If I don't pay it back, can I just ask for money?

Money is the money to be paid for marriage. Generally speaking, there are two ways to go, but it does not rule out that some people accept your money when they get married, but they don't give it to you when you get married, or colleagues and friends ask you for money, but they don't give it to you later. Faced with these two economic obstacles, how can we get the money back?

First, how to get the money back skillfully-give the other party a gift. If you gave someone money for the wedding, but you got married, and the other person didn't come and didn't give money, there are several ways to get the money back skillfully.

1, you can invite the other party as a joke, but when the other party refuses to attend the wedding, you can take the gift as a joke! As a joke, people who want a little face will not be ashamed of not paying you back.

2. Euphemism implies that everyone is about the same age of marriage. You can ask him when chatting, did you go last time XXX got married, and how much money did you give him, suggesting that he, who is a bit on the road, must understand what you mean.

3. Ask a friend for help. If you have a friend you know together, and that friend is close to you, then ask him for help, talk to the one who doesn't give money, ask how much you plan to give, and get to know the situation.

4. Relax. If all the above hints are useless, then in most cases, you may have to ignore the money. After all, it is not a loan, and it is not good to chase people for money.

Second, how to skillfully get the money back-advance money If you advance money for colleagues and friends, then the money can be much more justified. After all, he just owes you money! So don't be vain, stand tall and ask for money!

1, seize the time to advance money from colleagues and friends. You need to seize the time. Don't ask for it immediately on the same day or the next day. In case people forget it or don't have time to transfer money, it will be a bit embarrassing. You can gently remind you every other day. Under normal circumstances, it will be returned to you soon.

2, create opportunities If the other party forgets this matter, then don't directly care about it, you can gently hint at it first, for example, you can take the initiative to talk about the wedding that the other party didn't go, talk about how lively the scene is, how the dishes are, and so on. In this way, the other person may soon remember that he hasn't given you a gift yet!

3. directly. If you tactfully suggest many times, but the other person either avoids the topic or has an expression that I really can't understand, then he probably wants to acquiesce! Don't mention it at this time, just ask, say that the money you asked me to advance for you has not been given to me! Of course, it's not that fierce to ask directly. You can say it in a relaxed and joking tone, so the atmosphere will be less awkward. Getting the money back is also a technical job, but I'm sure most of my relatives and friends didn't mean to rely on it. Maybe they just forgot. Please kindly remind me that they will give it to you soon!

Accompanying gift is a unilateral gift from the actor, which cannot be returned once it is transferred. However, if the other party is willing to voluntarily withdraw from the law, it is also allowed.

Legal basis:

Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of Marriage and Family Series Cases

(1) Article 5 The people's court shall support the request of a party to return the bride price paid according to the custom if it is found that it belongs to the following circumstances:

(1) Both parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

(2) Both parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities, but they have not lived together;

(3) premarital payment, causing difficulties to the payer.

The application of items 2 and 3 of the preceding paragraph is conditional on the divorce of both parties.