What if I just want to eat and don't want to wash the dishes?

After dinner tonight, my lazy cancer factor defeated my body. I feel very tired from cooking to eating. I think washing dishes is more tiring. I should lie down or sit down after dinner! Yes, so I did! But no matter what I do, I'm always worried about the mess in the kitchen!

? Finally, 1 hour after dinner, I rushed into the kitchen in October, and we got to work! What a great move! My upper brain beat the lower brain, and October made an indelible contribution!

Wash pots and pans, clean the stove, clean the wall tiles, clean the floor (many crumbs on the ground have been cleaned four or five times), and wash the trash can! 1 hour flies by. I looked at the clean kitchen, smelled the smell of washing powder, and thought about the teacher's lecture, and my heart was full of a sense of accomplishment. I found the whole process unhurried, and I enjoyed doing things while listening to the class.

So, I think, washing dishes is actually good. Why have I been resisting? What destroyed my inner motivation to wash dishes?

1, control and reject. When I was a child, five people in my family ate pots and pans every day. My parents do a lot of farm work, and they are very busy regardless of the wind, the sun and the thunder. My three sisters are forced to do housework. My main tasks are shoveling pig manure, washing dams and washing dishes. To tell the truth, these jobs are always perfect for me. I like to do them alone.

However, I am very tired of my mother's nitpicking and denying my overall feeling (not according to her idea) if a link is not done well. The nagging and threatening language in the audience made me want to confront her all the time. The only thing that makes me feel more relaxed is making Chili noodles. Except for the stipulation that raw and cooked products should be separated, I can decide how to place them. I like to make Chili noodles every two months, because of my study, I have been making them in high school.

In contrast, when parents are tutoring their children's homework, when they are talking, when they are in charge, and when they are over-controlling and supervising their children, they should feel similar to me at that time! At that moment, I immediately asked for a public holiday when I got emotional. I reflected in my heart: I forgot who you are, I don't care who you are, and I can't remember your kindness to me. I only know that you are fierce to me, and you deny me! Me! Me!

It can be seen that parents can protect their children's inner senses, let them concentrate on their work and stay with their feelings, thus giving birth to inner motivation!

I just want to "get" and don't want to "give up". This is the selfish thought of human nature, and I want to pat my ass and leave after eating. However, there is really no free lunch in life, either labor or money or time. Give up and you will get it, get it and you will lose it! When you are afraid of spending money or energy, you are doomed to lose not only this, but also more valuable hidden costs!

? What if I just want to eat and don't want to wash the dishes?

? 1, belief implantation. Every family member should create value for the family and undertake housework equally; There is no equivalent logic between how much money you earn and how much power you have.

? 2. put an end to offside. After each family member has a corresponding division of labor, they should do their own jobs! It is forbidden for other family members to occupy space because they don't like it. This is conniving at the canceration of each other's lazy cells. After a long time, the offside person will get angry, which is not conducive to the harmony of family relations, and the relationship between the abuser and the victim will also be confused.

3, deliberate practice-rocket method. When you can't wash the dishes in time, it is suggested to say to yourself: 1 ~ 2 ~ 3 ~ 4 ~ 5 ~ Launch, get up immediately and rush into the kitchen when launching! Get rid of procrastination, add points to the family image, and have unlimited charm!

4. Timely secondary feedback. Family members should praise specific behaviors in time and say positive words, such as: what a clean bowl! /The stove is really bright today! /You are five minutes earlier than yesterday! /You are a man of your word/a self-disciplined man/a role model for children! /I'm glad to let you do the dishes.

? The odor of a family mostly comes from the kitchen and bathroom. As the hostess of the new era, home is the master's main position. In addition to the baby's cooking skills, family hygiene, decoration, atmosphere and family style construction are all projects that must be won. The embryonic form of cultivating children lies in the great philosophy of how to sweep the world without sweeping the room. Who realized who benefited!

Finally, research shows that a good woman will marry the Wang Fu family for more than three generations. Similarly, a man's infidelity will affect the family for more than three generations. What a luxurious fate it is to be a family. Support each other and cherish this life. After all, there is no such thing as seeing you in the afterlife. Cherish the present!