What's the experience of leaving home?

When I was a child, I spent five dollars on five-dollar odds and ends, and ten dollars on ten-dollar odds and ends. What my mother often tells me is: "Oh, how old are you! Can you stop buying those useless things! " My mother's dream finally came true when I was almost thirty.

/kloc-in 0/6, I moved to a new house and met my neighbor in the elevator. I said, how much did it cost you to move here? He said, "It didn't cost anything! I only have one suitcase! I came by myself! " I thought to myself: man! It's rough! I moved the flowerpot three or four times! ! ! I didn't expect this to become my goal in life.

My home is empty.

After moving to a new home, I bought all the furniture: two double beds, a sofa, two lazy sofas, a big coffee table, a bedside table, a bedside table, a dresser, a TV cabinet, a chest of drawers, a sideboard, a table, four chairs and a set of tables and chairs. I bought more than a dozen pillows, more than a dozen pots of green plants, and n decorative paintings ... I also took pains to buy household items for my family. Basically, my salary for the whole year was spent on dressing up my family.

16 In the second half of the year, I accidentally saw this drama, which completely subverted my outlook on life.

In fact, at first I just simply appreciated this attitude of enjoying pure living space. With the climax of the plot, I suddenly realized that people, no matter how much they liked before their death, can't take them away. Everyone understands this truth, but not many people directly understand it.

I began to really examine, in my residence, what I can't leave at all? Other things? What changes will my life bring if I lose it?

Deer parting list

These things were not lost as soon as I had a fever (sold, given away or donated), but I gave them up after careful consideration. Most of them have been abandoned for at least three months, and now the feeling is three words: awesome!

So I abandoned several kinds of furniture. On the day I moved the banyan tree, my living room suddenly lit up. I no longer had to spend five hours cleaning that leaf, and I didn't have time to feel bad about it falling all over the floor.

On the way to break up, I will help you fight the obstacles you encounter.

1, how to convince your family?

In fact, it is better to convince your family to turn against him and let him throw it with you!

My husband and wife are fine! When he stopped, how long has it been since he touched this thing?

If you live with your parents, it will be more troublesome. Their ideas are hard to change. I don't listen to anything you say, but I'm reluctant to throw it away. If you really think you won't be able to use what they don't allow you to throw away, they may be too old to remember. (this move is at your own risk. )

The best way is to use your own practical actions to subtly influence your family and let them feel the changes at home. I used to be confined to the sofa, but now I can roll on their carpets. I used to rummage through clothes and look for tools in the cloakroom, but now I feel refreshed.

My husband basically doesn't resist now. . .

2. It is obvious that the function is repetitive but I can't bear to throw it away.

One of the magic weapons of breaking up is to reduce things that have repetitive effects. But sometimes it's really hard to choose. The good method given in Japanese dramas is push substitution. For example, you like both bowls, but you really can't put them down. You can throw away the cat bowl and make a cat bowl with your favorite bowl.

3. I still think the room is a mess after throwing it away.

Equal color and equal spacing arrangement method. And buy less things with particularly complicated colors (personal preference). My clothes look much neater when they are dyed. There is also the need to put things back after use.

It's hard to decide whether to throw it.

Keep your distance to confirm the demand. If you find something you have been pressing for years, you have forgotten its existence. Throw it here.

5, just don't want to throw it, don't throw it if you kill it!

Then you should take good care of existing things, restore your love for them, and don't buy new substitutes. For example, take out your old bag, take good care of it and don't buy a new one. Don't throw it if you can! ! !

PS: 2-5 The questions and methods from my family are empty.

Current state of mind and life

I used to indulge in adding household items and personal items every day. I really have a courier every day, and I will be woken up by the courier brother on a beautiful Saturday.

Because of the instability of aesthetics, it is not only a waste of money but also a waste of money to resell or give away if it is ugly and not easy to use.

Another great way to break up is to throw away an old one every time you add something new, so that the total number of items in your home will not change. I have reservations about this, but I agree to keep a rational attitude when buying.

Therefore, since I left home, I no longer think about buying from buy buy every day, but basically make good use of what I have, tap their maximum use value and enjoy their long-term company. Every time I see a baking tray that has been used for almost five years, I want to talk to her.

When I really need to buy something, I will be very cautious and consider buying it for three days. If there is a similar product at home, I will choose to replace it or not to buy it.

You will say, oh, let a spirited person take risks in his favorite place. If you want to buy it, are you tired? To tell the truth, I'm not tired. I enjoy this feeling very much, not only getting a lot of space, but also saving hundreds of millions. Besides, I think everything at home is fine ~ and I feel good when I lack something, just like detoxifying my intestines, because I know there is nothing useless at home.

Now, although my home is not empty, I am keeping a balance between pursuing minimalism and not reducing the quality of life.

Almost ~ In fact, there is no right or wrong between separation and fetishism, just two attitudes towards life. There are many things in the Great God's house, but they are super beautiful, and I am longing for them ~

There's no need to go home and throw things around just because of the news. Are you sure this lifestyle suits you?

Think about it, teenagers!

Your own comfort is the most important ~