How to be a man of backbone

First, you are arrogant, but you can't be humiliated: in your own life, sometimes you have to be so arrogant when you do things, but you can't be arrogant. In other words, we must have self-esteem and know how to respect ourselves; This kind of arrogant person, the so-called "a scholar can be killed but not humiliated", you can kill him, but you can't insult him or hurt his dignity.

Second, if you have strange bones, you must be innocent: some people have strange bones, and this kind of person is very special. You can be afraid of him, but you must not offend him. You respect him, he can work for you, even if he goes through fire and water for you, he is willing; But if you despise him or offend him, he may stand up to you.

Third, the body has chastity, which can be forged but not sold: some people belong to "three chastity and nine fierceness", and such people are "loyal". For such a person, you can temper him and cultivate him; But you can't give him up, you can't destroy him, such people are the treasure of the world.

Fourth, there is a bone in the body that people can admire without pity: there is a kind of person who attaches great importance to self-dignity, self-morality and self-personality. You can admire such a man, but you can't pity him. You admire him, and he may become your good friend; If you pity him, he may become your stranger from now on.

Therefore, people in the world should strive to cultivate their own temperament and be a person with at least a little backbone. People with backbone will be respected and respected wherever they go. If there is no backbone, no matter where you go, you can't get rid of your enslaved character and you won't get respect. Therefore, a person with "backbone" has his own personality characteristics different from ordinary people.