How to deal with unqualified neighbors?

Ignore her, pretend not to see such a person, and ignore her existence.

We are all neighbors. If you can, try not to cause conflicts head-on, because when you meet in the future, you will be like enemies. If you don’t look up and look down, you are the one who feels uncomfortable. If you can tolerate it, try to tolerate it. , just think of it as training your own mind. If the other party is really too much, you can talk to him or her, or find an intermediary to talk about the issue.

One of my childhood friends met such a neighbor. They were very close neighbors in their hometown, separated by a 10-meter alley. In fact, they were also my neighbors before, but later my family Moved out to live. In rural areas, almost every household has its own yard, where they raise some chickens, ducks and other poultry, and build a shed specifically for the poultry to prevent them from being stolen and getting wet in the rain.

Chickens and ducks in rural areas are all free-range, so they sometimes go to other people's homes. That day, the neighbor's family was feeding chickens. When they were counting, they found that an old hen was missing, so they found one. I couldn't find the circle. It happened that everyone in Faxiao's family went out that afternoon, so the door in the yard was locked. When Faxiao's family came back, she looked at her with blank eyes, which made her confused.

When I drove the chickens back to the chicken shed in the evening, I found that there was a chicken inside that was not my own (in my hometown, chickens would be marked with some special marks for easy identification. Some were dyed somewhere on the chicken wings, and some were cut. tail, etc.), the chicken was hatching eggs in the henhouse. The mother of the little boy went to the neighbor and asked her if the chicken belonged to her family. Without saying anything, she ran over to see, took the chicken back, and said This was her chicken. Unexpectedly, she wanted to steal the chicken. Fa Xiao's mother quickly explained that it was really not stealing, and she didn't know that her chicken had come to her house.

The next day, the neighbor deliberately ran outside her door and said loudly that the people in my family wanted to steal her chicken. If they didn’t succeed this time, they would definitely try to steal it next time. , the more she talked about it, the worse it got. She said that if she even stole a chicken, she would be punished by God. She kept thinking about it. This neighbor even went up to the second floor of her house and opened the window and kept talking there, because she happened to be The window of our home faces the yard of my little family. My mother was sitting in the yard doing some work. When she heard her say this, she burst into tears. She is a relatively down-to-earth person, how could she bear it? Such rumors, after refuting the neighbor's words, the person became more and more enthusiastic. Finally, the little mother went inside and closed the door and ignored her.

In the next few days, this neighbor kept talking. I found that no one in my family wanted to talk to her. I had never done anything bad or wrong. Talking too much was a waste of my energy and energy. The saliva, on the contrary, made the people living around unable to stand it, saying that she should not act like a psycho all day long, she is just a chicken, so what if she really eats yours? Seeing so many people refuting her, I I don’t even want to say anything boring.

It is useless to argue with someone who has no quality, because they don’t know what quality is at all, so they ignore her and regard her as a clown.