Know that life is precious.

The flying catkins are like flowers, light and dreamy, banishing the soul, walking in the early autumn sky to realize the Tao, and salvaging those treasures that are increasingly ignored.

When the earthly fireworks crossed several empty hearts, leaving a cold silence, and the rainbow on the horizon shone on the silent eyes like lightning, scattering the tenderness of a lifetime ago, the heart suddenly put down, as elegant as a piece of white paper that had never been drawn, as thin as cicada's wings and clean.

In life, you will always meet all kinds of people, arrogant, biased, arrogant, arrogant or arrogant. It always makes people feel that communication and understanding are so difficult. When I meet them face to face, Qianshan and I are always separated by Qian Shan. No matter how hard I try, the cold indifference tramples on everything, and I can only be speechless.

In fact, sometimes just a smile, a greeting, a nod and an understanding can make the heart zero distance. I am also happy that you are moved by the harvest. Why not?

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The world of mortals is unstable, and the years are restless.

In the gap of time, many strange ideas often come out of my heart, through the layers of curtains in my heart, looking for secluded places and giving myself a powerful answer. Hold your forehead with your hands crossed, lost in thought: What is the most precious thing in this world, a thriving career, a romantic and beautiful love, a force that can call the wind and rain, an enemy's wealth, or an elegant and peaceful heart? ...

In the memory of collision, look back at the traces of different shades; In my lazy eyes, I can see the future with high mountains and high waters. Regardless of sadness, countless farewells and countless landscapes, the Zen flavor in my heart resists those bleak and plain appearances, hiding a long-standing desire to understand others and be understood.

When I am lonely, I am used to watching the change and rotation of the sky and the ground and the surrounding scenery. But I know that no matter how tender I feel about this world, no matter how warm I look at it, I can't touch the soul of this world. It is precisely because the world is full of weather that everything in the world is competing and has its own territory. If you can't fly out, no one else can get in.

I didn't know until I grew up that when those babies cried, they were actually eager. Hungry, cold, hot, painful, sick and speechless, I can only express myself in this way. I hope adults can understand his needs and discomfort, and then eliminate this discomfort in a proper way to make themselves comfortable. It is true that this requires the elders to observe and understand attentively, and have enough care and patience.

Today's children, although they have everything they want, can be "crushed" by heavy homework, but also have their own helplessness and hard work. Scores and rankings make them highly nervous, overwhelming homework and exercises make them dizzy, and all kinds of extracurricular tutoring make them non-stop ... But what they want most is the love and understanding of their parents, which can give them a sky for free growth.

I have been a child with strong self-esteem since I was a child. At that time, I was always trying to be a good student and a good boy silently and regularly. I don't envy my classmates wearing beautiful new clothes and buying new toys, and I don't like parties in busy places. I always thought that teachers' praise and classmates' envy were far more attractive than those new clothes and toys. At that time, I only hoped that one or two good friends could understand the flying dream in my heart and accompany my happiness and loss; I hope teachers and classmates will understand my efforts and progress, and recognition is the best reward for me.

Now, when I can't get the understanding around me, forbearance is my only choice. I have always believed that it is a blessing to suffer, because if you suffer, you will be open-minded and selfless. And a person who likes to force others to identify with himself to satisfy his own desires and prove his strength. In fact, when you get what you want, are you really happy inside? Your happiness breeds embarrassment for others. This is a debt that you will never pay back in your life. Although no one will ask you for it, this debt will haunt you all your life and make you regret it, trouble sleeping.

Let's talk about the parents in the world. They have worked hard all their lives day and night, just to achieve the glory of their lives. But there are always some children who always do the opposite, squandering their youth, ruining their dreams and even going astray. Poor parents are helpless except grief. As the saying goes, there are parents in the world, and how many children really understand that their parents hate iron to produce, and how much pain their parents love?

Life, stumbling, struggling, trying our best, is actually not for those flashy secular scenery, not for those thin and nihilistic pretending to be strong, nor for those specious happiness, but for the pursuit of mutual understanding, needless to say, the heart has long been clear.

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Everyone is a lonely passer-by in the world, eager to harvest the precious beauty or blue face in life and accompany the long-term loneliness in my heart. Sadly, when I look back suddenly, I can't find anyone I want to talk to, some are unwilling, some can't, and some can't.

In life, many people pursue countless things, such as career, love, wealth and power. When everything comes true and the dust settles, the lack in your heart will make you fall into a great helpless loss. Driving a luxury car, living in a luxury house, comfortable in business, wearing expensive clothes, going in and out of high-end places. It seems that the scenery is infinite and everyone admires it. Behind the omnipotent situation, those lonely and empty places will also sneak into their hearts in a leisure time or in the dead of night, eating away at those hidden desires on weekdays.

Birds fly in the sky, who ever understood their pursuit? Fish are shallow. Who ever understood their tears? The distance between heaven and earth is far, and the world is wide. There will always be two quiet people face to face, but they can't forget each other. A lifetime of waiting, a lifetime of affection, just to get one cycle after another that disappoints me.

Flowers, colorful, swaying and fragrant, are really beautiful, and dare not profane the beauty that cannot be touched. Appreciation, the beautiful face of flowers, every petal, is a pure soul, pregnant with beautiful and moving stories. Listen, the sound of flowers blooming is the sentimental note of the world, the oath of past lives, and the vision that spans the Millennium. However, who laughs when the flowers bloom and who is sad when the flowers fall? That brief glory overwhelmed all the prosperity, overshadowed the desolation of the soul, swept away the cold of the season, and smiled at Fanghua with a beautiful and sad attitude.

Extraordinary vines have a deep feeling of weeping blood. Because of a party, I fell into a strange circle of never seeing each other again. From then on, Mosaic couldn't see each other again and again, so it was cruel to separate, so it was heartbreaking, but there was no regret. Who ever understood that their affection is like the sea, and life and death are connected. Who knows that their loneliness is deeply grieved? What we see is their enchanting and beautiful appearance, but we can never touch the vicissitudes of life crawling on them.

Many times, we don't understand the drift of the cloud, but feel that it is floating freely; I don't understand the ruthless wind, but I feel it is deeply chased; I don't understand the long and gentle rain, but I feel it is dripping; I don't understand the fragility of snow, but I think it is beautiful and white; I don't understand the arrogance of the sun, but I feel it is warm, warm ... We are afraid of loneliness and just want to feel the happy and beautiful side of the world, but we always choose to ignore the sadness and helplessness we don't want to mention. It is these superficial understandings that make us less aware of the world, which is another kind of forgotten beauty.

Two people who love each other, the initial beauty, construct a false imagination and outline the perfect possibility. At the beginning of love, no one thought of the final separation. In fact, from the beginning to the end of love, it seems that there is no obvious incompatibility, but it is so inexplicably weak, cold and gone. Just because we don't know each other, a stranger comes as soon as we turn around, and it seems like a lifetime ago. And if we can understand and appreciate each other and listen with tolerance and tenderness, then love will be different, and the longer it lasts, the stronger it will be.

Zhang Ailing said that because she knows, she is merciful. What this knowledge brought her was a feeling of love and hate, but it was a willing fall of her life. Because I know that I am as proud as she is, but I am as low as dust to him. Because I know that when love is getting farther and farther away, when he no longer needs her, he chooses to let go. Because she knew that when he was down and out, she was unconventional and generous. Because she knew that she buried her love deeply, but refused to meet again. She never hated it? I think she hates his enthusiasm, his neglect and his ignorance. And she knows him, his talent, his fickleness and his unfaithfulness, so she loves him so much. So, in a letter to Hu Lancheng, she said, "I don't like you anymore, and you don't like me anymore. I have been thinking about this resolution for a year and a half ... Don't come to me, even if you write it, I won't read it. " From then on, she chose silence and escape. Isn't this silent understanding another kind of unforgettable love?

Time has been soaked for a long time, and my heart is cold and precipitated. Suddenly, I understood the myriad landscapes in the world, and I was just passing by in a hurry; I understand that the weak water is 3 100 ladle, and it is difficult for Qian Fan to cross the border; I understand that life is full of ups and downs, and the only bearing is thinking. So, don't ask too much, just know, leaving an elegant and lonely back is enough.

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Silent world of mortals, cold life, just need to find someone who knows himself, that is, peace of mind.

When I am physically and mentally exhausted, I want to have someone who makes me defenseless to listen to me, even if I cry like a child, I have no scruples. When my career is frustrated, when someone is afraid to avoid it, I think there will always be someone standing behind me, even if I say nothing, it will also convey a quiet power and support those overwhelming heaviness. Sad tears, the whole world plunged into darkness, I want to have a pair of warm big hands to hold fragility, embrace each other warmly and listen to the sound of heartbeat, which is the most beautiful music in the world ... all these are the most precious insights in the journey of life.

Knowing yourself is the best way to treat yourself. Sometimes, laughter does not mean happiness, and tears do not mean sadness. The hypocrisy and cover-up on the surface make you unrecognizable, deceiving others, deceiving the whole world, but not your own heart. Finally, I asked myself doubtfully, "Who am I?" At this time, you might as well filter out all the complications, make your heart clear again, listen to the truest heart sound in your heart, and get to know the most beautiful yourself again in the rolling world of mortals.

Desire to be understood is the highest requirement in my heart. People's lives are inevitably misunderstood, ignored, excluded and laughed at. Everything is like a dark cloud, suffocating. If there is a person who can gently capture the surging feelings in your heart, properly appease the fragility in your heart, just like the softness of a willow blown by the wind, sweep away the dust scattered in your heart and give you a clear picture, the future will give birth to infinite possibilities.

The happiest thing in life is to be understood. The warmth of empathy is enough to dispel the fatigue and fear in your heart, warm your sad eyebrows and shine the light in your eyes that you have been addicted to for too long. This kind of understanding is a tacit understanding between hearts, which cannot be bought by money or won by rhetoric. You know, the enrichment of spiritual home is the priceless beauty in life.

On some literature websites, we often see some people pointing fingers, talking about Kan Kan's words and literature, showing off their abilities, criticizing others' mistakes, criticizing a series of shortcomings and disrespecting others' labor achievements. I don't know, he foamed at the mouth after passion, which hurt others and belittled himself at the same time. If you can have a slightly humble heart, put yourself in others' shoes and see others' efforts, what kind of harmony and warmth will it be?

Let's say that in our Jiangnan community, the management has a lot of work to do, such as communicating with writers, managing forums, applying for quality stickers, following up on audits, reporting excellent products, communicating with Jiangshan leaders, introducing and appeasing new editors and writers, and cleaning up the background, but these are all done behind the scenes, and no one knows how busy they are. Even many times, because the work can't cover everything, it is misunderstood and causes complaints. In fact, on the other hand, if you come to this position in person, you can feel the triviality and hardship while trying to make things perfect, and then you will know how difficult it is to go all the way. Maybe their efforts can't make everyone happy, but we can't ignore their efforts. Let's not talk about bitterness and fatigue. I only hope that the Jiangnan family can understand with tolerance, protect and build our beautiful Jiangnan with sincere and warm hearts, and make our Jiangnan better and better.

We are all independent individuals in a complex society, with different living environments and growing experiences. No one will fully understand and agree with you, and no one has the obligation to tolerate your willfulness and your shortcomings. What we can do is to put ourselves in others' shoes, get others' understanding and respect while understanding others, and let ourselves feel the power of warmth, such as bathing in the spring breeze.

Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance. While eager to be understood, we should also give others the same understanding and tolerance, understand parents' nagging, friends' concern, strict leadership, colleagues' efforts, lovers' willfulness, passers-by's hardships ... always remember that if you put aside unhappiness, the world will be picturesque and your heart will be bright and dry.

Life is really simple. You only need one science to blossom everywhere, and the four seasons are like spring, resisting all the cold currents in life.