What should I do if my wife goes to take care of her parents and ignores her sick father-in-law, but my husband has to work to support the family?

When a man and a woman get married, the man earns money and the woman spends it, so the woman has the obligation to take care of the man’s parents. The husband has to work to support the family, and the wife only takes care of her father-in-law and mother-in-law. When the father-in-law is sick and no one takes care of him, should he blame the son or the daughter-in-law?

The son should be condemned first. As a man, as the head of the family, he can't make up his mind about such a trivial matter as his father's illness. He just blames his wife behind his back for not taking care of his father. A person who truly cares about his father will not blame his wife but use practical actions to influence his wife. He does not need to make excuses. He is busy at work. No matter how busy he is, he can still spend time with his old father at any time.

It depends on whether you care about your old father or not. Don’t worry about whether your wife takes care of you. You spend three to five days serving your father tea and water every day, giving money to those who should be paid, and seeing doctors who should be treated. , In fact, we can't live without people anymore. It's time to hire a nanny. After everything is done properly, before talking about your work, you should first do what you should do well.

If your wife is sensible, just shut up. If she quarrels with you, you can ignore it, because you are a dignified man and it is natural to honor your parents. You are a gentleman and there is no need to be dirty. No need to grovel.

The wife’s parents are sick, and the husband’s parents are sick. Legally speaking, the wife should take care of her parents. If the wife does not take care of her own parents, the wife will have violated her duty to support her parents stipulated in the law, violated the crime of legal abandonment, and will be punished by law.

When your parents are sick and need to be taken care of, the first person responsible for taking care of your parents is yourself. When your wife cannot help you take care of your parents, you have to find a way to take care of them yourself, or you can come back and take care of them yourself. , or ask a nanny to take care of you. Don't pass the responsibility to your wife, and there is no reason to complain about her. She doesn't take care of her father-in-law, but only takes care of her own parents, because you can't split her in half.

You cannot force your wife to abandon her parents on the pretext of earning money to support the family, which violates the legal red line. To fulfill your legal responsibility and obligation to support your parents, this idea is not advisable and is caused by extremely selfish egoism. Your parents are parents, aren't your wife's parents parents?

Concerning the issue of taking care of the elderly, you should calmly discuss with your wife how to coordinate the care and maintenance of both parents? In my opinion, the most effective method is for both parents to become one, so that both parents can take care of each other and avoid the wife having to travel between places to take care of one thing and lose the other. You can also work hard outside with peace of mind, earn money to support your family, shoulder the financial burden of the family, divide labor and cooperate to build a beautiful home.

My wife takes care of her parents and father-in-law at the same time. She has a long way to go and the level of hardship is self-evident. After all, there are many inconveniences in taking care of the father-in-law because men and women are not physically related to each other. In daily care, the wife may not be able to be considerate and considerate of everything. You should support, encourage and comfort your wife in an attitude of tolerance, understanding and consideration.

Never criticize or complain that your wife is not doing a good enough job because you are making money to support the family. When you want to complain about your wife, please feel your conscience and ask yourself, if you combine the three If the sick old man is given to you, what can you do? Can you afford it? Will you do better than her? I believe you must be in a hurry. It can be said objectively that compared with making money to support a family compared with taking care of three sick old people, you should cover your mouth and secretly enjoy yourself. You should be grateful to God for giving you such a good wife.

In addition to keeping the salary you earn for your own living expenses, you should give the money to your wife for arrangement. Because the wife carries a big family on her shoulders, including both parents and her own children. Food, clothing, children's education, medical expenses, etc. are not something you can save if you want to. The pressure on your wife is so great. If you are not a housewife, you don't know how expensive firewood, rice, oil and salt are. You have to be aware of it. Managing finances is not an easy task, so don’t make your wife sweat and shed tears.

The happiness of a family can only be achieved by the joint efforts, support, and mutual understanding and consideration of the couple. Only by thinking in one place and working hard in one place can we achieve success. Only then can the family be harmonious, happy and healthy. I wish you a happy life.

In fact, there are too many families like yours in society, and there are too many situations like yours, that is, the generation of only children. One party is an only child, and the other party is an only child. In such a family, both husband and wife will Faced with four elderly people in need of care. No matter husband or wife, there is no reason for the other to give up their parents to take care of them, and no one can give up their parents to take care of the father-in-law or the parents-in-law.

Whether it is a person, a family, or a couple, it is not only necessary to put yourself in another person's shoes, but more importantly, to put your heart into your heart. When both parents of the couple need to be taken care of, it is up to the couple to take care of them. We will think of solutions together, we will face it together, and we will work hard together. Respect each other, be considerate to each other, care for each other, and love each other. Just like you, you are currently facing a time when both parents need to be taken care of, so you have to work harder on yourself. Work cannot be done 24 hours a day. There is plenty of time after work. As long as you have that mind, no matter how big the difficulty is, it will not matter. can overcome. If you push everything at home to your wife like this, whether it’s family or children, even taking care of your parents-in-law and parents-in-law, you have to bear it all by yourself. Even if your wife is a piece of iron or steel, she will be exhausted. of your day!

Remember, caring about your wife is actually caring about yourself. If you are like you, you do nothing but work and don’t care about anything. Everything in the house is your wife. One day your wife will really be exhausted. When you are tired, your days are over. Think about it, isn’t it?