I ran away from home. What should I do?

Running away from home can't solve the fundamental problem. If you always have a rigid relationship with your family and teachers, your mind is likely to embark on the road of unhealthy development.

The educational methods of parents and teachers may not be suitable for us. We even think that they are stupid and even have a lower level of understanding of some issues than us. They also have some quirks that we think. We often despise their manners, so we don't want to believe that they are unwilling to receive their education. These are understandable, because 14 years old, you are now at the beginning of independence and establishing your own ideological cognition, but you have to admit that there are many great people in this world, and I think you also have people you admire. If one day you can live with someone you admire, you will gradually discover his shortcomings, his faults, but at the same time you still feel that he deserves your respect in some ways. Then, if you blindly ignore his superiority and blindly explore his shortcomings, then he is in your heart and you don't think he is worthy of reverence!

Now, you may have such a mentality towards your teachers and your parents. They always give you pressure and always take care of you. If you can think that your parents and teachers are also taking pains to educate their children, you may not feel that you are the first person who has been wronged in the world. Your parents and teachers are human beings, and your psychology is not much weaker than theirs. You want them to kiss you and love you. Don't they want you near them and get along with them?

In fact, you and your teacher want to live in harmony. In fact, you and your parents want to care about each other, but they and you have intensified the original small contradiction in ways that are unacceptable to each other. Now that you leave angrily, you can only amplify this contradiction, so you are responsible for this matter. Contradictions among the people, which could have been solved with the passage of time, have been put in a situation where you have to deal with them at once. But people have to take responsibility for their mistakes. Making mistakes is an accessory of human growth, but it is a gift of human growth and a great wealth of life.

People grow up in the process of constantly summing up mistakes. Only by recognizing and summarizing mistakes can we grow. If they are trapped in mistakes and don't want to admit them, then people will never make progress! You said you were going to transfer. This can't solve the fundamental problem. A crow barked badly. His neighbors didn't like him, so he moved, but when he moved to a new place, the new neighbors still didn't like him. So transferring to another school won't help you!

I'm in college, so I'm not much older than you. I have had a similar experience with you before, so I wrote so much. I hope I can help you.

I think what you should do now is not to stay in a crappy hotel for 25 yuan. You should take the initiative to call your father, admit your mistake first, and then ask him to sit down and talk, listen to his parents' thoughts and talk about his own views, because communicating with his parents is also a kind of warmth!