My parents are partial to my brother. What should I do?

Recently, I have seen many people discussing "Do girls have to support their parents because their parents are seriously patriarchal?" I want to talk about my opinion.

Let's start with the background. I am an only child, and my parents are ordinary employees of state-owned enterprises. Many friends around me have this serious problem at home.

Roommate Xiao K, girl, boss, brother, second child, sister and third child. She is eight years older than her brother. The tuition and living expenses of the university are paid by herself and her parents, so she didn't go home for the New Year during the four-year basic holiday. Graduate students will pay for themselves for three years. Usually I don't give money to my family (after all, I don't have a job). On holidays, I will buy clothes for my brothers and sisters and some food for my family. Last year, I bought a mobile phone for my brothers and sisters. After graduation, she stayed in Beijing to work, and her parents asked her to pay for her brother's tuition or living expenses (the house at home belongs to her brother).

Roommate Xiao H has a sister and a brother. She usually doesn't want money from her family, but also buys things for her family on holidays. When her brother got married, she didn't have a job and borrowed 20 thousand yuan as a bride price. She also accepted her brother's pet at home without complaint (at least not in front of us).

I want to say that parents have the right to handle their own money, but they are responsible for their actions. I think it's not so great for parents to give birth to their children without their consent, because they also think for themselves before giving birth. So parents and children are actually equal.

If parents have financial resources, I think if they are very partial to their sons and neglect their daughters, their daughters can choose to stay away from them. Let me make it clear before, if parents can treat their children equally in the future, daughters will take care of their parents more at this time.

In the case that parents have no financial resources, it is suggested to explain to their brothers and sisters at home as soon as possible how to support their parents and who will contribute. Don't bite your teeth and swallow them. Not worth it.

As the only daughter of my parents, I work in Beijing now. My practice is to provide insurance for parents (millions of medical and cancer insurance, currently looking at life insurance) to help parents decide on financial management and chat on the phone every day. I usually share what I have in the group.

I am glad that I am an only child, because I have received enough attention from my parents; It's also a pity, because there are no other children to accompany me when I grow up, and now I'm under a lot of pressure. I hope to take them to live in Beijing in the future (but their circle is not here) and then spend more time with their families.