To borrow a sentence from Confucius in "The Analects": When others don't understand you, or even misunderstand you, what should a gentleman do?

Isn’t it a gentleman who doesn’t know something but is not stunned? Source: "The Analects of Confucius·Xue Er Pian" When explaining "knowledge" as "knowledge", first of all, it can be compared with "people who know people well and do their job well" "Zhi" is the same and can be interpreted as "understanding". It means that if our talents and abilities are not understood, appreciated, or promoted, we don’t have to be depressed or angry. We can just do what we have to do and remain calm and as usual. Such behavior is in line with the cultivation of a gentleman. Confucius warned us: "Don't worry about others if you don't know yourself; worry about others if you don't know them." Don't be afraid if others can't understand you; what you're afraid of is that you don't understand others and misunderstand others. "Zhi" can also be interpreted as "understanding". I have done good deeds and made correct opinions, which are obviously beneficial to others and society, but no one understands, disapproves, supports, or praises me, and sometimes it leads to misunderstandings, misinterpretations, and even slanders and attacks. In this case, we will not be angry, complain, angry, decadent, or give up. We will continue to do good deeds and seek the truth, without caring about our own reputation or reputation. Such cultivation and virtue are certainly in line with the character of a gentleman. The above two meanings refer to how others see me and how I treat myself. When you are not understood by others, the problem may lie in insufficient communication. We should take the initiative to communicate more and communicate more, and of course we should pay attention to the appropriate methods. When you are not understood, you may need to do some explaining and clearing work, and sometimes you need to wait patiently. Time will tell everything. The next level is about how you view others and how you treat others. What if "knowledge" is interpreted as "wisdom", and "people don't know" means that the person you are dealing with is not smart, wise, or mentally flexible? Don't get angry when you get along with this kind of person, and give him enough respect and tolerance.