What does "the son doesn't come back and let your daughter-in-law support the family alone" and "divorce" warn us?

I have read too many stories about princesses and princes. Snow White ran away from home, and Poison finally married her lover. Sleeping Beauty got a deep kiss from the prince and lived a happy life. I also had the same dream!

0 1, love is ideal, marriage is reality! My husband and I were free to fall in love, and after eight years, we made a positive result. I thought it would be like a fairy tale, and I've been happy since then. As a result, I was wrong. Marriage is not as simple as I thought. It's just a sad TV series, with no ending, all sad!

Having children after marriage, family expenses are increasing. Husband cannot choose to go out to work. In order to earn more money, he didn't go home for the New Year, just for three times his salary. I take care of my family with my children alone. My mother-in-law helped me from the countryside to the city. My children and mother-in-law live a family of three!

02. Marriage is inherited in an unfortunate way! My father-in-law is away all the year round, and my mother-in-law is at home alone, taking care of the whole family and farming to make money!

My mother-in-law said that two people take care of their children and let me go out to work for fun!

Tell my husband that I spend a lot of money and tell him to be careful. I think we have been together for eight years and have an emotional foundation. My husband trusts me!

My mother-in-law talks a lot. I love beauty, buy clothes, wear lipstick and suspenders. Husband thinks he should go home, not outside. It's not safe to leave me at home. He is afraid of green!

The mother-in-law said, don't worry, son, make money outside. I will look after your daughter-in-law. If you don't come back, don't give her money and let her raise me and my children alone!

My husband is really obedient and does exactly what his mother says. He didn't give me a penny for two years. I asked him to come back, and he said he wanted to make more money. I know, the salary has been paid, and it's all on his mother-in-law card!

What does this story tell us? First, don't let your husband go out to work alone. If the family is really too poor to open the pot, then the family of three will go together. Even if you want to eat, you need three people together. If your husband is alone, he doesn't trust you. Do you trust him? There are so many temporary couples in the factory that we don't know about!

Second, don't live with your mother-in-law I just suffered from it. If you take care of the children in the city alone, maybe your husband won't consider it. How can you say that your mother-in-law is a creature? She couldn't make a good stuffing, but also embellished it by saying that there was, and there was nothing to do, which made your marriage unhappy!

Third, we should communicate more. When we are in love, there are sweet words. When you get married, all you have left is rice, oil and salt. Even if they are all bitter and tired, they should talk sweet words to their husbands and add some sugar to their lives. If you have a good relationship with your husband, your mother-in-law can't get into this needle!

Tolerance and understanding are magic weapons in marriage. It is not easy for your husband to understand that you are at home and tolerate your little temper. You should understand the bitterness of your husband working outside the home and tolerate his incomprehension!

Conclusion: If I were you, I wouldn't get a divorce. I will take my child to find him, and I will live with him, no matter how hard it is, no matter how bitter it is!

I want to tell him I love him with practical actions and ask him not to believe what her mother-in-law said. Her mother-in-law just wants to take advantage and not suffer. She can have her cake and eat it!