Is it a promise ... swear ... is it really just words?

Friend, what is a promise? What is an oath? Have you checked?

The so-called commitment is the guarantee of what you promised to others and the proof that others believe you.

The so-called oath is what you are determined to do, which has nothing to do with anyone but yourself, and is a means to restrain yourself from reaching a certain goal.

But there are others, so this oath often has a certain curse nature. For example, "If I leave you, I am * *".

Therefore, it will be clearer to see the essence of promises and vows and then analyze their contents.

For love, promises and vows are of little value. Forgive me for saying so. Because in this case, any promise or oath has a purpose. No one can predict tomorrow. Therefore, after this goal is achieved, no one can say whether it can continue to guard.

There is nothing eternal in the world. Maybe when he says a promise or oath to you, he doesn't even believe himself. This is a cruel reality, but it cannot be denied.

We can't live without rules. Just like we have no ability to completely change a person. Because we are human beings, no one is perfect, and the change of peer status is only temporary.

Since we can't be divorced from the law, we can avoid the tragedy, that is, we should keep a calm, a sober and a self in our promises or vows. In this way, the oath may become a driving force and a pillar.

In fact, why should true love add something hypocritical?

Whether it is a promise or an oath, it all stems from distrust of love. If you trust each other, what are these? Even without these, you are still very happy, so don't take these seriously, it is by no means a fortress to ensure your love.

Keep a correct attitude, maintain self-confidence, let nature take its course and look at all problems intelligently.

Forgive me for saying that there is no truth in this sleepy society, only reality is waiting for you, and the decision of your happiness can only be in your own hands. So know how to protect yourself and love yourself.

Finally, I sincerely hope you can be happy.