Say it in an understatement.

When it comes to the saying that men don't touch their wives when they have a mistress, we all know that someone asks the mistress about her mood. In addition, some people want to ask, is it that men have no feelings when they have mistresses outside? Do you know what this is about? In fact, men don't want to touch their wives after having a mistress. Let's take a look at Xiao San's mood, hoping to help everyone!

Men don't touch their wives when they have mistresses.

1. A man with a mistress won't touch his wife. Tell me about mistress's mood.

2. A man will not touch his wife if he has a mistress: will a man have no feelings for his wife if he has a mistress outside? Why can't a husband find a mistress who is not as good as his wife?

Hello everyone! As a teacher who has been engaged in marriage for ten years, I have received tens of thousands of requests for help. Many betrayed wives are not in bad condition. When many people come, they will ask why San Xiao is inferior to herself in both appearance and status, but her husband was seduced away by San Xiao.

Ms. Shu, whom I received, is an example. Her husband graduated from a prestigious school, with a well-educated family and older parents. Ms. Shu and her husband have been in love since college. Both of them are campus beauties, and it is natural to get married and have children all the way down. The object of her husband's infidelity is a typical peasant girl from the countryside with only junior high school education, which makes Ms. Shu always unable to understand.

The phenomenon of Ms. Shu is actually very common. According to statistics, only 8% of men who cheat in marriage are derailed because of pure physical desire, and more than half of men cheat because of psychological needs, which is different from women's general cognition. For example, what kind of psychology is it for a husband to find a mistress who is not as good as his wife?

First, seek psychological superiority.

Don't men want to touch their wives when they have mistresses? In real life, many women often cannot get a happy marriage. This has become common sense in today's world. In fact, from the perspective of species instinct, men are born with the psychological characteristics of conquering women; From the psychological point of view, the traditional thought of "men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside" still strongly supports our modern family view.

Our wives often put invisible pressure on our husbands. Every man has that "evil" in his heart-male dignity. Few men can remain calm for a long time when their wives are superior to themselves in all aspects.

When one's own abilities and conditions permit, or some external objective factors create conditions, this kind of "evil" in a man's heart is easily released. A person is like being afraid of being bitten by a snake and encountering a well rope. He will subconsciously reject those beautiful and capable women and choose those women who are not so beautiful and capable but can bring him psychological superiority.

Second, psychological saturation.

In chemical terms, saturation means that a solute is added to water, and when it can no longer be dissolved, it is called saturation. Psychological saturation means that the psychological endurance has reached an unbearable level.

After a couple has been married for several years or even longer, even if the wife is beautiful, it loses its freshness. No matter how hard the wife pays, it can't stimulate her husband's psychological saturation, and a hidden boredom begins to sprout. At this moment, once a woman who is not as good as her wife throws a strange look, it will make her husband feel novel, feel that the other person is more interesting than her wife, and then fall in love and can't extricate himself.

Third, the sense of importance that the wife cannot provide.

Hegel's Principles of Philosophy of Right says that existence is reasonable.

Many wives can't figure it out Obviously, I cooperate with my husband in all aspects. Why does my husband cheat? It is really wrong for her husband to cheat, but from a psychological point of view, it is reasonable for her husband to cheat.

Some women have attracted people's attention before and after marriage. They don't lack the active care of men, but they don't know how to take the initiative to care for men. Many men can't get the attention of their wives in marriage and family, so they want to make up for it by finding a mistress.

On the other hand, it is precisely because they lack men's care that their wives know how to care about men and satisfy men's psychology of seeking attention, so cheating becomes very reasonable.

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The above is related to the mood of Xiao San, and it is about the sharing of Xiao San's mood. After reading the talk that men have mistresses and don't touch their wives, I hope this will help everyone!