Quarrel with my mother-in-law and have a cold war with my husband

A friend of mine asked me to get married after divorce, saying that because I live with my mother-in-law, my husband is very kind and considerate to her and will tell her everything. But because of this, her husband quarreled with her many times, and both of them were very unhappy. The other day, her husband complained to me that he had told his wife several times that he had divorced. Her husband said it was not good and reasonable; Her husband said that he also said that he wanted a divorce, but her husband just didn't agree; But her father-in-law disagreed, saying that he was also doing it for her own good. This friend is very entangled! This gives me a great headache! Why?

First, the mother-in-law is very strong and good to her husband, who is good to her.

My friend told me that her husband used to be very kind to her. Once she quarreled with her husband, who was very angry. But her father-in-law advised her to make up with her son. If her father-in-law can't convince her, she suggests that her husband make peace with her himself. Later, her husband will quarrel with her and have a cold war with her. This cold war hurts a lot. So he wants to make up with her, probably because of the cold war.

Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is easy to suffer.

Before the daughter-in-law gives birth to a child, there will be great opinions and differences in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is easy to produce contradictions. Some mothers-in-law like to take their children to wait on their daughters-in-law when they give birth. If the daughter-in-law takes more care of the children when giving birth, the mother-in-law may feel that she has lost her young thoughts. Therefore, the mother-in-law will feel that she is the one who is so tired because of giving birth to a child, and the daughter-in-law is also the most tired person who gives birth to a child. You will feel that you and your daughter-in-law are made for each other. Daughter-in-law is more tired when she gives birth to a child, because she gave birth to it herself. When this emotion accumulates to a certain extent, problems will arise.

Third, the mother-in-law has a bad temper, which will make men unhappy.

Why does this friend ask me? Because I don't know what her husband is thinking. Maybe she doesn't know the answer either. I think this friend's husband has never treated her as a mother, and her mother-in-law usually has a bad temper, especially when she loses her temper and quarrels with her husband at a little thing. Her husband won't think too much. If one day she doesn't want her husband to quarrel with her every day, he will tell her what he thinks.