In recent years. Why do many young people dislike their parents?

Lead: As the saying goes, "A son doesn't think his mother is ugly and a dog doesn't think his family is poor." However, today's children sometimes dislike their parents. Parents have understanding, helplessness, sadness and disappointment. -Whose fault is it that children don't like their parents? Why do children abandon their parents' filial piety? This is a moral quality that everyone should have. But now there are various phenomena of abandoning parents. Children dislike their parents' poverty and don't let them pick up their children from school. They don't want to go together because their parents are not beautiful. They even forced their parents to change luxury homes for home visits. Why do parents become "baiwenhang"? In fact, with the development of social economy, the emergence of the gap between the rich and the poor, the singleness of social values and the utilitarianism of social mentality, it is not difficult to understand the reasons why children "dislike" their parents: First, some children are too vain and love rich people; Second, children compare with each other in material matters, and their psychology is gradually distorted; Third, parents' education on children's personality is relatively lacking; Fourth, children's values are becoming more and more mature, and their independent spirit is becoming more and more sufficient. Two: children don't like their parents, and parents should bear the main responsibility. When we see that children don't like their parents, public opinion is one-sided and thinks that children are wrong. In fact, parents are children's shadows, parents are children's first teachers, and many children's practices are imitating their parents. Everything parents say and do is actually affecting their children. (A) the only child, a collection of thousands of dotes in one-parents over-dote. 1, Oversatisfaction-the root cause of selfishness and willfulness of the only child Many parents will be satisfied no matter what their children ask. From a lollipop when I was a child to a house and a car when I grew up, once my parents can't meet the requirements, they will start to dislike their parents, hate them and ignore them. In fact, these consequences have been buried since childhood. Parents don't know that when their children's requirements are met, they will think that life is unconstrained and they will become inconsiderate. 2, excessive attention-is the source of children's egoism. When children accept too much family care and think that they will always be the center, they will show the lack of love. 3, lack of discipline-there is no boundary between good and evil in the heart, mainly because parents are improperly educated and take an overly gentle attitude towards deviant behavior, so that children do not have a correct understanding of behavior. 4, controlled by the child-conniving at the child's behavior Because there is only one child, parents often connive at the child's behavior and let the child have a set of methods to deal with parents. In order to control parents and achieve their own goals. Have you achieved the above four points more or less as a parent? (2) Do not pay attention to words and deeds, parents like to brag and exaggerate. Mother overheard Xiao Yin and several children bragging about their family's money and what brand of products they used. Mother shivered when she heard it, because the child was lying. She said there was no one at home. On the way home, my mother severely criticized Xiaoxi, but Xiaoxi said, "Mom, isn't that what you usually tell your aunt?" Let mom be speechless. Some parents, in order to satisfy their vanity, like to brag in front of colleagues and friends and sometimes even lie. They didn't notice that these unintentional words and deeds were seen by the children, until they found that the children were also showing off and lying, and they suddenly realized. Third, a good tutor can make children "save the day" and abandon their parents, mostly because of vanity and inferiority. In fact, as long as parents pay more attention to their children's mentality and find that their children's thoughts are biased, they must correct them in time and do a good job of persuasion, so that bad thoughts will not deteriorate and can be effectively corrected.