Don't lose someone who loves you.

In fact, it is easy for a girl to destroy a boy.

Of course, this boy must love you. People who don't love you are invulnerable. Even if you have eighteen martial arts skills and thirty-six tricks, you can't help him. And the person who loves you has no talent and armor. Your good and evil can drive straight ahead, destroy him, and save him from your mood.

I'll tell you how my friend's headlights were destroyed.

Headlights are a little timid when chasing Feifei. He wrote down all Feifei's likes, what she likes to eat, what she is allergic to, what she likes the smell of shampoo, which lipstick she likes, which brand of clothes she likes and which version of shoes she likes. Every day when surfing the Internet, he will click Feifei's QQ avatar countless times and watch Feifei's Weibo countless times. Feifei has never had one-way contact with headlights, bossing around, and never allowed headlights to call her at will.

Headlights are actually very inferior in front of Feifei. She thinks Feifei is a high goddess. The less she likes headlights, it is not surprising that they look so mean when she calls them. He will do things for Feifei's teammates.

Later Feifei reluctantly accepted the headlights. At that time, the headlights were at their wit's end, and Feifei had a very good relationship with another boy. Headlights panic and helplessness, and finally romantic confession. Feifei didn't say yes or no, she just said wait and see. Headlights are naturally ecstatic about this hint, just like moths see candlelight, whatever.

When a boy falls in love with you with inferiority, he tries to make up for his inner inferiority. This is a good time for you to start destroying him.

Feifei first restricted the circle of friends of headlights, and all female friends were eliminated, which seems to be taken for granted. Then, among male friends, selectively eliminate all alienated ones. For example, a friend who hasn't contacted for a long time said that she wanted to go out for dinner in the city of Headlight, so Feifei smiled at Headlight, and Headlight immediately made up an excuse to accompany Feifei to watch TV dramas at home. A distant friend is gone, and a close friend is no more. This is not difficult. For example, at the headlight party, Feifei will call the headlight to make up something urgent and ask the headlight to come back within the specified time. When the headlights come back, you must not give him a good face. It must be blamed that he is not a family-oriented man, or that he doesn't love himself as much as before. Feifei wants to let the headlights know that going out to parties and drinking with others will pay a price. Then friends will think that the bitch headlight is getting more and more boring. After a long time, after playing this game several times, the circle of friends of headlights is basically over.

Faced with headlights without friends, Feifei will plan the life trajectory of headlights, except for home and company, that is, on the way to the company and home. Feifei certainly won't use headlights as servants. She also goes shopping with headlights on at night, and has a good meal and a movie together on weekends. There is a little romance between lovers, wearing couples' clothes and big underpants and eating chicken legs together. Everything at home is also a couple's item. Toothbrushes, towels and chopsticks are all of the same style and different sizes. Flying makes headlights feel the future, so it is within reach. Headlights have also made a lifetime of selflessness and determination to fly.

At this time, we can enter the climax, and it is already shooting turtles in a jar to destroy the headlights. Feifei will start losing her temper. It is easy to find faults in her life. For example, the message she sent won't return for a second. Can you ask him what he is doing? You can say angrily that you don't want to live in a kennel after your birthday, you can make a scene, or you can try to get a trumpet to test him and send him some beautiful pictures online every day. If one day he replies, no matter what he replies, congratulations, this is definitely a good material for making a fuss. After this hot war, if he still loves you to death, he will admit his mistake and let you step on her. Then you can sacrifice a killer weapon, which is the absolute killer of love-cold violence.

Feifei didn't answer the phone if she didn't agree with the other party, blacklisted all QQ and WeChat, and didn't give the headlights any chance to explain. She just watched him go crazy everywhere and let Headlight go wherever she could. When the headlight started to get drunk, Feifei suddenly appeared and gave the headlight another chance. At this time, the headlights were a false alarm, and the mood of others robbing was particularly rampant. Then I listened to Feifei, like an obedient slave. Feifei never takes the initiative to call the headlight, and the headlight has to call Feifei every once in a while. Every time I call Feifei, I'm bored to death. But if the headlights don't come, or if they come late, Feifei will wait for the phone to think for ten or twenty times before answering it. If you don't stick to the headlights for one or twenty times, there will be no following. Sorry, Feifei started the second round of cold violence and didn't talk.

What Feifei needs to do next is to repeat this kind of thing back and forth several times, let the headlights wander between despair and hope, and let him gradually forget that there are other things in life. All life should be centered on Feifei, so that headlights can understand that the happiness of headlights is based on Feifei's happiness. Feifei can do whatever she wants, delete WeChat if she wants, don't answer if she doesn't want to answer the phone, and ignore people if she wants to ignore them. Anyway, what headlights can do is to be useful to themselves.

Well, Feifei succeeded in destroying the headlights. When the headlights parted, there was not even a tear. When he came to see me, he had nothing. The exhausted appearance of the whole person made me think that he ran out from the depths of a forest. He drank a lot that day, and when he was drunk, he squatted in the street and cried. I told him that after waking up from a dream, he would go on. He nodded. Later, I didn't know if he was lucky. After this time, he seems to have lost the ability to love, but his efforts in his career have risen rapidly. He said that the world is fair, although this is not what he wants.

In fact, how to destroy a boy who loves you is very simple and doesn't need teaching at all. As long as you don't love him, you can easily destroy him. You just need to be enthusiastic when you need it, be cold when you don't need it, find him when you are bored, and take it out on him when you are upset. You regard his love as the cheapest, you can squander it. After a long time, he will inevitably leave your world with scars and the ups and downs of the years.

I was chatting with a writer friend, and I told him the story of Deng Da. He said that it is too easy to destroy a person in love, but it is not easy to fall in love. Who has the heart to destroy it easily? I opened the door for you and crowned you. Do you have the heart to banish me at last?

I said, what if I really don't love it? Did the last tenderness destroy it? After all, it can make him strong.

The friend smiled and said:

Destroying someone who loves you will be a debt to you for life. There are not many people who have no regrets about you all their lives. You pushed away the person who could love you without hesitation. You may never meet such a good person in those long time grids again. In fact, many times, I think you can not love someone, but you must not fall in love with someone reluctantly. It's better to stay away from it in the first place than to end up hurting.