How to read a woman’s heart

How to read a woman’s heart

How to read a woman’s heart. In life, men always complain that women’s hearts are too difficult to understand. They always feel that girls are scary. And if we want to understand a woman, we must not just look at the surface. The following will share how to read a woman's heart. How to read a woman's heart 1

1. Just say what you need to say.

Don’t think that women are useful, they are clothes you wear. You can wear them if you want, and take them off if you want; don’t think that women are roundworms in your belly. Whether you love her or not, you have nothing to do with them. If you don't say anything and you don't do anything, how will she know? Therefore, your usual words and deeds should be more direct to make her feel that you have given her warmth.

2. Care more.

Women sometimes like to act coquettishly. Don’t ignore her when she acts coquettishly towards you or needs your attention. If you ignore her coquettishness, she may think that she is not important in your heart. This is It is one of the ways to read a woman's heart.

3. Everyone has self-esteem.

Don’t say to her motionlessly: What do you know? Don’t mind my business! People also have self-esteem. Even in front of the man they love most, she still has self-esteem, especially in crowded situations, she She is also a human being, an ordinary woman!

4. Give her some space.

When you are alone, give her some freedom and space. Don't talk about what happened to her today or why she is so weird. When she is quiet, you can hug her or come back to her without asking her why.

5. Be clear about right and wrong.

In her life and work, there will definitely be friends of the opposite sex, sometimes even close friends. Don’t worry, a woman often shares love and friendship more clearly than a man, because she cherishes her family and children very much. She has a clear heart!

6. Needs care.

How to read a woman’s heart? Don't always be self-centered, go your own way, and like to go out alone. You know no matter how generous and confident a woman is, people who stay alone in an empty room for a long time will recognize that you don't like to be with her, and worry that you will get tired of her. No? Maybe you can think from another angle.

7. Be less jealous.

Jealousy is a woman’s patent, but a loving man will also be jealous. If a woman doesn’t feel jealous of you, it can only tell you that she no longer loves you, but if you let her If you are too jealous, she will be sad and leave you whom she loves.

8. There is a sense of crisis.

The world does not often laugh at: nine out of ten men are prostitutes, and one is still shaking. But not absolutely. Having a sense of crisis is the key, that is, the ratio of men to women in the world is always less than men. But every man wants to have several women, sometimes holding one, staring at one, thinking about one or even several... The conclusion is that women always have gender advantages over men! How to read women's hearts 2

How to capture a woman’s heart

The first step is to show your true self during the first conversation

The blind date mentioned above A friend who failed frequently made a serious mistake when meeting a girl for the first time.

On the first day of every blind date, he was very nervous and kept reminding himself what to say and how to say it when introducing each other. Just like memorizing his lines, he simply remembered what he was going to say. After finishing what he had prepared, he felt that he had completed the task without having any casual communication with the girl.

When you talk to a girl like this for the first time, what you see in front of the girl is a boring, dull man with low emotional intelligence, and it will make the girl feel that you don’t have the same language and can’t talk to you. If we go together, of course we won't be able to live together.

If you want to leave a good impression on a girl when you first meet, you must learn to show your true self and make the girl feel that you are a trustworthy and dependable man, which is what we often call " Positive first impression”.

Gottman wrote in "Love Communication":

A positive first impression has nothing to do with handsome appearance. Only when you are truly interested and enthusiastic in getting to know the other person can you leave a positive first impression on the other person.

So, how do you present yourself?

First of all, you need to talk openly and honestly

When a girl asks you about your career and family status, don’t cover up and tell half of it. Your unclear words will leave the other party feeling insincere. impression. To be honest, if it is inconvenient to state the reason directly, it will appear more sincere.

Secondly, when chatting with a girl, don’t look around, or look at her erratically, and don’t interrupt the other person at will.

Speak politely but with firm eyes, you can look at her. Her eyes. If a girl takes the initiative to share her own affairs with you, listen carefully and occasionally respond, so that she can feel respected.

Furthermore, learn to encourage and guide girls to talk about their own affairs instead of dominating the conversation

When you first meet, the girl may not be so open-minded, so you have to give her time to Talk about yourself and encourage her to introduce her work, life, hobbies, etc.

Finally, learn to use open-ended questions and answers

For example, if a girl is a designer, don’t end the topic with “very good”, but learn to ask questions, such as: Back then Why do you want to study design? If her major is not design, but she just chose design after working, you can ask her why she chose to work across majors.

The answer to an open question is not "yes or no", but full of a sense of jumping, which can improve the efficiency of the chat and make it easier for both parties to show their true selves.

When you master these three chatting skills, you will naturally be able to attract girls.

In addition, you should also pay attention to the tone and speed of your speech, and stare into the other person's eyes when listening to her. Some psychologists have done research:

Let strangers People look at each other for 2 minutes. This eye contact quickly creates a strong sense of intimacy and mutual affection.

Dating is a difficult thing to say, and you must be careful and not perfunctory.

The second step is to consider the other person when you are dating for the first time.

If you behave well in the first step, then after the first meeting, you will have to think about the other person when you break up. You can make an appointment with the other person for the next date.

The next date is the first date in the true sense of your mutual affection. At this time, the girl may like you, not hate you, and want to know more about you, but it does not mean that the girl’s heart is completely attracted. You caught it.

You need to show your charm on the first date, let the other person see the advantages in you, and feel the sense of security when they are with you.

Don’t think that when dating a girl, she only likes to go to the movies and eat. These activities are too dull and not enough to show your charm. During the meal, you just talk like when you first met, watch a movie after the meal, and go back to your home after the movie. It is difficult to promote a relationship on such a date.

The key to a successful date is not which high-end restaurant you take her to for a meal, but whether you can give her enough security and trust when you are with her, and whether you can provide her with she considered.

For example:

After getting to know her to a certain extent, plan some dates that can achieve results without spending much money based on her personality and interests. Going on a picnic, visiting an exhibition, going on a self-driving trip to the suburbs, etc. are all good ways to date. The point is that you need to plan the date to be more interesting so that the girl can feel your intentions.

Another example:

You can take her to the amusement park for a day of fun. Most girls have such a dream, to have someone who can accompany them without any trouble like their parents. Play in the playground and re-experience the joy of childhood.

The carousel is a standard part of the game, and the bubble machine is also a must. Buy her cute or funny headwear and take photos in various styles.

Take her to play some more exciting projects, such as roller coasters, pirate ships, etc.

Some psychological research shows that when people engage in stimulating activities, hormones similar to love will be produced in the brain. Dopamine and adrenaline rise, which can arouse "love" for the person around them and give her a sense of love. The little deer bumped into each other, thinking that they were in love with each other.

This is what is called the "suspension bridge effect" in psychology.

Once a girl feels love for you from the bottom of her heart, your weight in her heart will become different.

Of course, during the date, don’t forget to talk. Continuous dialogue will give her a feeling of being noticed. You can talk about your common hobbies, family and friends, life dreams, etc. wait.

Secondly, you must know how to protect her, be more careful, let her walk on the inside, and pay attention to whether she is thirsty or hungry in time.

This formal date was different from the first time they met.

She has a good impression of you in her heart, but she will examine whether you are suitable for living together, so she will pay more attention to details. If you can show your charm in a timely manner, be a gentleman, confident, and secure, Then basically after the date, she will look forward to your next invitation. Because you have entered her heart, she feels good being with you and is willing to enter this relationship.

No one is born to fall in love, personality can be changed, and love skills can be learned. If these "two steps" are taken, it will be easy to get out of singles.

Please remember that there is no free love in this world. If you work hard and love truly, time will not let down everyone who is diligent. Method 3 on how to read a woman’s heart

1. Understand her, respect her, support her, and praise her

To love someone, you need to first understand her and her interests and hobbies , personality, living habits, etc.

Understanding her also means respecting her habits and hobbies, so that we can communicate better with each other.

In life, give the other person more support, support her independence, support her work, and support her decisions.

Make her feel the value of her existence.

Women need to be praised. Praising her is also a kind of love. Men should not be stingy with their words and praise her more. She will be very happy in her heart.

2. Understand her heart and love her in her own way

Knowing your enemy and knowing yourself will make you win a hundred battles. If you want to win her, you must first understand her Heart.

Understanding her is also to understand her better, to understand what kind of life she needs, to understand her temper and character, and to get along with her comfortably.

To love a woman, you need to understand her heart, understand her and love her in her own way, and she will love you more and even be devoted to you.

A man needs to understand a woman, understand her heart, be like a roundworm in her belly, and know what she wants to do with just one movement.

3. Be willing to spend time with her to prevent her from feeling lonely

When a woman is in love, she just wants to have someone by her side to end the endless loneliness. A man needs to spend time with her and fall in love with her. Chat together, cook together, read together, play together and travel together.

If a man loves her, he should spend time with her and give her a sense of security.

4. Be generous and not stingy, and be willing to spend money on women

The way a man loves a woman is to be willing to spend money on her, and women may not necessarily spend a lot of money. But as a man, you should take the initiative to spend money on women. Let her know you're not a stingy person.

In fact, many women don’t really like spending men’s money. They always hope that their men will be willing to spend money on them.

But when it comes to spending money, if a woman loves you, she will be reluctant to part with you.

This may be because women are testing men. Most men who are willing to spend money will be generous in their future lives and will not care about trivial matters. Men who are reluctant to spend money must also be very stingy in life.

5. Know how to communicate, be honest with her, don't cheat, don't hide.

When a man loves a woman, he needs to be honest, don't hide from her, and don't cheat. Usually communicate with women more often and talk about your concerns. On the one hand, you can reduce stress, and on the other hand, you can let the other person understand you better.

There is no room for deception in love, and men must be honest.

6. Know how to be romantic, give her small surprises from time to time, and keep love fresh

Love needs to be kept fresh, needs surprises, and needs romance. As a man, you must learn to understand Romantic, even if it is a small gift given to her, it will make a woman happy.

To love her, you need to learn how to love her and how to make her happy. A woman's happiness is very simple. She will be delighted for days with a few sweet words from her beloved man.

7. After a quarrel, you need to take the initiative to apologize and ask for his understanding.

After a quarrel, take the initiative to comfort him. Women like to be angry, but if you take the initiative to comfort her, he will Forgive you quickly.

As long as it is not a matter of principle, you can bow your head and admit your mistakes. Men should be more generous and don't need to vent their anger on little girls.

People who truly love her will always have her in their eyes, and everything about her will be very important. They will care about her feelings, understand and tolerate her little problems and tempers, instead of complaining about her. .

Because you know how to cherish her, you love her deeply, and you think who apologizes first is a trivial matter. The important thing is that she can be happy.

8. Give her free space, don’t tie her tightly

To love her, you must give her free space. Love is selfish, but love is also great. It can make people happy. Change subconsciously.

In this process, I hope you can understand that since you love him, you need to get along with him in the way he likes. If you love him, you need to know how to respect him so that he can feel free.