Should you give up your seat to a pregnant woman? How do you deal with the mentality of not giving up your seat to others?

It is definitely appropriate to give up your seat to pregnant women. There is no suspense.

These virtues in our country are written in primary school textbooks. The Five Lectures and Four Beauties are the education we have received since childhood. When taking public transportation, when walking, when opening and closing doors, you must have the awareness to provide convenience for the elderly, the weak, the sick, the disabled and pregnant women. It is natural to give up your seat to them on the bus without any suspense.

So what do people who don’t give up their seats to pregnant women think?

First of all, it is an issue that has been debated for a long time. Why do pregnant women take public transportation during morning and evening rush hours? Since she is a pregnant woman with a big belly, can’t her family drive her to her? Or can’t we avoid the morning and evening peak hours and come out at other times? Even if you are afraid of being crowded and taking a taxi, just take a taxi. People who say this obviously have certain emotions. Who says pregnant women must take private cars? Who stipulates that pregnant women cannot come out during the morning and evening rush hours? Because many pregnant women are still working. If they don’t come out during the morning and evening rush hours, when will they come out?

Then there are many reasons why people will complain. For example, during the morning and evening peak hours in Beijing, there will be two queues at many bus stations. You must stand in one queue, but the queue time is short. As for the other team, there will definitely be a seat, but the waiting time will be longer. At some stations, it may take up to an hour to queue up to get on the train. Why do you have to wait so long in this queue? This is because there are usually dozens of stations on this kind of line, and it will be very tiring if you stand all the time. Therefore, if you would rather wait a long time, you will choose the queue with seats. If a person in such a queue were to sit in a queue for two stops and a pregnant woman came up, he would really collapse when he gave up his seat.

I think when looking at this issue, you should not be emotional and remember one principle: it is right to give up your seat to a pregnant woman, and it is wrong not to give up your seat.

Regarding the matter of giving up your seat, all reasons are excuses. This should not be the reason for us to disregard our moral bottom line. Because pregnant women are a process of giving birth to life and the hope of mankind. As a mentally and physically healthy person, we should have this obligation to help those in need. Speaking of home, the chance of a person encountering a pregnant woman on the bus is not very high. It can happen several times throughout the year. Even if you may stand at more than a dozen stops, it is not something that happens often. Once in a while, it is so unbearable. ?

Moreover, the important thing is communication. Sometimes the pregnant women you meet may not sit down so naturally. Some of them will say, I only have two stops, just stand for a while. Some people will tell you when they get off the bus, I will get off the bus right away and you should sit back. In fact, these are all problems that can be easily solved in our daily practice. After we give up our seats many times, we will understand that we don’t have to worry that our seats will no longer belong to us because of giving up our seats. In short, we should insist on doing the right thing. Giving up your seat to the elderly, weak, sick, disabled and pregnant is a virtue we should have. We should not forget that we are a nation with fine traditions for the sake of our own temporary selfish interests. We are Chinese people who respect the old and love the young.

Hello, I am happy to answer your question.

First of all, there is no doubt that I think and hope that everyone will consciously give up their seats to pregnant women. As someone who has been pregnant, I know how hard it is to squeeze into the bus or subway with a bulging belly.

Speaking of this, I will share a real experience of mine. At that time, I had just returned to work after taking maternity leave. One day at work, there was a pregnant woman with a big belly standing next to me, and I was standing too. Anyone who has taken the Guangzhou Metro Line 3 during rush hours knows that there are not so many people crowding the subway during rush hours. I looked left and right, and no one gave up their seat to this pregnant woman. I mustered up the courage to ask an older brother sitting there, "Can you give her a seat?" Unexpectedly, the elder brother said that I have been waiting for this position for a long time. I have been waiting in line for a long time! I was too embarrassed to say anything. Just when everyone was embarrassed, the young man not far away heard our conversation and quickly stood up and offered his seat to the pregnant woman. First of all, maybe the elder brother was telling the truth. He wanted to sit down even when he was tired. Secondly, some people really didn’t notice that there was a pregnant woman standing next to them, so it was either that they didn’t let him or they didn’t see him.

Judging from my experience, there is nothing wrong with others not to give in, but giving in is a kind of social civilization.

At the same time, I am also glad that I live in a civilized city, because many people really gave up their seats to me when I was pregnant. I would like to thank everyone who gave up their seats to us, the elderly, weak, sick, pregnant women and children!

All in all, giving up your seat starts with me, starting now!

First, the seat should be given to pregnant women, because everyone is born from a mother. Mothers are great, and every mother deserves respect. No matter what the reason, we must respect pregnant women.

Second, as for not giving up your seat, I don’t understand it. As a human being, you should be able to feel the difficulties of pregnant women.

First, pregnancy is a woman’s. By nature, I'm not that delicate, so I won't give up my seat. Many such people are self-centered and inconsiderate of others. To put it bluntly, I am petty.

Second, if I don’t give up my seat, others will. There is also this kind of mentality, this kind of thing doesn't matter, anyway, if the sky falls, there will be tall people to hold it up.

Should I give up my seat to a pregnant woman? This depends on your age and physical condition. If you are in your sixties or seventies and your health is poor, it is best not to give up your seat. If you are young and strong, it is best to give in! Thanks!

Hello, I am Yanzi. I am happy to answer your question. Your question is whether you should give up your seat to a pregnant woman? How do you deal with the mentality of not letting people sit down?

Let me tell you my personal opinion. Should I give up my seat to a pregnant woman? I think as a young person, you should still give up your seat to pregnant women. If you are an elderly person, you don’t have to give up your seat. There are also special seats for the elderly, the young, the disabled, the sick and pregnant women on the bus. Generally, young people will not sit in that seat. There will be seats reserved for those in need. But there will also be some young people sitting there. If young people sit in these positions, they will see these old people and patients. Disabled people should get up immediately and give up their seats to them.

If a young man is sitting in an ordinary seat and encounters a pregnant woman, will he give up his seat? It still depends on your personal thoughts. I can’t say that people who don’t give up their seats have any bad intentions. It all depends on your personal behavior. When I usually take the bus, I always give up my seat to the elderly, pregnant women and children. I think they need the seat more than me.

On the bus, if the driver sees pregnant women and elderly people getting on the bus and no one offers them their seats, the driver will play some virtues of giving up seats to the people on the bus. After listening to them, some people will Those who refused gave up their seats to elderly and pregnant women in need. Giving up your seat is a virtue, but not an obligation!

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Hello, let me share my personal opinion

There is nothing to say about not giving up your seat. After all, giving up your seat is a favor and not giving up your seat is your duty. But I only realized how difficult it is for pregnant women when I think I was pregnant, so I will definitely give up my seat to pregnant women when I see them in the future.

I am seven months pregnant and I often take the light rail, but I have only been given up my seat once, and sometimes someone will compete with you when a seat is available. I was often out of breath when I was pregnant. I took the light rail several times and went down two or three times to get some fresh air. Then I came back up when I felt I was ready. A week or two ago, I took the light rail to go to my mother's house. I just got on the light rail and stood for two or three stops before I felt like I couldn't stand it anymore. I started to be out of breath. Then I started to feel dizzy and sweaty. As soon as the light rail door opened, I immediately got off to get some air and sit down. After a long time, I felt I had recovered and got on the light rail again, but this time the same situation happened again after only two stops, so I got off the light rail again. This time I went to the toilet and vomited for a long time, then I got on the light rail and stood next to the door. After two or three minutes, I arrived at the station and as soon as the door opened, I immediately took advantage of the gap between the door opening and took a big breath. Finally, I persisted until I reached the transfer station halfway through the entire light rail journey. Many people got off the train and finally found a seat to sit down. After sitting down, I didn’t feel out of breath or dizzy in the remaining 20 to 30 minutes of the journey, so I feel that sitting down is really important for pregnant women who are uncomfortable.

I can’t force others to give up their seats to pregnant women, but I will definitely give up my seat to pregnant women when I meet them in the future. Pregnancy sickness, dizziness, breathlessness, etc. are really frustrating. On the light rail or subway When I feel uncomfortable standing, I really want to sit on the ground, but my face doesn’t allow it, so maybe I haven’t reached that point yet

Hello, I’m honored to answer your question

Should I give up my seat to pregnant women when taking public transportation? How do you deal with the mentality of not giving up your seat to others?

First of all, let’s talk about whether we should give up our seats to pregnant women: because there is no explicit legal requirement to force citizens to give up their seats. However, taking care of the old, weak, sick and disabled is a traditional virtue passed down by our Chinese nation for thousands of years, and it should be promoted, because every family will have pregnant women. Compare yourself to others, and you can actually help others if you are within your ability and have the conditions. , especially if the young friends who are sitting in the special seats for the sick, disabled and pregnant in the old institution should be more proactive.

Giving roses leaves a lingering fragrance in your hands. When taking public transportation, young people take the initiative to give up their seats to pregnant women and other special groups, which is a reflection of a person's high quality. At the same time, this kind of behavior is also the epitome of the progress of a country's social civilization and should be advocated.

Furthermore, we have to talk about how to treat the psychology of not giving up your seat: In fact, this should be viewed in several situations:

1. If When people who intentionally occupy special seats for the elderly, weak, sick, disabled and pregnant encounter such a situation, whether it is the bus captain or ordinary people, they can actually be condemned. This is a matter of human morality. But it doesn’t mean that others can’t sit in this seat. We can occupy the seat when it is free. However, when people in need appear, it is only right that we can stand up and help them in time. After all, you are We are already occupying a "special" service;

2. If we are friends sitting in ordinary seats, I think there is no need for everyone to deliberately condemn or force others to give up their seats, because Everyone is fair, everyone pays to ride, and we have what should be our own rights and interests. Whether or not to give up your seat depends on the individual's physical condition at the time, as well as his consciousness and quality of character. It does not mean that if you don't give up your seat, you will not have noble moral character or good consciousness, because we are all ordinary people, and we all have Selfish entitlement. What's more, there are some special situations: for example, a person has been exhausted after a busy day; a person stays up late and works overtime and is tired; a person is irritable and depressed because of some emotional problems, etc. In special situations such as this, oneself You can't take care of yourself and take care of other people's feelings at the same time. If you are not in your position, don't comment and impose your will on everyone.

Generally speaking, society needs to continue to promote the traditional virtues of caring for and helping special groups such as pregnant women. At the same time, society does not need to impose its wishes on everyone, especially especially For some keyboard warriors who don’t know the situation, what we need is to comment on someone’s behavior while restoring the facts, instead of starting to make malicious judgments without knowing the situation. Society needs virtue, but it also needs a tolerant attitude. After all, we are all ordinary people.

The above opinions are only my personal opinions. I hope my answer can be helpful to you, thank you!

Hello everyone, I am Brother Qi, and I am happy to answer the question: Should I give up my seat to a pregnant woman? How do you deal with the mentality of not giving up your seat to others? I think you must give up your seat when encountering this situation. Respecting the elderly and caring for the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Anyone with a conscience will do it. There will also be people who refuse to give up their seats, maybe because they really didn’t see any pregnant women standing, or because they really feel uncomfortable or have difficulty moving. Another way is to think that you have also spent money, and you are not sitting in a mother and baby seat, so you pretend to be stupid or blind and don't see it. We cannot morally kidnap people like this, but their quality needs to be improved, not to mention that there are very few such people. Now is a civilized society, and it is also an inclusive society.

I think you should give up your seat to pregnant women if your physical condition permits or when it is convenient. Giving up your seat is a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation and should be carried forward to make society full of love.

Pregnant women have difficulty moving around due to pregnancy. If your spouse, daughter, or sister is pregnant, you will definitely be grateful to the person who gave up your seat.

(I have a deep understanding of this. I was four months pregnant at the time, and I was not very pregnant. At that time, the passenger buses did not seat people according to their seats. They departed on a rolling basis, filled up and left, and boarding the bus was all about squeezing. I squeezed into two buses but didn't get on because I was afraid of bumping my stomach and didn't dare to squeeze in as hard as I could. When the last bus left, I shamelessly told the conductor that I was pregnant. The conductor was very nice and immediately told the driver to leave some space for me. I was very grateful for a seat at that time. Since then, I have not hesitated to give up my seat whenever it is convenient, because I have been a beneficiary. I feel the kindness and warmth of this society, and I also educate my children to carry forward this virtue from an early age. .)

What is the psychology of people who refuse to give up their seats?

I think he may have lacked care and warmth since he was a child. He thinks more about himself and feels that his own comfort is the most important. Why should he have to humiliate himself to make others comfortable? There is a lack of compassion and empathy.

Of course, there is another situation where it is really inconvenient for others to give up their seats, and you cannot force others to give up their seats. After all, giving up your seat is a matter of affection, and not giving up is your duty. We cannot morally kidnap anyone. No, we face it calmly. Let it go, we are grateful.

Do you think it’s right?