As a parent, have you ever listened to your children?

When children are young, it is easy to tell the truth to their parents. After all, children talk nonsense. You can't tell when you grow up. It depends on how the parent-child relationship gets along.

Children often chat with me and say that they will accompany me for a while before going to bed at night. Inadvertently, they will say something unexpected.

Recently, she said to me, "mom, I feel so happy that you and dad play with me every day." Do you think I am the happiest child in the world? "

In the past, we were busy with our work and seldom spent much time with our children. Even if there is, it is rare for two people to be together, and the child is somewhat disappointed.

The epidemic is at home, and we often play games with our children patiently. Children can feel the patience and dedication of their parents.

So, she told me her heart before going to bed.

After listening to the child's voice, I was also very moved. Children really don't need that much, and parents are satisfied with spending more time with themselves.

An epidemic is profoundly changing the world situation and changing many people's attitudes towards life and life.

We find that the company of family members is so important and the essence of life is so simple.

In fact, we are easy to make mistakes in the social process, that is, we use our three views to measure the current behavior of others and guess their motives! Facing our children is even worse … I always feel that we eat more salt than they do … I think that's how we got here. Our previous generation didn't learn the idea of being a parent. They were all simple and rude. Fortunately, now we know that being a parent is the most important thing to learn!

In active training, one of my favorite tools is linking, and then * * * feeling! We give up subjective assumptions, bend down, listen to the child's innermost thoughts and understand his feelings. It always works! My son always asks me, mom, I'm just scared, you know? Mom, I was angry just now, you know? Every time I say I know, he is relieved. I think he is willing to share his emotions with me, or it has something to do with my willingness to listen!

In the future, they will grow old and go through difficult adolescence, and they will leave us in the future. If we are always willing to understand their hearts, I think those difficulties are not difficult, because they will feel respected!

1. Listening to children speak their minds can guide children to form a correct way of thinking in time and deepen their understanding and understanding of things.

2. Listening to your child's thoughts can establish a good language expression with your child.

3. Listening to your child's heart can make your child more optimistic! Parent-child relationship is more harmonious!

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Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. The baby is less than 5 months old. I think we parents should communicate with our children more. In the process of growing up, I am both a parent and a playmate. Maybe sometimes the child's heart, speaking out, will make us dissatisfied as parents. Think it's impossible. And what should we do as parents at this time? Communicate patiently, pay attention to the attitude and strength of speaking. Let it feel unwilling to do this, and what kind of ending will appear on the road.

In fact, I think children are really under great pressure now, and many parents will arrange their spare time and weekends very full. I think it's only good for children to learn more, and it's all for their own good. In fact, why don't we think about whether children like these? If you don't like it, I think it's useless to quote more. It is better to communicate well, so that children's own ideas can be reflected, so that they can study hard and have passion, and the pressure on adults is less. It's purely personal, thank you.

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As a parent, I hope we can always listen to our children's voices, and I have been trying to do so. When a child is happy, he wants to share his happiness, growth, self-confidence, encouragement, appreciation and support with you. When I am unhappy, I hope to talk to you about his distress, disappointment, helplessness, hug, guidance and direction. These are too important for children, and it is our responsibility as parents!

My son is four years old now. He seems to know everything and speak, but in fact he still doesn't understand many things and reasons. You say a word and he will suddenly be happy and sad. He cares about his parents' emotions and behaviors. When I am happy, I will openly say: I am so happy because my parents are with me. When I am sad, I will also say: because you said me, I am sad! Therefore, more often, we need to listen, guide and tell him not to be sad, saying that it is because something is not good and I hope he will get better. It is normal to point out and correct mistakes, and learn to accept them, not that mom and dad are unhappy and don't like him.

This is a four-year-old baby. He not only needs to listen, but also needs to help him understand, accept and change. In fact, no matter how old a child is, there will always be things that he doesn't understand and is confused at that age. Parents need to listen and help, which is very important for their children's growth.

Come on, dear parents, children's growth, parents' practice, loving listening … Believe in children [Come on]

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I'm glad to answer your question. As a parent, I have listened to my children's voices. My baby is only three years old. Sometimes he won't tell us to his face. Occasionally he starts talking to himself when he is playing by himself. What he said at this time is true, because that's what he thinks.

He said, "Little Bear's parents don't play with me. You play with me for a while. Dad went to work and came back at night. " "I don't want to go to a kindergarten far away, and the children in the kindergarten beat people." Mom always says wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. I kept talking there, and my heart was sour after hearing it. In fact, the child's request is very simple and she wants us to play with her. But sometimes we don't want to play with him and hurt his heart unintentionally.

Occasionally, when we are in bed, we start chatting. Although the three-year-old child doesn't know the meaning of chatting, he will speak his mind. What you do badly will be changed.

I heard our child say that he doesn't particularly like going to school, because their parents told them to go to school, so they went. He likes playing games and watching mobile phones at home. He even told me that he didn't want to go to junior high school. I asked him why, and she said she didn't like studying very much. I said, what are you going to do? He said he was going to work. I said that if I graduated from junior high school, I couldn't find a job because I was too young to take you there. I can't do this because I am a child laborer. My children still often say what they think. I'm very happy about that.

I've heard this kid's thoughts. He told me that only I love myself. Live happily. He will have real happiness.

If mom is unhappy, he will feel guilty.

If his mother is unhappy, every penny he spends will remind him whether it is hard earned by his mother.

If his mother is unhappy, every beautiful scene he sees and every delicious meal he enjoys will remind him that his mother should have such a beautiful life. Mom has the right to be happy. Who deprived mom of this right? Who makes mom unhappy? I know it wasn't me. Children will still feel guilty.

So I have always kept my promise to my children. I want to be the happiest mother in the world.

I give, I am happy. I harvest, I am happy. I've learned a lot and I'm happy. I failed and got up happily.

Thank my children for teaching me to be a happy mother. Be a wise mother.

Sometimes, I am in a hurry. Sometimes, I feel depressed. Sometimes I feel a little sad. But most of the time, I am cheerful. On the happy river, take a canoe and swim freely.

Our son is five years old, and we often hear his heartbeat. He will tell me what he really thinks. How did I do it?

After two months of exercise, I found that children's language expression is much smoother. Before that, he thought about it and said a word, which had to be repeated several times before he could express it clearly. Now you can express it clearly twice or once. This program exercises children's logical thinking and expressive ability. But what makes me most gratified is that he is willing to share his little secret with me. He will tell me why I don't want to see my mother at school, which teacher is very gentle with him, which teacher speaks loudly, and why I cry so much after wetting the bed at school! I will make comments and corrections according to what he told me, and he will listen carefully. Sometimes his mother will wonder why my son and I have such a good relationship that he tells me everything ~ I think this is a good thing, and such training will be of great help to children!

Now five years old, we still insist on talking before going to bed, but now I have added some interesting games, such as guessing twenty riddles first, or playing "You say I guess", which not only increases the fun, but also prevents children from getting bored and reduces communication. Now the biggest secret that children tell me is that they like a little girl in their class!

So I think that as parents and friends of children, we should not just talk about it, but actually do it.

The most important thing is to be good at listening to children's voices, listen patiently, don't rush to correct children, don't rush to stop children from doing something wrong, and try not to stop them as long as they don't involve principles.