Do women have to learn to be coquettish in front of their boyfriends?

A writer once said, "A woman who can't coquetry seems to be missing something." Chen Hao said: "Women must learn to be spoiled!" Director Jing Wong also said with a smile: "Every actress who has worked together likes to be spoiled, so they look even more charming. Psychologists say: "Women who can coquetry are the happiest, coquetry is a kind of wisdom, and coquetry can be a shortcut for women's promotion." "Surprisingly, coquetry knowledge is so profound! Can you be coquettish? Is your coquetry level enough? Do you know there is another kind of coquetry that needs to be beaten? We invited Wang Zhi, a senior psychologist, to deeply analyze coquetry with us and help the sisters find their exquisite selves. Is there anything more valuable than this gift for women's day on March 8? Women must learn to coquetry "heartthrob". When Chen Hao was a student, there were no boys to pursue. After graduating from college, the boys said the reason: You are too strong, how dare we chase you? Chen Hao suddenly realized: "I used to be very independent, and I gradually found that women who were too capable would spoil men. Therefore, I suggest that women in the world should have a sense of self-reliance in their hearts and not be too strong in appearance, because men need to control and like innocent girls-women must learn to be spoiled! "Wu Peici has separated from her boyfriend, but she is full of confidence in herself. As for how to grasp a man's heart, she especially warned her sisters: "Spooling is a weapon given to women by God. I am good at coquetry, and I will continue to use it, even if I am 50 or 60 years old. Director Jing Wong created many beautiful women, such as Chingmy Yau, Loretta Lee, Shu Qi, Maggie and Lin Xilei. Speaking of these beautiful women, Jing Wong said with a smile, "Every actress who has worked with us likes to be spoiled, so that they will look more charming. When asked which actress is the master of coquetry, Jing Wong recalled: "Their coquetry skills are so powerful that sometimes they are as sweet as their daughters." . Psychologist Wang Zhi said: What is coquetry? Entanglement is a gentle feeling between people. When a woman spoils her husband, it will make LG feel needed and cared for. Spoiling is the natural charm of a real woman, and it is also a display of femininity. Everyone has a psychological need to be spoiled. This is a sign of intimacy and weakness. Can arouse each other's love. Spoiling is a kind of wisdom. It can make people take the initiative to care about you and arouse the sympathy of the opposite sex. Ninety-nine percent of men like women who can be spoiled. Beautiful women may not be able to subdue men, but coquetry women are the bane of men. Playing coquetry is a woman's killer, sharper than "Eternal Dragon Sword", and it will hit a man's death with one hand. No matter how strong and brave a man is, he will be at a loss in the charming voice of a woman. A coquetry woman can impress men's hearts and win the love of people around her more than those shy and introverted girls who have a high opinion of themselves. In short, coquetry not only makes women more lovely, but also easily resolves contradictions in life. It is an "atomic bomb" that softens contradictions and is invincible. Sometimes men are spoiled. When facing relatives and friends, you also need to take off the mask of defense and let yourself be as free as a child. So Gao Cangjian may be crying secretly at home with his wife. Why do you resist coquetry? It is human nature to be coquettish, but now there are many women who can't be coquettish, and women who can't be coquettish are divided into two categories. One is the lack of parental care when I was a child, and the little babies will be spoiled. They attract the attention of their parents and get the coquetry attention of their beloved baby. But because of busy or other reasons, some parents will ignore the baby's coquetry. Over time, even if the baby is not taken seriously, it will give up coquetry. Another kind of woman always appears as a strong woman in the workplace. When older women get used to it, it's hard to get back the feeling of younger women. Even when she went home to face her lover and relatives, she couldn't change her role properly. There is another kind of person who is very disgusted with coquetry. They resist when they mention it, and they get jealous when they get angry. These people should reflect. People often hate something on the surface, but in fact they need it inside, because she or he can't do it. I think coquetry and affectation are unacceptable shame pillars in my heart. In fact, coquetry is the most real and natural, and it is a very comfortable and pleasant thing, just like a baby's smile, which is irresistible. This is a charm of human nature. Spoiling can add points to your workplace. Shu Qi once said that she resisted growing up. She said, "I really want to be a little girl, because I can be a coquette." Shu Qi's unwillingness to "coquetry" shows that coquetry plays a significant role. The oriole is charming, the purple parrot is gentle and charming, and the little girl is angry and charming, which makes you hard-hearted and soft-hearted for flowers. Many difficult things are often solved in this "soft" process. Entanglement is a weapon, a resource and a means to solve conflicts for women. This may also be an opportunity for women to advance in the workplace. In front of the boss, he pouted and said, "boss, what do you think we should do about this?" "Director, am I doing this right?" Gentle words like that usually make the boss happy. This warm but not out of line coquetry will make you feel at home in the workplace. However, whether it is for male bosses or male colleagues, we must master the discretion: if we spill too much, others will not accept it, which will easily lead to misunderstanding and embarrassment. Can you learn to coquetry? In fact, coquetry does not need to be studied. When you really open your heart, put down your guard and put your emotions into it, it is the most charming and gentle time for a woman. How can we open our hearts and let our guard down? This requires psychological breakthrough and growth. How long will it take to learn to coquetry? Not on time At the speed of personal awakening. Some people are quick, others need some time. We must first realize that not being spoiled is a model, and then try to change ourselves. First, do something you didn't know before, didn't want to do it, or even feared, such as charming words and intimate actions. Practicing this ability will naturally become a habit. You can even practice secretly in front of the mirror first. Skillful expressions and lovely manners are pleasing to the eye, words are not important, and coquetry is a silent message. Taking coquetry as an example is just right. If you casually spoil strangers or half-baked friends, people will not only feel comfortable, but also be too scared to go to the temple. It is no good for everyone to talk noisily. Copying Lin Chi-ling's style of Hong Kong and Taiwan is likely to be satirized: don't be jealous when eating jiaozi. So you can learn from the following example. Xu: Lao Xu not only has the atmosphere and bright spirit of Beijing girls, but also has the gentle and charming taste of some women from time to time. Don't believe it? Watch the subway until spring. Yan Ni: When it's fast, it's refreshing, and when it's feminine, it's exquisite. Reference drama "Legend of Wulin" and "Blowing of the North Wind". Tang Wei: Color? How did Wang Jiazhi in The Lord of the Rings deal with the cunning traitor? Pet! Classic dialogue: After playing mahjong, I said to Teacher Yi, "Yes, I always lose and I win." This kind of coquetry, sweet bone eats bone, makes you ogle, it is estimated that not only mr. yi, but also any man can't resist. Lin Chi-ling: When it comes to coquettish female stars, we should first say Lin Chi-ling. Baby sounds, who is very sweet, is her personal symbol. Yiren's success in modeling and film and television is definitely related to her good at coquetry, but she always misses. At the Golden Horse Awards Ceremony in 2005, she first spoiled and asked Tony Leung Chiu Wai for a blessing hug, and then asked another handsome boy, Andy Lau, to take off his fur and let Tony Leung Chiu Wai hold it for her. Needless to say, it is not easy for two men to refuse in public, but the expression of accepting a hug from a beautiful woman is inevitably embarrassing. Inadvertently, the two stars became the tools of Lin Meibo's lens. I'm afraid not many people can accept this coquetry. Baby Zhang: Her singing skills were average, and she stood out from the first Super Girl Competition, almost entirely because of Jiao Ya's lovely image, so the judges at that time gave her a very appropriate nickname: "Zhang Ya". I lost to Xiao He and Xiao He, and I was often asked by the entertainment circle: It is obviously a Sichuan girl, why does she always have a Hong Kong and Taiwan accent that gives people goose bumps? Embarrassed the little girl. It seems that transplanting Hong Kong and Taiwan's coquetry directly to the mainland is also easy to acclimatize. Sister Furong: When the host of the TV station asked Sister Furong what kind of partner she wanted, Sister Furong was shy: "Never mind, I will be the little woman in his arms." Sister Furong also expressed deep affection for her future love life and wanted to "decorate their world like an art palace". Put a lot of small cards, "let him find something, even socks, it will be a' love card'." How many people are playing coquetry at an inappropriate time? Is everyone aware of it? Constellation girl who is the master of coquetry? Aries: She is a big woman. Will she be spoiled? Occasionally, it may be when you have a fever. Taurus: She does things slowly. She may be a bit fond of talking in her sleep because she is spoiled. Talking in a dream is talking in a dream, but it is not without it. Especially when you see something delicious and want to try it. Gemini: MM in this sign doesn't like other people's help. When she is coquetry to you, it may be that her dual personality has changed to the gentle side of a woman. Cancer: As a good wife and mother of a family, how can you catch a man's heart without coquetry? They are familiar with the script. Leo: A strong woman in constellation, how can she keep bowing her head and coquetry? If she dotes on you, you should feel honored, because you are her favorite person. Virgo: It may be hard to hear them coquetry. Because they are picky most of the time, they are more likely to hear nagging than coquetry. Libra: Beautiful and lively, cheerful and generous, warm from generation to generation, naive and kind. It's not hard to hear their coquetry. Scorpio: MM of this constellation brings femininity to the extreme. As long as you are sincere to them, they can make you sweet to death, which is also their killer. Sagittarius: Sagittarius MM has a tough style, like a tomboy. And to the dismay of many boys, she doesn't take boys seriously at all. I think girls are no worse than boys. They must be asking you for something. Capricorn: Typical cold beauty, they don't like coquetry. They deeply dislike relying on men. They think if coquetry is useful, why do they have to work? Aquarius: eccentric personality, often teasing boys with such bad means as coquetry and derailment, because they think their IQ is high enough. Pisces: This sign MM is generally paranoid. For example, imagine yourself as a princess in a fairy tale. Since you are a princess, it is quite normal to be spoiled.