The parents of adolescent children are very tired.

Parents are the first mentors in a child's life. Recently, I read a letter written by my mother to an adolescent child, and between the lines was a mother's advice on life problems.

I am writing this letter to you for three reasons:

First, you are standing on the node of life: looking back is a childhood that slipped away quietly; Forward, the curtain of youth slowly opens to you.

Second, there are some things we won't tell you, and no one will tell you.

Third, make a mutual agreement: we work hard, you study hard, and no one will let anyone worry.

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No matter big or small, you must have a goal.

People can live without great ideals, but they can't lose their goals. We all know that studying is hard, but you should also understand that taking classes, homework and exams are experiences for every child. After many years, I hope you can appreciate yourself now, instead of regretting it in vain.

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Grind your character with your heart

At home, all the only children are little emperors, but at school, there are too many "emperors", and no one has the obligation to take care of your personal feelings everywhere. Even if you have excellent grades, outstanding talents and outstanding performance, it is your enthusiasm, kindness and other excellent qualities that make people really like to make friends with you.

03

Good health is the capital of learning.

In school, learning is the main thing, but not the only thing. If you study well, your health will be poor, that is, you will lose sight of one thing and lose sight of another.

Some people say that life in the world is better than 65,438+00 years old, 20 years old than academic record, 30 years old than ability, 40 years old than experience, 50 years old than financial resources, 60 years old than physical strength, 70 years old than medical records ... but in fact, in the final analysis, it is better than health! So, son, have a good exercise!

04

Wait, wait, wait.

A person's future is determined by knowledge, ability and attitude. Knowledge can be acquired through study, ability can be increased through practice, but attitude is formed through habit. You sometimes lack the perseverance to cultivate good habits. It's not too late to correct your attitude. In the future, I hope everything you do will benefit yourself and others.

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Neither pride nor inferiority.

In your life, no one has an obligation to be nice to you, except me and your father. Don't think that the world can't turn around without yourself, and don't give up on yourself because you are young.

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A friend is someone you can cry with.

If you can find like-minded friends, encourage each other, help each other and move forward together, then you must be lucky. You might as well find some friends who are stronger and better than you to inspire you to forge ahead.

Of course, we should also remember that friends should meet each other sincerely and try our best to help friends when they are in trouble. People who laughed with themselves are easy to forget, and those who cried with them are the most unforgettable. This is that giving charcoal in the snow is more meaningful than icing on the cake.