What if a woman is jealous?

What if a woman is jealous? As we all know, a woman is not born jealous. Being jealous represents her concern and love for each other. Jealousy is also to attract each other's attention, so what should women do if they are jealous? Let's have a look!

What if a woman is jealous? 1 1. Give her enough sense of security.

In fact, it is a very good thing for women to be jealous, but most women are very difficult to understand. In fact, this kind of performance of women is very concerned about each other and afraid of losing each other's performance. If you talk to another woman, she is worried that you will like someone else, so they are jealous and hope to get your attention.

2. Try to reduce contact with friends of the opposite sex.

In order not to make our girlfriend unhappy (or suspicious), we should try our best to reduce (unnecessary) contact with friends of the opposite sex and make fewer phone calls if nothing happens. Of course, there is no way to avoid doing something.

3. Take her to know more about your friends.

It's best to take your girlfriend to meet friends around you. If you introduce each other so frankly, it proves that you really have nothing to hide from her, and she will naturally feel more at ease and will not doubt you too much.

4. Take her to know her parents

Making friends is one thing. Knowing your parents (and your relatives) will also make her feel at ease a lot. Meeting her family represents her recognition, and at the same time, it will further increase your communication, which is a prelude to marriage.

Don't lose your temper with her.

Never lose your temper with a girl, especially if this girl is still your girlfriend. Give more space when quarreling. After all, she is a life partner. Losing your temper with her will break her heart.

6. Discuss future plans with her.

Just mentioned meeting your parents. Before (or after) meeting your parents, you can take this opportunity to discuss your future life with her, such as what car to buy and how to decorate your home. And eat more at ease.

7. Choose the right time to propose marriage

The best way is to repair the relationship. Repairing relationships doesn't mean I like you. Even if she says yes, it's fixed. She will be very happy to plan a romantic proposal with her friends sometime.

The classic expression of female jealousy

1, very polite

In some cases, if a girl with a little introverted personality finds a suspicious target close to her lover, she will take an alternative approach, which will not only make men feel scared, but also be extra polite, and also directly keep men at a distance and directly freeze their love.

We can understand a woman's deep jealousy from her unusual behavior and attitude, which will make men think twice before they leap from the brink.

2, entanglement, importune

In order to prevent other women's aggression, some women will stare at men in a very clingy way, put their men under their supervision for 24 hours, and sometimes restrict men's actions and even entangle men and their relatives without restraint, so as to let everyone know that this man has a woman, and this woman is me.

3, flattering, extremely gentle

Once a woman finds a potential competitor in her love life, she first suppresses her inner anxiety and at the same time treats her lover with strong flattery. No matter in dress or temper, she will behave differently from the past. In order to let men find his gentleness and flattery, she has achieved the purpose of rejecting others.

4, crazy, shopaholic

There are many ways for women to vent their inner anxiety and dissatisfaction, but the most common one is crazy shopping or crazy consumption, which is another manifestation of women's possessiveness. Sometimes, jealous women will lose their minds when spending. They go shopping crazily just to achieve inner balance, just to relieve depressed mood, just to satisfy another kind of possession.

5. paranoid and unreasonable

This kind of woman is often depressed, unable to review herself well, and it is difficult to listen to other people's explanations or sincere suggestions. She always likes to fall into a dead end, always feels that the other party is sorry for herself, or always feels that she has worked hard, why she can't always get the sincerity of the other party, and even thinks that she is "not a person who will not marry."

6, crying, gently sweeping the floor

Some women cry when they are jealous. No matter at home or at work, no matter what occasion your man was at that time, crying twice and hanging himself three times will really make men feel humiliated and rude, especially when dealing with men who are leaders and very slutty.

7. Crazy and abnormal behavior

The best thing for a woman is to follow her lover to public places. They often have verbal or physical conflicts with jealous women in front of many people. At the same time, we will make a scene at home, throw things and smash tables. What's more, six parents will deny it and keep quarreling with each other's parents or units. This is absolutely a kind of crash and burn.

8. Cold War, as cold as ice.

Many introverted or rational women prefer to express their jealousy with cold violence. This cold war includes no longer paying attention to each other, no longer expressing their inner feelings to each other, no longer dating or even rejecting each other's dating requests, and no longer contacting each other by phone.

9. Self-mutilation and suicide.

The most terrible thing is that women cut their wrists, take medicine, tattoo their lover's name, turn themselves into a woman who sees through the world of mortals, and even choose to become a nun or threaten suicide, which makes men have to live in great anxiety.

10, hurt, beat up rival in love

An extroverted woman may list her rival in love as the number one hate object, and try her best to get revenge on her with her brothers, sisters or friends, find her rival's unit to humiliate her in public, and even make her an immoral woman reviled in the online world, and try her best to humiliate her rival in love.

The wrong way for women to be jealous.

1, not "jealous"

What I'm talking about here is not jealousy, but actually the external performance of women, because almost no woman in the world is not jealous. The reason why they are not jealous is that they always use their inner patience, tolerance and generosity to explain. Perhaps their practice has been praised by many people in the society, but from the perspective of women themselves and marriage, I am very opposed. Because for women in love and marriage, "vinegar" must be eaten, and it must be eaten seriously and aboveboard. Only by eating "vinegar" can we vent our bad emotions, and it is also the best and simplest expression of our love for each other. If a woman is not jealous, she will be invaded by other women. However, a proper jealousy in marriage can form a protective wall to keep you and your man inside, so that your marriage will not deteriorate easily.

2. Turn over the "vinegar altar"

In real life, many women are full of jealousy. As long as a man is found to be a little distracted, he will immediately become an overturned jealousy, and the acid will flow all over the place, and the acid will be unstoppable. He will cry at every turn, even the men's seven aunts and eight aunts will scold together, and even try to find a way to die, and make a scene with men's units and leaders, so that men will be physically defeated. This practice is obviously a bit excessive, and it also seriously violates the psychological starting point of "jealousy" at the beginning. "Jealousy" should be the expression of a person's care and love for a man, but in the end this noisy love has turned into hatred, even the irretrievable personality insult and social status decline of both husband and wife, which can't be said to be a stupid behavior and more harmful to marriage.

3, "jealous" every day

It is usually healthy to be jealous every day in life, but it is unacceptable to be jealous every day in marriage. According to my understanding, most men actually want their women to eat some "vinegar" in their hearts, which is an emotional demand and a reflection of men's value. But few men like women to be jealous every day. Otherwise, even if women are attractive and understand the art of marriage, men will one day have toothache and stomach cramps and have to run away. In my experience, I think women's jealousy should be based on men's acid resistance and good vinegar. It is best not to arrange "jealousy" behavior three or more times a week. Even if she can't control herself, she must learn to change her form and change her taste into "vinegar". For example, the last time she ignored people with silence, this time she had to use tears, and the next time she mainly used scraping and sarcasm.

4. "Jealousy" regardless of occasion

I often find that some women eat "vinegar" regardless of occasions. As long as they smell the sour taste, they will immediately launch a "vinegar madness" there. Often, "vinegar surprises everyone", which not only embarrasses men and themselves, but also embarrasses others present. In fact, this practice is quite undesirable, which not only damages one's own image, but also gives others an opportunity. Smart women will give men and everyone face, but also give themselves face, and then "criticize" when no one or two people are at home. This is the old saying, wash your dirty linen in public, let nature take its course. However, I don't object to this method for some men who are too thick-skinned and don't know how to respect themselves.

Why do women love jealousy?

1, afraid of losing

Women are afraid of not being loved because of the intervention of a third party. In fact, many times the third party does not exist, but it is too worried to cause jealousy and anxiety.

2, eager to possess

A woman's jealousy has a strong exclusiveness, which is manifested in marriage, that is, she hopes to have absolute exclusive rights to her husband and become the only object of her husband's desire and interest.

3. Affected by the environment

Women are not born jealous. If born in a harmonious family environment, women are unlikely to have distrust. However, if parents divorce because of cheating, then the possibility of children being suspicious in the future will increase. In addition, love experience will also affect the size of jealousy: betrayal, too handsome ex-boyfriend, and so on. It will also make women embark on the road of jealousy.

4. Lack of self-confidence

A woman who thinks she is ugly and boring will probably feel that she is not liked by men. And she is also skeptical about whether her partner is 100% loyal.

In marriage, proper jealousy can attract each other's attention and promote communication between the two sides, which is not serious. However, when jealousy is overturned, you should be on your guard. If you have stomach pain, insomnia and other discomfort because of jealousy, you should also go through your partner's pockets and read mobile phone messages. It may affect the feelings of both parties and hurt the marriage relationship.

What if a woman is jealous? 2 1. Let's talk it over.

It's normal for girls to be jealous of boys. Girls don't want their men to look at other girls Therefore, when a boy is jealous of his girlfriend and loses his temper, he should persuade her well. Let's discuss it carefully and don't take other girls too seriously.

2. Express your love for her.

You love her very much, so show it. Because girls are sometimes naive and think that you don't care about her very much, you should express your love for her. Don't let her think that you don't care about her, or she will think more.

3. Keep your distance from other girls.

If your girlfriend just doesn't like you looking at other girls, then you can satisfy her inner requirements. Keeping a distance from other girls doesn't mean not communicating with them, as long as you don't have an affair. Your actions and words are not ambiguous to them, and your girlfriend will understand.

4. Spend more time with her.

You can spend more time together. Girls get jealous when they think too much. If you spend a lot of time with her, she will feel safe and considerate. Spending more time with your girlfriend can also promote love appropriately.

5. Make her feel safe.

Girls may be jealous because they are insecure about you. Do you want to think about whether you don't care about her at ordinary times If so, we should remind ourselves more. It is a man's proudest thing to give his beloved woman a sense of security.

6. Take her as the center.

Pay more attention to her and put her first, so that she won't lose her temper and be jealous. Girls want their boyfriends to be only good to themselves, and don't want other girls to appear in their boyfriends' eyes, so when talking about other girls, they should pay attention to their girlfriends' expressions and her feelings.