People always say unpleasant things.

Saying something unpleasant means something you don't want to hear. For example, if you say that you are going to run for the department manager of the company today, others say something unpleasant, which is to throw cold water on you and say that you can't choose 100%, but the latter didn't say it.

Language is a technology. People who talk like this are sincere, frank and heartfelt to you, although it is not pleasant to hear. If you understand that you are good friends who talk about everything. If you are a person who likes praise and sweet talk, then you will definitely not accept such a person.

Your relationship is average.

Different people have different feelings about this sentence. The following are some of my opinions. If I think it is useful to you, I hope it will be useful to you.

1. This is a sincere suggestion from others.

"Say a bad word" means that others are kind to you, and you should be more happy about it. Explain that other relatives and friends can really persuade you, and they have made a serious judgment on your words.

2. Or other people's oral habits, don't take it to heart. Because other people's language habits have little influence on you, you should do your own thing well. Keep on cheering, believe in yourself, and you will succeed in the end.

3. In a word. When others say this, there is no need to take it completely to heart. Being yourself is the best.

This is a habitual spoken language. I was afraid that you would feel uncomfortable, so I warned you in advance. I often tell others that it is wrong to say something unpleasant. This is a euphemism.

This is the mantra of some people, and some people may say bad things. But if you want to refute him, it's hard to say it directly, that is, say something unpleasant first, and then express your opinion. People who say something unpleasant often say hello before, but in fact, he will leave you a step, and will not say something unpleasant and embarrass others. To say something unpleasant is to leave room for others and not embarrass them. In fact, people just want to express different views from you.

Hello, most people who care about and respect you will do this. Because others say so, in most cases, they just want to make a more intense analogy and form a * * * understanding of your inherent knowledge, thus accelerating or deepening your recognition of the other party's point of view.

It may be spoken language, habitual. Habits are sometimes contagious. If someone often says this sentence, it will slowly influence people around him to follow suit, so you will often hear it. Another possibility is to be polite, including some caution, for fear that some things will make people unhappy if they are straightforward.

This is because he gave you an injection to prevent what he said to you from making you angry. What you did was wrong or beyond his bottom line, so he said something unpleasant to teach you a lesson.

Hello, that's just someone else's mantra. Others are just paving the way for his next offence, but it depends on the obedient person.

First, we should reflect on ourselves. Really, as the man said, do we have shortcomings ourselves? As the saying goes, good medicine tastes bitter, advice is hard to listen to, and those who dare to speak out about their shortcomings are also noble people.

If the other person is purely out of thin air, you can ignore it. You know, no matter what you do, it will become the talk of others, just like we talk about others when we are free. Just don't care, just be serious.

Can be spoken words, habitual. Habits are sometimes contagious. If someone often says this sentence, it will slowly influence people around him to follow suit, so you will often hear it. Another possibility is to be polite,

This means telling you the truth or telling you the truth. You should listen carefully in order to concentrate. That means making a bad plan for what I told you, overcoming obstacles for your success and becoming your strongest arm.

This is just a metaphor. Don't care if what I say makes you feel bad. Just say hello in advance. After all, it's normal that some people like what I said and some people don't. This can avoid many things!

Hello, according to the situation you described, I suggest that at ordinary times, don't think too much and don't care too much about what others say. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, relax yourself.

The so-called unpleasant words are the truth, that is, people don't like them very much, but they are really helpful to you, or your shortcomings, but you should analyze them after listening to them to see if they are helpful to you. If so, change it, if not, encourage it.

Oh, your own mobile phone, you don't say, you let others say that you are so close, can I have a look? Ah, put it away. You went to your house for dinner at noon. What do you eat? Me. What is something for nothing? All right, all right. We'll talk about it later.

Just be calm. The key is to do your job well and enjoy life.

Actually, it's true, but I'm afraid you don't like it, so I say it tactfully.

This is everyone's different habit. Be considerate of others, don't haggle too much, lest people think you are too stingy. If it's not a matter of principle, don't go too far. After all, it doesn't matter much.

Advice that is most needed is least valued. Some people do the first thing, others do the second thing. Sometimes these unpleasant words,

It can inspire you to do better. If people say something unpleasant, make sure you have done something. You should wake up well, because no one has kicked a dead dog. Don't care too much about what others have. Do your own thing first, only you can save yourself.

The so-called advice is most unpleasant to the ear. Well, some people may cater to you. What you said is very much to your liking.

However, what some people say is ugly, but it is also for your own good. So some little people flatter. Flatter and please.

But these are the actions of some small people. Those fatuous emperors of the past. Well, eunuchs always like to flatter for a while.

Flatter and please. Frame the city of loyalty. So saying something unpleasant is not necessarily a bad thing.