down their adult airs when playing with their children. Remember that you are playing with your children, not teaching them how to play, so that they can have more fun. For example, mother can play puzzles on the floor with him, roll on the bed together, squat down and watch the little ants move together ... At this time, mother should learn to feel his happiness from the child's point of view, and she will feel very happy.

4. Don't force children to learn knowledge too early.

In case 3, in order to let Mianmian master the knowledge as soon as possible, her mother not only transferred her to kindergarten, but also asked the teacher to strictly discipline her. Because of losing the fun of playing, children are not only unwilling to learn knowledge, but also less and less fond of kindergartens and teachers.

Let children feel the pressure of learning too early, not only can not play the role of early intellectual development, but also often lead to children losing interest in learning. Therefore, for young children, play should be the theme of his life, not learning, so mothers should not force their children to learn knowledge too early.

Method 2: Guide children to like kindergarten teachers.

The younger the child, the more critical he is of the teacher. Only when he likes his teacher will he be willing to accept his teacher's education. This is the so-called "close to his teacher and believe in his way." If children don't like the teacher, they will get tired of the teacher's class and even have resistance. Therefore, whether a child can learn knowledge and have fun in kindergarten has a lot to do with whether he likes teachers. Mothers should guide their children to like teachers and help them establish a good teacher-student relationship.

Classic example

Case 1:

My four-year-old friend is lively and active, and he doesn't want to be idle at home for a moment. He climbed onto the sofa and stomped on it, then threw a small tomato at the TV, often making a mess at home, and he wouldn't listen to anything his mother said.

Mother was angry and said, "If you don't listen, give it to the teacher and let the teacher lock you up." Pumbaa immediately dared not be naughty. Mother thinks this trick is very useful, so she often uses her teacher to scare her friends: "If you don't eat, let the teacher spank you!" ""If you are not good, I will tell the teacher to criticize you. "

Gradually, friends and friends don't like going to kindergarten more and more. They are nervous when they see teachers, and they are not as lively as before.

Case 2:

When Chunchun first entered the park, her mother often asked her, "Who does the teacher like?" Chunchun always raises her little head and says without thinking, "I!" " "But recently, my mother found some changes in pure mood. On this day, my mother asked, "Chunchun, do you like teachers?" "I don't like it! "Pure theory.

The daughter and the teacher seem to be at odds. Mother didn't ask her why she didn't like the teacher in a hurry, but said, "Chunchun, do you remember the first time you peed your pants in kindergarten?" The teacher changed your clean pants and washed your wet pants? " "Well, I remember." Pure theory. Mother said: "The teacher actually loves you very much, but the child is like a small tree that has just begun to grow." Sometimes they are crooked and need help. " If the teacher criticizes you, it is like righting a small tree for your healthy growth. Do you think the teacher is good? "

"Oh, that's right. It turned out that the teacher criticized me for being good for me! " Pure theory. "yes! Do you like teachers? " "I like it!"

Case 3:

One day, my biological mother couldn't pick her up from kindergarten in time because of something. Seeing that the children have come home one after another, the mother hasn't come yet, and the 4-year-old child is really anxious.

Seeing that she was really anxious, the teacher took her hand and said, "Really, the teacher will tell you a story. After listening to the story, my mother may come. " Then, the teacher told Zhen Zhen a fairy tale. After the story is finished, her mother hasn't come yet, and the teacher plays with her on the seesaw.

When it was getting dark, my mother came to kindergarten and really threw herself into her arms and said, "Mom, the teacher told me a story." Mom said, "honey, mom is late." Should you thank the teacher for waiting with you for so long and telling you stories? "Really ran to embrace the teacher said," it's very kind of the teacher, thank you. "

Educational emotion

Before the child entered the park, his mother was very authoritative in his heart. After entering the park, the situation changed, and the teacher had an unshakable position in the child's heart. Mothers often hear children say, "The teacher told me to do this." "Our teacher said ..." The teacher's words are like the lens in the eyes of children. When children are praised and encouraged by teachers, they will be very happy, but once they are criticized by teachers, children will be very sad.

If a child cannot accept and like his teacher emotionally, you can imagine what kind of state he will be in kindergarten. Therefore, it is very important for children to like teachers. You know, a child will have close contact with the teacher for about 20 years from kindergarten to university graduation. It can be said that the teacher will accompany the child to grow up, and teaching him to like and respect the teacher from an early age is very important for his future growth.

Mom's coup

1. Don't use teachers to threaten children's obedience.

To make a child like a teacher, he must feel that the teacher is very approachable and kind. Even when the child is naughty, you can't threaten the child with words like "if you don't obey, give it to the teacher and let the teacher lock you up" or "if you are naughty, tell the teacher and let the teacher criticize you". This will invisibly increase the child's fear of the teacher, which may lead him to dislike going to kindergarten.

2. Let children remember the teacher's love for them.

When a child is criticized by a teacher for doing something wrong, he will inevitably be hostile to the teacher because he doesn't understand. Therefore, mothers should always remind their children how the teacher cares and takes care of him, so that even if the child is criticized, he will remember that the teacher loves him.

For example, in case 2, when the child is dissatisfied with the teacher, the mother helps the child remember the teacher's help and concern for herself. At this time, children can understand the teacher's love for themselves and will not dislike the teacher because of criticism.

3. Teach children to be grateful to their teachers.

Mothers often feel tired when they take care of their children. Kindergarten teachers need to pay more love and patience while taking care of many children. Teachers need to always pay attention to each child's feelings and needs, so when mothers know how teachers care for their children, they should teach their children to be grateful to their teachers in time.

For example, the mother in case 3 lost no time to let the children say thank you to the teacher. This not only makes teachers feel that their efforts have been respected and understood, but also cultivates children's gratitude. Children will like teachers better because of this, and teachers will like children better because of their mothers' understanding.

Method 3: Let children feel that kindergarten is a happy place.

Some children like kindergarten very much, because many children play by themselves; However, some children don't like going to kindergarten because they think it is full of constraints. Does kindergarten make children happy, or does it make them stressed? How a child feels about kindergarten determines whether he likes it or not. So mothers should try their best to make their children feel that kindergarten is a happy place.

Classic example

Case 1:

Feifei's mother likes to stay up late to watch TV dramas at night. Feifei, 4, often stays up late with her mother. But when going to kindergarten in the morning, Feifei couldn't sleep.

Getting up every morning is a painful thing for mom and Feifei. Often, her mother shouted many times, but Feifei refused to get up and finally dragged her out of bed. Feifei muttered that she didn't want to go to kindergarten because she hadn't woken up yet. Seeing that I was going to be late, my mother quickly helped Feifei get dressed, let her have some breakfast in a hurry and sent her away. In kindergarten, Feifei still seems reluctant.

Case 2:

Xinxin's parents are very busy. They often shirk the question of who will send Xinxin to kindergarten in the morning.

One day, it was almost time to go to work, and my mother hurriedly sent Xinxin to kindergarten. Along the way, my mother kept complaining: "Your father always said he was busy, but I was obviously late and had to see you off." How many times did your father see you off? How many times did you pick you up from kindergarten? "Mother kept talking. Yan Yan couldn't fully understand her mother's words, but when she saw that her mother was unhappy, she bowed her head and dared not speak.

Case 3:

On the way to send 4-year-old Maggie to kindergarten every day, my mother often asks, "What did Maggie learn in kindergarten yesterday?" "You listen to not obedient in kindergarten? Be sure to listen to the teacher, you know? " "Maggie should observe discipline in kindergarten and sing loudly. Don't be embarrassed. "

In the face of her mother's left request and right opinion, Maggie just said, "I see." "ok." "hmm." Then, after listening, when I arrive at the kindergarten gate, my mother will say, "Remember everything my mother said, and be good!" "

Educational emotion

Why does mother send her children to kindergarten? Is it because there is no time to take care of the children and let the kindergarten supervise them? Or let the children learn more rules or learn more knowledge? Perhaps all these factors are included, but only if children like kindergarten and can feel that it is a happy place.

If a child who goes to kindergarten every day doesn't think it is a happy thing to go to kindergarten, then his pressure and feelings of going to kindergarten can be imagined. In order to make children like kindergarten as soon as possible, mothers should try their best to convey the message that "it's good to go to kindergarten" to their children, and try their best to let their children go to kindergarten with a happy mood every day.

Mom's coup

1. Let the children get up happily.

Case 1, Feifei's mother likes watching TV, which causes her children to stay up late with her. However, in the morning, the child was forced to get up by his mother because he couldn't sleep, and his mood became bad and he became very angry. Children will feel that they can't sleep, and going to kindergarten is a painful thing, so they don't like going to kindergarten.

In order to let the child wake up naturally every day, the mother should give him a good sleeping environment, let him fall asleep early, and avoid the child being unhappy and unwilling to go to kindergarten because he can't sleep.

2. Let the children go to kindergarten with a good mood.

An hour in the morning is worth two in the evening. If a child can go to kindergarten with a happy mood every morning, then his state in kindergarten will be very good.

However, in case 2, the mother told her young children about her dissatisfaction with her husband on her way to school. Children may not understand these complicated problems at all, but because of their mother's complaints, they are easily anxious when they are sent to kindergarten. Therefore, before sending the child to kindergarten, the mother should keep him happy and don't bring his negative emotions to the child.

Don't ask too much of your children.

Some mothers are eager for their children to behave well and learn a lot after going to kindergarten, so they like to ask their children, "What did you learn today?" "What is the discipline? Did you listen to the teacher? " And ask children to be polite and study more, such as Maggie's mother in case 3.

Excessive requirements and prohibitions will make children feel anxious because they can't meet their mother's requirements, so they don't like going to kindergarten.

4. Don't mislead children with negative questions.

When children come home from kindergarten, some mothers will ask, "Did the children in kindergarten bully you?" "Is the teacher eccentric in dividing things?" Obviously, this way of asking questions is very inappropriate The mother's original intention may be that she is afraid that her children will be wronged, but she subconsciously sends some negative messages to her children: children in kindergartens sometimes bully others, teachers in kindergartens are biased and kindergartens are not good.

If you ask too many such questions, the child will dislike going to kindergarten more and more, because he will feel that it is an insecure place, and both teachers and children have ulterior motives. Therefore, it is enough for a mother to simply talk about the kindergarten and the children there when chatting with her children. Never ask her children negative questions.