Roommates are always ashamed of others' kindness. How can they break it?

The best way to deal with such a stingy person is to take tough measures.

It's not that I'm cruel, but this kind of person. You tell him gently, he won't listen, because it's his character. No matter how you try to persuade him, it's of no help. You can only treat him under special circumstances. Since you are his roommates, I personally think you can unite and make him feel abandoned and isolated. For example, if your dormitory is a good group activity, don't call him, be more cruel. Think of him as air, think of him as nonexistent, and leave him alone. The more you ignore him, the more energetic he will be and the longer he will be. If he is a sensible person, he will reflect on himself. Why is he so unpopular? It is human nature that a person doesn't like him. If the group hates snubbing him, it is his personal reason. If he doesn't understand the times, then you can continue to be isolated, and there is nothing to lose anyway.

What I said above may be a little extreme. Another way is that he is not good at hiding others, so just show him. Then you will have better grades, stronger popularity and higher quality than him. (Of course, all these can be achieved through our own efforts, and it is impossible to say it verbally. ) Almost everything is worse than him anyway. He thinks he has no advantage to show off in front of you, so he will make peace and dare not make a big deal out of it.

In short, what kind of people should be dealt with in what way, that is, concrete analysis of specific problems. If the other party is willing to give up, they will be happy to bury the hatchet and shake hands. If the other person's attitude is tough and annoying, you can also "fight poison with poison" and be more car-scrapping.