It is clearly agreed to grow up together, but my sister is a little taller than the triplet brother, and she is a "sister" by strength.

In fact, every child's development standards are different. As long as there are no other abnormalities in the body, parents need not worry too much. However, there are many reasons for the disparity in children's development, and parents must pay attention to it.

I saw a photo of triplets shared by a precious mother on the Internet. The first few photos didn't surprise people. The three little guys are also cute, and their facial features are similar. The triplets are two men and one woman, and the youngest is a girl.

However, when the three children stood up at the same time, everyone was shocked. My sister is much taller than my triplet brother, giving people the feeling that she is two years older.

Therefore, some netizens ridiculed: "We agreed to grow up together. Why did you secretly grow one yourself? "

Some netizens said that "this sister is a sister by strength", and even more netizens' triplet mother Aite said, "It's not that you prefer girls to boys, is it eccentric to raise children?"

In fact, the mother of triplets is also very puzzled. Obviously, the height and weight of the three children were not much different when they were born, but with the growth of age, the younger sister grew faster than the two brothers, and her height became more and more advantageous.

In fact, in ordinary life, we often find that underage children, girls and boys generally develop earlier in height or other aspects. Why?

1, congenital factor

The reason why girls develop earlier than boys is actually influenced by congenital factors. Some data show that girls are earlier than boys in language, height and expression ability, and they will be more delicate emotionally, especially in adolescence, when they mature earlier, while boys will mature later.

2. habit formation.

Acquired living habits will also affect various differences between children, such as adequate sleep. If children stay up late, the secretion of growth hormone in the body is insufficient, which will affect their height. Moreover, some boys are particularly picky eaters when they are young. In the case of insufficient nutrition intake, their development may be much slower than that of girls of the same age.

1, don't force children to wear the same clothes and use the same things.

If there are multiple births at home, parents must pay attention when raising them, and do not force their children to wear the same clothes and use the same things, because each child's personality characteristics are different. Excessive unification will limit children's growth and development and make them have a vague sense of self.

2. treat children as independent individuals and don't treat them specially.

Another thing to pay attention to when raising parents with multiple births is that they are impartial and do not treat any one specially, so that children can enjoy the equal love of their parents. Besides, we should treat them as independent individuals. When there is a contradiction, you must never take it lightly, but you must handle it fairly.

So did you have multiple births? What do you think parents should pay attention to when raising multiple births? Welcome to share your answers and let's discuss them together.