What is your greatest feeling about life after 70?

Topic: We are just the same age, so I can't help but say a few words from my heart. Because at this stage, I have seen too many similar topics.

Let me talk about my feelings first: if we get old carelessly and have experienced so much, my feeling is that as long as we work so hard and are so serious, it is true. There must be something in life, and there is no need to insist all the time. Everything is decided by fate, not people. For the rest of your life, obey orders! Fate is destiny takes a hand, follow fate! In this case, then we can live happily every day, and we can finally get health and happiness, then we are the best mature! In the face of tomorrow and accidents, with a calm mind, is the best harvest!

Then I want to talk about my feelings: when we were young, we were so poor that I picked up a dime and bought candy at once. I grew up carelessly, and then I got married in a daze. I really don't have time to be young. How can I be old? Once again, we are already on the waves, even considering our own pension problems. What shall we do? This is also a question that society is considering. So I am also very sad! But grief can't solve anything. Then, I will choose to smile. In the end, everything will work out. We are from China, and we are really not afraid of anything.

Finally, I hope we greasy uncles and aunts will grow old gracefully! Happy every day! !

1. Nothing will happen once and for all in my life. The only constant is the change itself.

Being born in a family is a person's life, and few people can change it.

Studying hard and taking an examination of civil servants in big cities is a shortcut to life.

4, money, for ordinary people, is omnipotent.

The biggest advantage of being rich is that you have more choices in life and have the confidence to say no.

6. weigh the pros and cons of everything, and look at the cost and benefits is the most important. Everything else is an excuse.

7. Choice is greater than effort. It's important to do what you can. Don't dig a hole for yourself.

8. Self is the most important thing. Don't give birth to the next generation if you don't understand.

9. Save more money and try not to lend or borrow money. There is still room for manoeuvre in case of an accident.

10, don't be persistent except your own and your own.

1 1, don't waste your time and energy easily, the sooner you know, the better.

12, any relationship is an interest relationship.

13, don't complain, many of them are the result of your own choice.

14, inflation and rising prices are the biggest enemies of wealth.

15, ordinary poor people are destined to be the majority, no matter which country.

Let's just say that 70% of us are no longer young! Time took away our beautiful past in a hurry! What we should have tasted at our age! Only you know! Be kind to yourself in the process of getting old slowly!

"Now a person in the hospital is very embarrassed. Although my dad is in the early stage, he still dare not operate on him! "

After receiving the news from my friend in Shanghai, I can feel her deep helplessness and worry through the screen.

My friend's father is over 70 years old and suffers from Parkinson's disease and Alzheimer's disease. This time, because of heart failure, my friend and sister took my father to the hospital in Shanghai, regardless of my brother's objection, and wanted to perform heart surgery on my father in Shanghai.

My friend said that my father suffered a lot when he was young. When he is old, he thinks he can enjoy happiness. Both he and his mother have pensions. As a result, because of Parkinson's disease and Alzheimer's Harmo's disease, he fell black and blue every day and couldn't remember the people and events before. He often gets lost when he leaves home, and his mother is in poor health. His friend has to stay at his parents' house every day to take care of two old people.

My friend's family has three brothers and sisters. Since childhood, parents love their eldest son the most, but since parents need to take care of them, my brother has turned a blind eye to them. Fortunately, my friend has a sister, so we can discuss something.

Why can children who are spoiled by their parents look on coldly at their parents' life and death, and children who are ignored by their parents finally become people who want to win back their loved ones from death at all costs?

My friend said that watching my parents suffer from illness every day makes me feel that life is really boring. I used to think that people can give themselves a sense of security by saving a lot of money as long as they have money.

But looking at my parents like this, the old people have enough money to see a doctor and support the elderly, but can money buy health? Can money keep a person away from illness and pain? Whose old age is not a river of blood? Whether you have money or no money, you have children to look forward to, or you have no children to take care of. In the end, you have become fish on the chopping block and let fate kill you!

After 70, there are more and more elderly people in need of care in the world, and there are children who have not yet established themselves in society. After 70 years of physical and mental exhaustion, they often feel overwhelmed, but there is no reason to fall down. There are people around us who need to rely on us, but behind us, there is no one!

I read a passage in Tik Tok, which was very sad. When the person who gave birth to me is retired and the person who gave birth to me is well raised, my task will be completed. As for myself, it doesn't matter, I will give it to time! Well, this is also my inner monologue!

Life is really cruel! Sometimes you have to face some choices, and you can't escape. Are you willing to lose everything to treat your parents? Although we clearly know all your hard-earned money, it may only be the last time that the old man lay motionless in his hospital bed and had no quality of life.

Emotion and reason are always fighting. Reality tells us to give up, but emotion tells us that it is the person who gave birth to you and raised you! Can you watch him be taken away by death? Aren't you afraid of being tortured by conscience all your life?

My friends are still waiting in line in the hospital to operate on my father, and I feel very miserable every day. I feel her pain, but I can't give her more comfort. A lot of pain can only be overcome slowly by yourself, and the comfort of others is always pale and powerless!

I signed the body donation a long time ago, and I clearly told my son that if one day, please let me leave with dignity and don't let me enter the ICU. If there is still time, I hope to spend my last time with my family in peace, and make a curtain call to life calmly, because whether you accept it or not, death will always be the final destination!

I can't tell my friends that although it is cruel for your brother to refuse to operate on his father, this is not necessarily what the old man wants to live on a ventilator every day. Just like I ask myself, if my mother is ill, can I be as calm as I am when I face my own illness?

After 70, the greatest feeling in life is that people should not worry about temporary fame and wealth, do not envy other people's wealth status, and believe that everything is arranged by fate. You deserve everything, not yours. You don't have to work hard to have it. What you get is just a flash in the pan!

I only ask that in the last journey of my life, I can arrange my life calmly, take care of myself, don't disturb my children's lives, see a doctor for minor illnesses, and have a serious illness from the sky, so that I can be worthy of the kindness of raising my parents, and I will be satisfied with what I owe my children in this life!

Too late to enjoy youth, are you old? This is my biggest feeling at present!

I was born in the late 1970s. I always thought I was young and in no hurry. I always thought there was a long way to go.

From the young girl of that year to the greasy aunt now, it feels only a moment.

From the little sister in the eyes of others to the situation that everyone is called big sister when they meet now, it is a thread in my heart, with all kinds of flavors!

I don't want to be old, but I am old. Does time pass anyone?

When I see that the big stars who once swept the world are all wrinkled, I have to be sure that they will all be old, let alone waiting for ordinary people.

At present, my greatest wish is to live a good life and cherish every day of the rest of my life. People have lived half their lives, and there are still many things and tasks to be completed.

Refueling to make money is the biggest goal at present. At present, I don't have the conditions to earn pension money. There are still 70-year-old parents and children in primary school to support!

Forced by life, I have no time to think about other things. The only thing I can do is to work hard and live. Love the person you should love, do what you want, come on! Peer! !

I entrusted my old father to a nurse, watched my wife hang a drip and listened to my old mother complain. I came to the river, set up a fishing rod, lit a cigarette, looked at the slowly flowing water and began to be in a daze!

This long vacation, my heart has been blocked. My wife has been in poor health and often goes to the town health center to play infusion bottles; Father accidentally fell and lived in the county hospital15km away; My mother lives alone in an old house in the other direction 10 kilometers away.

Open WeChat, and the circle of friends is peaceful. And I can only drive my domestic Great Wall, from county hospitals to township hospitals, from home to hometown.

Autumn is crisp, sunny and picturesque, and I have no intention of enjoying it; Wedding car, wedding, wedding scene, gongs and drums, gongs and drums, music everywhere, I dare not stop.

I really want to have my own, even for a little time, I can take a nap and lie down for a while!

However, this is impossible. At least, it's impossible until my relatives settle down.

My father just fell, although the consequences were not very serious, belonging to the lucky kind of misfortune. However, it hurts the muscles and bones for a hundred days. At present, the old man is still "imprisoned" in the hospital, screaming in pain.

Relatives and friends who know the news keep calling to ask about the situation. In the face of everyone's meticulous concern, I had to answer patiently one by one. Tell the story of the accident and explain the current state. Thank you very much!

Every phone call must be carefully answered, and every word I say must be carefully, so as not to make people think that I have the slightest impatience: impatience with my relatives or impatience with my old father! Because I can't afford such a crime.

There are five brothers and sisters at home, three local and two out of town. All five people have their own homes, their own jobs, and they are very busy for their livelihood.

I want to work, and people from other places try not to come back, because my old father's injury is relatively minor, not where you will go. It takes time, energy and money to travel home after a long journey, and the old father will feel guilty, which is not conducive to his illness and recovery.

I have to arrange three local rotations. Old father is lying in bed, unable to move, eating and drinking Lazar must be served, and by the way, he has to do the ideological work for the elderly: rest in peace, no ideological burden. Don't worry about money and people.

The old mother who lives alone in her hometown is usually in poor health, and her mentality is not good at critical times.

She is always worried about her old father's illness. Are there any internal injuries, will you be paralyzed, when will it be cured and how much will it cost?

I have made it clear to her old man many times that these problems are not problems. However, no matter what I say, I can't stop her from worrying and thinking.

Think about it, too. Two old people, living alone and caring about each other, can't cut them off like a circuit switch.

Therefore, in my heart, there is another worry. One old man has fallen, and the other must not fall!

Therefore, I have to spend time with my old mother from time to time. See if you have eaten or need to buy something; Report the old father's status in the hospital and constantly remind the old mother, rest assured, rest assured, small problems, small problems!

Finally, after three days of continuous rotation, at the patient's strong suggestion, three exhausted brothers and sisters decided to hire a nurse to take care of their old father 24 hours a day.

The old man fell, and the young man must not fall! This is the knowledge of several 50-year-old "young people"!

Under the personal care of the nursing staff, we only need each person to take turns to accompany the old father once a day, send a meal, chat and learn about the illness.

I don't have to stay in a crowded ward all day, but I can sleep well at night and suddenly feel so relaxed.

What is even more surprising is that one day, I finally had a rare leisure time to pick up the long-lost fishing rod.

I was supposed to accompany my wife for intravenous drip, but she was very considerate and insisted that I go into the water to play. Therefore, I "respect is better than obedience"!

Some people say that life is like fishing, and entertainment is more important than fish. At that time, what I wanted was not entertainment, not fish, but a time of my own, even if it was just a daze!

Sometimes, I can't help thinking that one of my family is in hospital, which makes three small families so busy that they can't come!

And after 70, he responded to the call of family planning and only gave birth to one child. Who will take care of us when we are lying in the hospital bed?

There are no relatives around, only nurses, nurses, nurses. How lonely, lonely and desolate!

It's terrible to think about it. However, no one can escape!

It is impossible for us to respond to the call of the state, give birth to a second child and a third child, so as to support the elderly, let alone tie the only child to our side, just to be not lonely or cold in our later years!

What can we do?

The only thing we can do is to enrich our pockets as much as possible from now on, strengthen our hearts and bodies to cope with all kinds of unexpected situations in our future life.

Because, as a post-70s generation, the future pension life is doomed not to rely on children, but only on oneself. Economic foundation, psychological quality and physical quality are the most important factors that determine our future quality of life.

Economic foundation: it will no longer be children, but money. No matter what children do, there is a high probability that they have no time to take care of their parents.

Therefore, it is the fate of our generation to enter the nursing home when we are old. And what level of nursing home to enter and what level of service to enjoy are the tickets.

Psychological quality: in the future, the elderly are destined to enjoy family happiness under their knees without their children and grandchildren, and have more collective life in nursing homes.

Therefore, we should be able to tolerate the loneliness and loneliness of children without us, and get used to it!

Physical quality: there are many old trees and roots, and the old people are often sick. However, a strong body can make us get sick as little as possible in our old age, get seriously ill as little as possible, and minimize the chances of going to the hospital and the time spent in hospital!

Finally, back to the theme, what is your greatest feeling in life after 70?

My answer is:

As a post-70s, from now on, we must take good care of ourselves and be kind to ourselves.

Now is the age when there are old people and young people in the world. Those who gave birth to me and those who gave birth to me are waiting for us to take care of and support them.

We must take good care of ourselves, be kind to ourselves, and make sure that we can't fall, and never fall!

Later, the person who gave birth to me went to heaven, and the person who gave birth to me can fly alone. We should take care of ourselves and be kind to ourselves.

Because this is a rare time of our own, we should spend it well, slowly and with high quality!

1, don't expect anything, you are in good health, your card has a deposit, and everything is fine.

2, don't ask the meaning of life, life is meaningless, eat well, sleep well, play well, and go all the way.

3, know how to let go, let go of the burden of life, such as money and fame and fortune, life will not be so heavy.

4, contentment is always happy, 50 years old, one day less, one second of happiness is one second.

5, don't care too much, too much care can only get you into the abyss of trouble and make you feel unhappy.

6. Don't enter a circle that doesn't suit you, and don't let the circle ruin your mood.

7. Stay away from people who make you angry, and you will win a peaceful life for yourself.

8, people with different outlook on life, it is best not to live, otherwise you can only let yourself worry endlessly.

9, don't touch the emotional temperature, hand heat is only a minor injury, heartburn is a heavy blow.

10, take care of your family, earn money, educate your children, and have a good life.

Strive early, get rich early, invest early, get rich early. In 70 years, we were 50 years old. After so many things, the biggest feeling is that everything should be done early. Leave your job without pay in advance. What a good opportunity. You can do something to make money and invest in stocks. In a good ten years, the stock rose from more than 2,000 points to more than 5,000 points. You said you wanted to buy stocks, and basically you made a profit. When you make money, you buy a house. It was more than 2000 square meters at that time. After five years, it is more than 20,000 square meters. So, be sure to take it early.

Missed the opportunity to have a second child, one child is too lonely, at least it should be two children. Not necessarily taking care of each other, just making them feel that even if their parents are gone in the future, there is still a relative [tears] in the world.

It belongs to a pig. In the year when I knew my destiny, I tasted the ups and downs. Live for others in the first half, and live for yourself in the second half! Do what you like, take care of yourself, live with the fate!