How to "inspect posts" is the least publicity and the most effective?

Your "after-the-fact inspection" seems very obscure. I really can't see what it means, but I think how should I test the other side in the relationship to know that the other side is not cheating? This is my understanding, and I will answer it from this aspect.

The answer I gave was to ask questions directly. Don't mess with those fancy things. If you have any questions, if you have any doubts about him, just ask. I often see people asking how to check chat records, so I will talk about these questions here. Let me tell you something about me.

I haven't met my partner's, but my partner has met mine. I think it's best not to do such a thing. You all know this is called stealing. It is best for two people to trust each other. Even if it is good, they should give each other some privacy, right? This is a sign that you don't trust each other very much. To tell the truth, this kind of thing is easy to go wrong. The most important thing for two people to be together is trust. If you think there is something wrong with him, if you doubt him, then you can confront him directly. Why do you engage in these furtive things? There is nothing wrong with her reading my chat record, because I always tell her my password, and I will tell her to change it every time there is a problem. Once she got on my QQ for no reason, and my QQ interface suggested that my account was logged in somewhere else, so I knew it was her. Before, a female classmate came to ask me about another female classmate (a simple study problem), so I gave her some suggestions. For example, if you don't ask questions at ordinary times, you won't understand and it will be difficult to learn well. In this case, my girlfriend opened this record and she thought I was talking about her. Then I joined QQ, and she immediately began to bother me, very angry.

So it is really embarrassing to make such a mistake. If you have any questions, just ask them directly. Don't make it difficult for you to end up and break your boyfriend's heart. Don't peek. It's really bad. It hurts.