Boys, can you tell whether you are your favorite type at first sight?

One? Whether men and women can become husband and wife, from the first sight, it is doomed that most modern people have to go through the stage of love before they can get married. Only a few people get married after falling in love once, and most people get married after falling in love several times. As the saying goes, meeting the right person at the right time is what we call "fate". Those feelings with misplaced time or personality are at best "predestined friends". So what kind of men and women are predestined friends and share? Some people say that whether a man and a woman can become husband and wife is doomed from the moment they first see each other. Can you believe it?

First of all, a thing called "magnetic field" sounds mysterious, but everyone can't deny its existence. In this movie "If You Are the One", Shu Qi said that after two people meet, the smell and the smell that attracts each other doomed their life. As far as you are concerned, predestination is not enough. You don't necessarily get married at first sight. For example, in the movie, Shu Qi and Fang Zhongxin are destined for each other. Can't be together. However, the friend who is married now, that is, the one we talked about, has this experience. When you first met your current husband or wife, did you feel that year? The sixth sense in your heart tells you that he may be the other half who will join me in the marriage hall in the future.

Let me talk about the "sixth sense" just mentioned. It's a bit puzzling, but many people always mention it because the application of the sixth sense in emotions is very effective. Let's go back to the question of fate. When two strange men and women meet for the first time, at first glance, they may feel psychologically that this person is the one I want to marry for the rest of my life, so there will be a hint in my heart. This psychological hint determines that I will continue to develop with him. Even if there are some twists and turns in the middle, we will firmly believe that our fate will not stop there, and we will continue this fate through various efforts and eventually succeed. Just like Li Jian sang in that song, I will never forget your face again, because I took one more look at you in the crowd.

Maybe when you see this, you will think that what I just said is "empty", which belongs to the novels and stories of talented people and beautiful women falling in love at first sight. In fact, this truth is also true for ordinary people in our reality. I don't know if you agree with me. A blind date between men and women, if it doesn't seem to suit your eyes at first sight, is nothing in the future. After the blind date, there is a "golden 72 rule of continuation". If we meet for three days for the first time and have no contact with each other, and then make another date, then the blind date may fail. Can you say that the first sight of blind date is not important? The first sight of the blind date determines whether each other has the possibility of development.

As for those who said they didn't like it at first sight and then got married, it only means that since you didn't flatly refuse to continue to associate with this person, it only means that you didn't completely exclude him, but gave him a chance. Doesn't that mean that seeing this person at first sight doesn't actually make you feel that you must completely reject him?

Maybe you will refute me and say, "We are only together because we have a long history of love." "I was moved by his persistent pestering and beating, but I have no choice but to get married." ... In fact, no matter what kind of statement, it just means that at least one of you moved at first sight and felt that the other person was at least suitable for my marriage. Otherwise, how can two people be together if they don't want to, and there is no kidnapping and persecution? Fate does exist, but it cannot be explained clearly. At first glance, the magnetic field between men and women will play a role inexplicably, virtually pulling two people together and inseparable from each other. Maybe this is fate.

There are no girls who can't catch up, only boys who can't catch up. Many male brothers are still struggling to get rid of the bill. In fact, it is understandable that they don't understand women at all. Many just comfort themselves that I am an honest man and a kind person, and there will be girls looking for me. I can only say, brothers, you think too simply. The real reality is that the more honest a boy is, the less he has a girlfriend. Such people are often not good at expressing themselves. I have no confidence in myself, let alone pursuing girls. Even if we are together, I will not coax girls, make them happy and break up with many girls. But this problem can be completely solved through study and training. Many of them are caused by the lack of ideological cognition of male compatriots. Studying more can solve these problems.

I know a great love teacher. Every Wednesday and Friday, he will broadcast the underlying logic of picking up girls online for free, and really analyze how to catch up with the girls he likes from the perspective of actual combat. Many brothers took off their orders gloriously, not only to catch up, but also for a long time. They will also tell you how to get along with girls, such as the following things. Of course, this is only part of it.

(1) "practical special session of chasing girls training camp: exhibition design+resource strategy",

(2) "Off-site chat skills: how to talk with the goddess in full swing"

(3) Live broadcast of chasing girls: 1 hour How to take off the order and let girls play actively.

(4) Long-term relationship separation: Decrypt the password for upgrading the relationship with a woman in love.

Students who want to listen can watch it in "Du Niang: Mao Ge Picking up Girls Technical Course".

Third, how to judge whether there is a blind date? I believe many blind date people want to know how to judge whether the blind date likes themselves or not.

After all, the process of blind date is very implicit. It is not good to ask the other person directly if they are interested in themselves, and girls can't ask the boys these questions on their own initiative.

So, what did the boy do when the blind date met for the first time, indicating that he had a good impression on you?

To this end, Xiao summed up the performance that blind date boys like you. I hope everyone who is confused can learn from it, seize the opportunity and get rid of the order smoothly!

1. When a boy meets you for the first time, his expression is very important. It depends on whether he is disappointed or a little shy and afraid to look at you. If there is, it must be stable.

2. Ask the other person how far it is, how inconvenient it is, and how long it has been. If a man has a good impression on you, he will categorically say that it is near, convenient and not long. After all, it is worthwhile to meet someone you like.

3. See how he orders while eating. If he takes the initiative to ask you to order food and asks if it is enough after ordering, a performance that you are afraid of not having enough to eat represents a good first feeling for you.

When we meet, he cares about your preferences. He speaks carefully for fear that you will dislike him if he is wrong. In silence, he will consciously find all kinds of topics you are interested in, but not including auditing.

5. There are follow-up arrangements after dinner. If a boy asks if he wants to see a movie, take a walk and so on. After dinner, it shows that he is a little unfinished. If he really eats and goes home early, there will be plenty of opportunities in the future.

6. Take the initiative to send you home after the end. I hope that when you get home, send him a message saying that you have arrived, so that he can feel at ease. Even if you forget to send it, he will take the initiative to ask if you have arrived home.

7. After the two sides meet, he will take the initiative to chat with you, report his daily life to you, and try to cause a topic. Of course, not only chatting, but also meeting for the second time.

Ps: What I said before meeting is just as useless. Taking the initiative is as useless as beating chicken blood. The key is to talk after meeting, so make sure you are interested in getting to know each other as soon as possible, so as not to waste energy and disappointment.