Our youthful inspiration on the road to blind date

2012 is coming soon, and this year is almost over. I don’t want time to fly by so fast. I still remember that during the Chinese New Year last year, I told my mother that I would bring you a son-in-law home next year. This year has passed, but I still haven’t met a suitable one. The family was anxious, so they mobilized all the people who could mobilize to introduce her. They got to know each other until they were numb, annoyed, and even wanted to live alone.

Thinking about it, I’m not bad at all, but I just can’t find the right person or the one I like. Why can other people find the right one after just a few blind dates, but I can't? My friend said that you are so talented. You have only met about 20 people. How can you meet the person you have spent your whole life with so easily? You can't just make do with it just because your family is worried. Do you have to make do with it for the rest of your life? What my friend said makes sense, and I think so too, and have always thought so.

I went to see someone today, but I didn’t like it. It wasn’t the one I liked. However, because an elder introduced me to it, I was too embarrassed to reject it all at once. I knew I wouldn’t like it at first. , I still had the courage to go and check it out. Even though I knew I wasn’t suitable for him, I still gave him his phone number. Before the last one was pushed away, another one came. It always ends up with the sentence "our personalities are not suitable for each other". Every time I say it, I feel like I have become a master of pushback.

I don’t know if I am too demanding or if I don’t see the reality clearly. Looking back at all the people I have seen, no one said they regretted rejecting others. My friends said that this is because fate has not arrived. Once fate arrives, all the problems will not be a problem conditionally. I always thought it was hard to find a partner before, but now I know it is really hard to find a partner! I have been on a blind date for several years, and I really answer that sentence. I am either on a blind date or on the way to a blind date...

Actually, I am not in a hurry. I always feel that I am not old. But the family is worried, and friends say it’s time to find one. As a result, amid the chatter from friends and family, I gradually lost my composure. In the past, I always used hypothetical ideas to think about what would happen to you if I didn't have a partner when I was 28 years old. I just thought that in these three years, I will work hard to improve my abilities, strive to make myself excellent, and become a responsible, temperamental, and charming woman, so that he can meet an excellent me. But then I thought again, good men almost have their masters in the end. How many men can endure loneliness and fight hard first? Every carrot and hole may have been occupied by others first.

Sometimes I walk on the street and look at the men and women passing by. How can there be such long and attractive ones? Occasionally I see one, and his wife is designated to follow him.

The Chinese New Year is almost here, and it’s hard to go home again..

When it snowed two days ago, there were snowflakes floating in the sky, and a couple walked in front of them, holding hands with each other. The woman said: I asked you to wear a down jacket today, but you don’t want to wear it. Look, it’s getting cold. She put the woman’s hand into her pocket. I was walking behind, and suddenly I felt the urge to cry. I looked up at the sky. Under the illumination of the street lights, the snowflakes looked particularly beautiful. They fell on my face, as cool as my heart.

I only write this document to myself who is looking for love and working hard. I hope that my lover will come to me soon so that this winter will no longer be cold...