My mother got breast cancer a few months ago, and now she is in the sixth stage of chemotherapy. White blood cells are normal in the eighth stage before * * *, and there will be life without chemother

My mother got breast cancer a few months ago, and now she is in the sixth stage of chemotherapy. White blood cells are normal in the eighth stage before * * *, and there will be life without chemotherapy in the last two stages. ... Not being a doctor, I wouldn't have answered such a question.

But ... because my mother also had this cancer, I also want to talk about my experience and personal views for your reference.

It was too late when it was found in the past, and it was suppurative and painful. Later, the operation was removed, and according to the doctor's advice, chemotherapy and drug treatment were carried out regularly. If I remember correctly in the early days, it seems to be once every ten days, then once a month, once every three months and once every six months. . . There are many courses of treatment, and I don't remember them after a long time. The eight courses you mentioned may only be the first course. .

Breast cancer is the easiest to treat among all cancers. After the operation, it can last for 5~7 years, and the survival rate is very high. Having said that, several patients in my mother's ward in those years have all left in just a few years. .

Personally, after illness, patients' attitude towards life is very important, and an optimistic attitude towards life combined with post-treatment is very important, because some patients always think that living in fear for a short time will not only be bad for their condition, but also accelerate its deterioration. . We have a local saying, "You didn't die of illness, you scared yourself to death."

In addition, it is also important for your family to take care of you. You should treat her as real for a short time, pay more attention to her, and chat with her as much as possible when you have time. Anyway, except for her illness, the whole world chats. When she is well, spend more time with her and see the world more. Don't treat her like a patient. . . . Tell her not to pay attention to her illness all day. .

I was also worried at that time, because my mother was not an optimistic person. In order to let my mother have grandchildren, get married and have children, my mother's attention was all on her grandson, and the arrival of the child gave her great joy. All day long, things revolve around children, and sick things are relatively ignored. . . It has been more than ten years now. Some time ago, my mother was unwell and went to the hospital for examination. We are also worried about the recurrence of the disease. The result of the examination was only hypertension, and the disease basically disappeared. . . Personally, I think this diversion method can be used for reference. If the child is older, get a dog or something as a pet to shift the focus of her daily life. Anyway, I just don't want her to pay attention to her illness every day . .

I only say this for your reference, because everyone's situation is different.

It is necessary to follow the doctor's instructions for treatment. It is the doctor's decision whether to do chemotherapy or not. We are not doctors, so don't make a decision for her easily. . . That's what children do, just like they have to do it when they know she will leave. If she leaves because of this, you will feel guilty for the rest of your life, as if she left because you missed several issues. Why bother? . .

I hope you and your mother can also cross this threshold. . .

I wish her a speedy recovery!