Wife dialed the wrong number, will it ruin your life?

Yes, it will not only make you realize the happy life it runs in the family, but also make you feel bad and in a bad mood at work. What's more, it will bring bad children. Education is very important. Really, neurotic temper will come at any moment. If she is unhappy, she can make everyone around her miserable. Opening your mouth and closing your mouth are all curses. I feel sick to hear it, let alone live a good life. One woman can destroy three generations! Just now, because the child soiled his new clothes, he called me in the middle of the night, and then his mother kept selling that batch. The turtle wife scolded him so loudly that the whole building could hear him. The sound insulation in the old community is not very good. ) My daughter is over nine years old. Can this be scolded by mom? I knew my daughter was punched and kicked again without looking at it, because it is a common practice, 365 days a year, all of which are slap in the face, feet, fists, repeated education, and really tired. Because of her, my parents are not with us, and he won't call my parents now, and even the children won't call their mother-in-law. Make trouble, fight, or that virtue. Want to change, no perseverance. I am really tired! I always thought about forbearing for a complete family, but I didn't expect it to get worse. I think I've reached my limit. I tolerate her disrespect for my parents for my children, but I can't tolerate her poisoning the next generation. I'm really fed up. I am really divorced. I take care of the children and don't want to remarry. Tutoring is really important! Tutoring is really important! Tutoring is really important!

Wife dialed the wrong number, will it ruin your life?

An uncle in my family is a living example. Because of marrying the wrong wife, the whole family and life were ruined in the end.

Uncle is not tall and looks ordinary, but he married a beautiful wife.

Isn't there a saying in the countryside that heroes marry ugly wives and idlers marry cuttlefish? Uncle is certainly not lazy. /kloc-went out to work at the age of 0/8, and saved more than 65,438+10,000 yuan in 7 years, all of which were spent on the career of marrying a wife.

I finally married a beautiful wife, and my uncle gave her up like an ancestor, just staying at home and not letting me do any work.

The daughter-in-law was dissatisfied. After a year, she clamored to go out to work. Uncle can't stop him from saying bad things, so he can only let her out.

As soon as this beautiful wife saw the world in the city, her heart went wild, and she never wanted to go back to her uncle.

The beautiful daughter-in-law in the middle also came back twice, and then lived for two days and returned to the city. Soon she told her uncle that she was pregnant.

The daughter is only three months old, and the beautiful daughter-in-law threw the child to her uncle and went to work in the city herself.

Of course my uncle stopped me this time, but my beautiful daughter-in-law said that if you stop me again, I will divorce you. If I leave, who can marry you? The uncle was so frightened that he could only retract his hand to hold his wife.

However, before the child is one year old, the beautiful wife can't stand it. She filed for divorce first.

Uncle begged and cried, almost kneeling in front of his beautiful daughter-in-law, who was determined to leave him.

It turned out that the beautiful daughter-in-law hooked up with a small business owner outside, and the small business owner told her to go home and divorce her before marrying him.

Uncle later said that if you want to leave, you can leave 50 thousand of the bride price I gave you before, so that my children and I can eat and drink!

The beautiful daughter-in-law said that the money had already been spent, not to mention 50 thousand, not even 10 thousand If you don't want a child, I'll take it away. Anyway, when the little girl is raised, she can get married, and then she can get a large bride price!

Uncle is completely desperate. He looked at his beautiful daughter-in-law and said, Let's go tomorrow. I bought a bag of pig bones in the market yesterday, and I will cook bone soup for you at night. Let's say goodbye together!

The beautiful daughter-in-law thought that uncle wanted to get through it, but she thought that life was not bad anyway, so she agreed.

Uncle began to chop wood slowly, make a fire and clean pig bones. Just as the smell of bone soup began to pervade the whole yard, Uncle took out a pack of rat poison from his clothes pocket and poured it all into the delicious soup.

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Warren Buffett said: In fact, the most important decision in your life is who to marry. In choosing a partner, if you are wrong, you will lose a lot, not just money.

That's true. If you choose the wrong wife, you will lose not only money, but also your life.

Neither my wife nor I know who is to blame. Can you tell us? My daughter-in-law is three years older than me. I grew up poor and inferior. I came to work in a foreign land alone. Their home is where I work. Both her parents have uremia. They only have two daughters. After a period of contact, she became pregnant. Then I married her. I also have a formal job. She is a nurse. When she got married, her family asked her to get married here. I don't agree, because parents and relatives are in their hometown. But I agreed. Wedding night is wedding night. My daughter-in-law kept bothering me all night, saying that I didn't call her parents after the wedding, so I had to go ... I cried all night and went back to their hometown to see her grandparents on the third day. I forgot what the reason was, and there was another big fight. Life will be more frequent in the future, and you will lose your temper. Her parents often say in front of her. My mother has been here to look after the baby since it was born. When the baby is eight months old, it happens to be the Spring Festival. She gave me another scene, pointing her finger at my mother's nose and saying, fuck off! Then I divorced and asked for 300 thousand to give me the child. My father and my aunt came to our house by plane, and I agreed. I'm going to buy a house and lend her some money for 300 thousand, and then she asked for 500 thousand. I didn't agree. On the third day, I coaxed her, and then I coaxed her to take the child back to her hometown for my mother to raise. At that time, my child was two years old now, and she often quarreled. She has a bad temper. Her parents and relatives all say that she has a bad temper. It was because I made a mistake that I fell out. I wish I were dead. What should I do?

My wife dialed the wrong number, which really ruined my life! There are factual examples that not only ruin a man's life, but also this woman's life! An extraordinary story, moving a small bench, I will tell you slowly, men and women met at work, and later, after a flash marriage, both men and women went to work, and the woman felt that her salary was low, and she rested at home, and she felt bored after a long rest alone! Slowly, this woman got to know Hu Peng's card friend. She plays cards outside every day, but she doesn't stay at home. This man knows about it. She fights. She fights several times a day. The woman is finally honest, pregnant, having a baby, and bored at home. She is still playing cards outside, and the child is thrown to her mother-in-law. She played every day and didn't come back at last. She's hanging out with a man. She filed for divorce and the man gave his informed consent. Let's live our lives. Who knows that this woman divorced again and married someone else's house, and life was not good. She brought a girl, and now she has another one with this man, and that man has three children! How can I live well? The burden and pressure are great, but it's a beautiful day. You must kill yourself and get burned! It's not bad to find a bad woman to destroy three generations!

Let me first talk about the real experience of a close friend around me. My friend and his wife have been married for ten years. My friend is a freelancer. He and his wife originally agreed to have free property, that is, both husband and wife work, and the wife's work income belongs to her own control. The child is taken care of by the old man at home, and his wife doesn't need to cook and take care of the child. My friend is in charge of his family expenses. Last year, however, his wife had an accident and he spent tens of thousands of yuan to treat her. However, during his stay in hospital, he found that his wife had lost 300,000 yuan because of the heavy gambling burden. However, the savings from her work in recent years have already been put in, and she secretly sold their dowry jewels. Friends' income is average, which is a great blow. His family saved 60 thousand yuan and paid off some debts for his wife. After drinking, he told me another thing, that is, during his hospitalization, he found that his wife had been gambling behind his back for several years, and she was still having an affair with other men outside. There was no conclusive evidence, just relying on WeChat to delete half the records. As a man, I also know that there are some small moves. However, his mother-in-law, whom I have come into contact with, is a very selfish person. I heard that he told her these things. Instead of waking up her daughter, her mother-in-law accused her son-in-law, saying that he had no money to help him pay his debts, and he also supported her divorce. Anyway, those words are just embarrassing. Moreover, after this incident, his wife was as self-righteous as usual and looked down on my friend and his family from the bottom of her heart. My friend is depressed and haggard every day now. He has a daughter and he doesn't want to lose his home because of this. But I advised him to divorce. Such a woman is really not worth cherishing. It is really a disaster to marry the wrong wife all your life.

I will. An engineer took a fancy to a girl from the countryside. This girl is very beautiful. Before getting married, the girl opened a small restaurant, and engineers often went to restaurants to eat, so they met.

Soon they got married, but they couldn't live together and couldn't speak the same language. Within a few days, the engineer affected his work and lost his job.

What a pity this engineer is. Struggled for decades. Let a marriage that should not be affected. Dude, don't let the excitement go to your head. One wrong step, one wrong step. Life is so cruel.

Yes, let's talk about my mother. She has a strong desire for control. Every day, she wants my dad to come home on time and let my brother do what she wants. The whole family is being suppressed by her, and then she says all day that we are not as good as this. I think men should go out and break in. Why are they so obedient? My father and my brother have no fighting spirit. If anyone doesn't listen to my mother, my mother can be silent every day, and the family atmosphere is very bad.

My wife has found the wrong one. It's definitely a devastating life. That's what I do. My wife and I don't agree. We can't be together. We were ok in the first few years of marriage, but then it got worse and worse. I don't smoke. I just have a few drinks with my friends when I socialize, and I don't spend money casually. I don't often get off work, and I like to be lively. I like playing with friends, just chatting and traveling, but my wife loves cleanliness and doesn't like crowded places. I came back from playing with my friends late, about 10, so I closed the door and refused to enter the house. I am very willing to give up my friends, and so is my family. Every time I go to my mother-in-law's house to buy delicious food for her nephew, I also give money. Once I took my niece and daughter to play, I asked her to buy a bottle of water for my child, so she bought a bottle, saying that my niece didn't drink it and bought gifts for her parents-in-law on holidays. She never took the initiative to buy them for my parents. When I was young, I worked very hard Because my work is not very good, it is very hard. I sleep after work. She felt wronged when she cooked for me. Once I ate noodles and let me cook them myself. There was a big fight at that time, and I didn't feel bad at all. There are many such examples, so I am disappointed in my life. I tried to get a divorce several times, but when I saw my daughter was still young, but she didn't have the motivation to live, I held back. The unit wanted me to be promoted to section chief several times and talked to me several times. I refused because I have no passion for the current family situation. Our unit is a unit that looks at the class production line. In recent years, I have been mobilized to do this. At that time, I was thinking about it because of the money problem, but I also worked hard. So I will try to make money. Am I in pain? It's not over yet. The point is that I fell from 16-7 meters at work, causing lifelong disability. My whole life and family ended early. Therefore, we must treat marriage with caution! If you disagree, don't get married easily!

Wife dialed the wrong number, will it ruin your life? Needless to say, my wife got the wrong number and ruined you for at least three generations. A friend of mine grew up in a poor family, so he was malnourished. He didn't grow up, he was thin. He is often bullied at school, even his female classmates bully him. Because I am short, we always sit at the front and back tables, he is always in the first row and I am in the second row, so we became good friends. When I was studying, I felt that everyone liked physical education class and could have fun on the playground without studying, but he really didn't like physical education class. Whenever there is physical education class, he hides in a remote corner and recites English texts, not words, but the whole text. He studies very hard. He graduated from high school and the college entrance examination is coming soon. We used to have a good chat. I only remember that he said he wanted to go to the best university. He got his wish and went to the best university. After graduation, he was assigned to work in the municipal government, but he resigned and went to sea in less than half a year. What courage!

Sure enough, he became the best person in the class and soon had millions of property. At this time, almost all his classmates got married, and some even gave birth to children. A girl's child got leukemia, and he donated 10 thousand yuan to that girl classmate. What a nice person.

Later, he was introduced to his present wife. Numerous women have introduced him before, but he said no. Now he is going to marry the people he meets, and they will be married in less than three months. On their wedding day, many students came to congratulate them, including those young and those in college. The students were all surprised. The daughter-in-law is so beautiful that she is impeccable. She is really ashamed of flowers and has a very good figure. My classmate really realized all the wishes he made when he was a child, and they all came true.

However, although this daughter-in-law is very beautiful, she can't do any housework and likes to sleep late. She stopped getting up after 10 and told her husband that the beauty of a woman comes from sleep. This friend of mine can't help shopping outside for a long time, eating Chinese food in his own company, cooking dinner at home if he wants to, hanging out if he doesn't want to, and regularly asking hourly workers to clean the house. The beautiful daughter-in-law is responsible for sleeping, shopping, buying clothes, playing cards in the mahjong room to kill time and dressing herself up beautifully. Later, there was a girl. The girl is 20 years old now, worse than her mother. She didn't sleep at 2 am when she looked at her mobile phone at night, and she wouldn't get up before noon 12. She joined three universities, but she never studied. She spends most of the day in bed, and when she gets up, she dresses up and eats with her classmates. She is also beautifully dressed. Everyone loves her when she goes out, and going home is like entering a pigsty. All this is not a problem when men are rich.

Terrible things still happened. My classmate, his business went bankrupt and he lost his income. My classmate racked his brains every day for a better career, his hair turned white, and various diseases found him. Every day, his illness makes him miserable. He has to work hard, and sometimes he can't sleep all night. But his beautiful wife is still the same as before. When she had no money to play cards, she sold her watch with hundreds of dollars for more than 10 thousand. Mahjong hall is full of smoke and smells like smoke. After returning home, I am afraid that my husband will find out. Before returning home, I will go back to my mother's house, take a shower and change clothes to eliminate the smell of smoke. A wise woman doesn't know that all this is what her husband expects. Her husband knows everything but says nothing. My daughter, like my mother, has a lot of living expenses every month, and everything remains the same.

When I saw my classmate again, he asked me where the temple had taken people who wanted to become monks.

As the closest relationship, husband and wife have a self-evident influence on each other. The terrible thing is that if you find the wrong person, you may ruin your life.

Men find the wrong person and ruin their lives. Beware of four types of women.

1. Women who want to change men

She may come from a loveless family and has never felt emotional warmth. Because she tried hard but couldn't get the love of her parents, she would desperately seek from her partner. If a partner doesn't know how to give her moderate love, she will try to change each other. She always feels that the other person is not perfect, but she still "firmly believes in the potential of the other person" and will use all means to turn the other person into the person she needs. If you refuse to accept her transformation, your marriage will only come to an end.

2. A woman without self

She may never take good care of herself. When a person who needs to be taken care of appears, she naturally puts all her attention on the other person and tries her best to pay for the other person. She is willing to accept and bear the blame and guilt in the emotional world anytime and anywhere. She lives not for herself, but for others; She is not so much a selfless darling as a love slave who has lost herself. However, marriage is an equal partnership, not a master-servant relationship. With a woman who has no self, men bear the heaviest emotional burden. Unless you are a cold-hearted person, you can accept her "sacrifice" frankly. For herself, once a man leaves her for some reason, she may collapse because she can't accept the reality.

3. A woman without a bottom line

She never feels safe, never knows how to be temperate and can't be satisfied. Once she falls in love with someone, even if the other person doesn't belong to her at all, she won't give up. She will wait, and will work harder to cross the bottom line while waiting. Such a woman is more emotional and will be reckless because of impulse, whether it is crazy shopping or extreme pursuit of enjoyment. In marriage, she can't face the end of being abandoned. Even if love comes to an end, she will stop at nothing to keep him.

4. Reject a real woman

She has never been confident. Even if happiness comes to her, she doesn't believe it is true. She doubts everything, including love, because her heart can't bear the warmth of love. If you marry such a woman, you should always be prepared to deal with her sensitivity and paranoia and bear all the storms in life for her. Similarly, if her feelings encounter twists and turns, she will only let herself live in a world full of fantasies and stay away from the real reality. Like an ostrich, it buries its head in the sand when it is in danger, thinking that everything will be fine if it is not faced. In fact, she just didn't have the courage to face the reality.