What are the rules for the new uncle to visit for the first time?

The rules for the first visit are: be punctual and bring a condolence gift. When chatting with each other's parents, you must smile more, talk less and listen more. Dress formally and behave well, leaving a good impression on each other's parents.

1. keep the appointment on time. when you are about to arrive at the other party's home, call to prevent rudeness.

2. Communicate with each other's father and help each other's mother.

3. Door-to-door etiquette: Make an appointment in advance, and don't rush to the door.

4. After the appointed time, it is best not to arrive early or late.

5. If you don't come to the door at the appointed time, you will come to someone's home early, giving the interviewee a surprise, and both parties will be embarrassed.

6. If you are late, or cannot arrive on time due to special circumstances, you must give the other party a call and explain the reason for being late.

7. When visiting, you can bring some small gifts to your door.

8. If it's your first visit, you can bring some small gifts for your host.

9. In China, most people are used to bringing fruits to the interviewees.

1. Besides, you can also send flowers, a box of exquisite fruit candy, a bottle of delicious wine, a best seller, a good music disc, and so on.

12. Press it first (some doorbells will ring several times in a row). If there is no response in the room, press it again.

13. The way of holding down the doorbell and making it ring continuously implies urging, which is not quite standard.

14. At present, there are "cat eyes" on the doors. After ringing the doorbell, you should consider from the visual angle of the door opener, adjust your body position and stand in front of the "cat eyes", so that the owner in the house can see the visitor's face through the "cat eyes".

16. Use your forefinger and middle finger for three times at a time. If there is no response in the room, knock three times continuously.

17. Never bang on the door and shout to open the door. It's impolite.

19. When visiting other people's homes, remember to take off your shoes when entering the door.

2. Don't wear shoes into the house and bring dust into the soles. The soles of women's high heels may also damage the floor of the host's house.

21. Therefore, socks will be exposed when you take off your shoes. Make sure that the socks are clean, undamaged and odorless.

General process of proposing marriage at home

1. Both parents discuss the meeting time through their children. After the time is determined, the man's parents will take their family to visit the woman's house. According to ancient times, there are still many such courtesies for proposing marriage, but now they are all simplified. Just bring some gifts to the man's house to show their greetings.

2. After the meeting, the man's family proposed this marriage and waited for the woman's family's response. In fact, we all know that if we don't agree to this marriage, we won't make an appointment to meet. These words only say that we should go to a venue according to tradition and make the problem more clear.

3. After greeting, I began to elaborate on how to handle this marriage and what the two families think. Just at this meeting, all the problems were dealt with clearly. Just do things according to the order below. For example, the man's family should explain to the woman's family the current preparations, such as how to handle the house, decoration and catering, and the woman's family should clearly put forward any dissatisfaction after listening.

After reaching a consensus, we will begin to talk about trivial matters such as bride price and dowry involved in marriage.

4. After everything is settled, the wedding date is planned according to the renovation progress of the new house. Whether the two families decide the wedding date on the spot or go home to study and discuss, and find someone to measure the horoscope before deciding the wedding date is another story. Anyway, the two sides have agreed, and the date will be arranged as soon as possible so that they can book a hotel.