Will you tell your wife everything you know? How to get rid of "henpecked"

Will you tell your wife everything you know? How to get rid of "henpecked" No, there is no need to tell your wife everything.

Friend, to get rid of "henpecked husband", you have to pay special attention to your wife and make her feel that you love her and feel at ease about everything. After that, it's not up to you. I wish you all your wishes!

How to say hello in henpecked English!

A henpecked husband

Henpecked English [? henpekt]

(Men) are controlled by their wives and henpecked;

Verb (abbreviation of verb) past tense and past participle of Hempek;

He is a rude man who is afraid of his wife.

He is a rude and timid person.

I am a hen-pecked wife. How can I get rid of my bad luck? Is this bad luck? !

Ask yourself!

If your wife cares about you, it's for your own good.

You should say you are happy!

Of course, if she is too strict ... you should talk to her ... but don't quarrel!

Family harmony is the most important thing

If you love your wife, let her go! She loves you too! 1

Is the married life of "henpecked" happy? When my husband feels happy, he is happy. If he feels unhappy, he will not be happy. Many phenomena of "henpecked wife" are that husbands respect their wives, which is normal in a society where women's rights are getting stronger and stronger.

Will he tell his wife? Only he can decide this matter. You can communicate with him and explain the pros and cons of this matter. I believe he will make a choice when making a decision.

Is "henpecked" because you are afraid of your wife? No, this is a heartfelt respect and love for his wife. You can understand it this way. "Fear" is only because "care" about each other's every move, and "care" is because of the love that exists in the deep heart. If one day his love no longer exists, then he will turn a blind eye to her behavior.

Japanese learning: how to say "henpecked" and "jealous"

かか World

かかあてんか

Wife phobia

きょうさいか

Vinegar jar

ヤキモチ

Do parents know what happens when their son hides private money, and will they tell his wife? What will the wife do when she knows? Your parents won't say anything, but it's best not to have such behavior between husband and wife.

Why should I tell him everything I want to do? If he broke up with you, it means that you still miss him, because he helped you too much in the past days.

If you broke up with him, maybe you shouldn't break up with him now.

Why can't couples tell their children what they want to know? Respect your child's wishes One night, Qiqi's father said to him, "From tomorrow on, we will send you to grandpa's house for a month." When you get there, you must listen to your grandparents and don't make them angry, okay? " Qi Qi was surprised to hear his father's words, and then protested loudly: "Why did you send me to grandpa? I'm not going! " ""no, I can't. Mom and dad are on a business trip this month, and no one takes care of you! "Dad said angrily to Qi." Why don't you ask me if I want to? I don't want to go to grandpa's house! "Qiqi is so sad that she is about to cry." The adult decided to ask you if you disagree. What do you know? It depends on whether you agree or not. Your mother and I are on a business trip, so we can't leave you alone at home. " Dad said angrily. The next day, Qiqi was sent to grandpa's house by his father. He felt abandoned and began to hate his parents. Children are also a member of the family. When encountering things, especially those closely related to children, parents should seek their children's opinions and try to respect their wishes. Instead of always thinking that children are too young to think, it is useless to discuss with them. Of course, some adult things in life don't need to be known to children, but some things should be fully discussed by children, especially some things about children. Respecting children's wishes and discussing things with them often are appreciation and respect for children. Parents respect their children's wishes, not only because they have the right to know about their own affairs, but also because they appreciate their judgment and believe that their children have the ability to decide family affairs. Children and parents have equal status in the family. Parents may wish to listen to their children's opinions before deciding on one thing. Sometimes, children's opinions are also very important and can even have a major impact on the whole thing. Mr. Chen and his wife are preparing a new set. They pick and choose and think these two are better. But at this time, the husband and wife disagreed. One day, the couple quarreled about their son again. At this time, Mr. Chen's female children in the sixth grade of primary school finally couldn't help it. She said loudly to her parents, "why have you never asked my advice?" "The two men stopped quarreling immediately, looked at each other strangely and didn't talk for a long time." what do you think? What do children know? "Mr. Chen first woke up from his surprise." It was a child or an adult. Why do you care so much? ! "Mom went on to say." My son is a family matter, and I am also a member of the family. Why is it none of my business? "Tong Tong asked angrily." But do you understand? Children just study hard and don't mind so many things. "Dad waved to Tong Tong and said impatiently." Who said I don't understand? I know my father wants a new era, and I know the children there can't. ""Why not? Don't you think it's strange? "Mr. Chen asked in surprise." Is there a clearing next to the new era? A chemical plant will be built there soon. Does dad want to smell the strange smell of chemical plants every day? ！” "What? Chemical plant? Why don't I know? Who do you listen to? "Mr. Chen asked Tong Tong very questioningly." My classmate's father is the director of a chemical plant. I told him a few days ago that you miss children in the new era. He said that you can't, because his father told him that the chemical plant will move there soon, and he also said that the smell of the chemical plant can kill people. " "Really? In that case, it is really impossible. " Chen said to himself. Later, Mr. Chen inquired, and the news Tong Tong said was really true. So he got a set in other places, and the family moved to a new house and lived happily. To appreciate children, we must respect their wishes and give them the right to know and participate. Only in this way can children feel their importance in the family, thus establishing a sense of responsibility for the family and cultivating their sense of ownership and overall situation. For parents, respecting children is the best way to understand them. If parents respect their children, children will respect their parents in turn. Only when parents want to know their children's thoughts will children boldly tell their parents. On the other hand, if parents often discuss things with their children and ask for their opinions, once the children need to make a decision, they will also take the initiative to discuss with their parents and ask for their opinions, instead of avoiding their parents and going their own way. Therefore, parents should always remember that children are important members of the family and should take the initiative to seek their opinions when something happens; When children express dissatisfaction or opposition, they should calmly explain to them and strive for their understanding, instead of forcing them to obey or even intimidating them. When you encounter something that is closely related to your child, you should take the initiative to ask your child. Say to the child, "son, there is something closely related to you, and we want to hear your opinion." "When it comes to important events that affect the whole family, children should be informed and encouraged to express their opinions. Tell the child: "This matter is very important. Do you have any ideas? "Respect the children's ideas. On the weekend, Ms. Chen chatted with her colleagues who came to her home and talked about the love affairs of several young people in the unit. " I heard that Xiao Zhao was lovelorn again. Do you know? "Ms. Chen said, right? I don't know. Why? "Colleagues are very surprised." Not Xiao Wang yet. I haven't paid attention to Xiao Zhao for a long time. I heard that I found another graduate student in medical school, and it was hot! ""huh? Why is this happening? Didn't he have a good talk with Xiao Zhao? Xiao Zhao is not bad, really! At this moment, my son, who had been watching TV, suddenly spoke: "If I were uncle Xiao Zhao, I would ignore Aunt Wang." . She's so bad! "Go to your room. What do you say when adults talk? What do you know, annoying child! " Ms. Chen stood up and took Mingming's arm and left. Mingming pursed his lips and whispered as he walked: "Sure enough!" "When children are sensible, they begin to think about the world, think about everything they encounter, and gradually form their own ideas and opinions. The world of adults and children is really different, but in the process of children's growth, they have been approaching adults. They express their views and thoughts on the adult world, which shows that they have a new thinking consciousness, which is very valuable. At this time, parents should appreciate and respect their children's thoughts, understand their feelings, listen to their stories, and give them positive appreciation and respect when they want to express their thoughts and opinions. Appreciating and respecting children's ideas can not only further train children's thinking consciousness and expression ability, but also discover and understand children's real ideas by listening to their views, thus correcting some wrong ideas in the process of children's growth. Parents should never ignore and suppress their children's ideas, even if they are wrong, even if they are childish and ridiculous, and don't laugh at and interrupt them; Instead of always asking children to think like adults, let them go on and allow them to express their views. One night, Xiaohui said sadly to her mother, "Why is Yixiu's mother so cruel?" She sent Yixiu to the temple to become a monk and refused to let Yixiu go home to see her! " "Son, this is not cruel. She sent Yixiu to the temple because she hoped Yixiu could be educated and honed there and become a great person in the future. " Mother whispered to Xiaohui. "But how big is the breakthrough? Why not wait until he grows up before sending him to the temple? " "Son, a person is a blank sheet of paper when he is young. If you draw red on it, it is red; If you draw black on it, it will turn black. So my mother asked Yixiu to be educated in the temple from an early age to make Yixiu smarter and stronger. If you wait until Yixiu grows up and then go to the temple, it will be too late. " "That I also want to go to the temple when the monk, later can become a big shot? But I can't live without my mother. " Xiaohui was not so worried, and her eyes began to shine. "Of course not, the temple just symbolizes an environment for education and exercise. Just like school, you can get education and exercise at school. If you want to be as smart as a break, you should study hard at school, listen carefully and try to learn everything the teacher says. " The mother stroked the child's hair and smiled at the child. "Mom, I understand. I must study hard and become very smart. I also want to be a great person. " The child jumped up and hugged his mother's neck and said loudly. "Good boy, mom believes you!" Mother gave Xiaohui a happy kiss. Children often have some ideas when watching cartoons or comic books. Parents should not be indifferent to the things in these children's world, but should take the initiative to understand and appreciate and think with their children. Children take the initiative to talk to their parents about their children's world, which is their trust and dependence. They want to get answers and comfort from their parents. At this time, parents should strive to stand in the child's perspective, understand and respect the child's ideas, and communicate and talk with the child patiently. If the mother in the story is not like this, but because of a hard day's work, she ignores Xiaohui's question: "Who is resting?" What, being a monk? The children are playing by! "What will be the result of this matter? The world of adults and the world of children should be equal and important, and the thoughts of children and adults are equally important. Therefore, whether children want to discuss the topic of adult world or adults want to enter children's world, this kind of communication between them is particularly important. If you appreciate children, you must respect them. When children want to express their thoughts and opinions to you, give them enough time and space and listen to them patiently. When you are talking to a guest, the child suddenly wants to express his opinion. Don't blow and suppress it. You should say, "well, son, tell me your opinion!" " "When the child's point of view is correct, you should say," Son, you are right! " "When a child talks to you about his feelings and thoughts about something, don't be impatient and perfunctory, but say to the child," Let's talk together. "Respect your child's game for one day and clearly say to Dad,' Is the game we play together good? ""What kind of game? "Dad is watching TV, and he is a little impatient." I was sick the other day. The nurse gave it to me. I'm going to give it to my father today. "Ming Ming made a good gesture as he spoke." Well, stop fooling around, dad doesn't have time! ""just for a moment, okay? "obviously ask dad." Can't you see dad watching TV? Go find your mother! "Dad said impatiently. In fact, playing games with children should be a very happy thing for parents. But now young parents are often reluctant to play with their children; Or want to play games with children, but don't know what to play. From the perspective of appreciating children, at this time, parents should respect their children's requirements and take time to play games with them. This is not only to make their children happy, but also to take advantage of this opportunity to communicate with their children, so as to open their young hearts, understand their children more truly and accurately, and let them know their parents. If the above case continues, Mingming's father should behave like this: Mingming went to play games with his father, and his father readily agreed. "Well, I'll give it to you now. "Clearly solemnly said to dad now? "Dad pretended to be surprised and asked Mingming." Yes, come on, I'll give it to you! "Clearly" command "dad. At this time, my father suddenly turned and ran away, pretending to be frightened and shouting: "No! I didn't! I am afraid of pain, please! " "Hey, don't be afraid, I don't hurt at all." Clearly learn the tone of the nurse said. Dad had to lie in bed and let Mingming give her an injection. "Dad, do you hurt? "Ming Ming smiled and asked Dad." No pain, obviously the needle doesn't hurt at all, obviously it's great! I want you to help me when my father is ill. "Dad said happily. Dad, why do you want it after you get sick? Yao Ming asked. Because when the medicine is injected into our body, the medicine kills the pathogenic bacteria and viruses in our body, and our disease will be cured. You see, after the last injection, you are still alive and kicking as before! So let the nurse feed you when you are sick in the future, so that your illness will get better soon. "Dad lost no time in educating his children." Oh, I see. "Clearly hard to nod. In the game, if parents can freely play the role of the weak and let their children play the role of the strong, they can smooth the negative memories of their children in relaxed games and laughter. On the other hand, parents play a weak role, and the child will have enough confidence to show you his thoughts and feelings on important issues. As observers and listeners, parents should seize the opportunity to help their children relax the tension caused by a certain situation in play, so that they can face it correctly in their later lives. By respecting and participating in children's games and appreciating children in games, parents can observe their original inner world, deepen their parent-child feelings in intimate communication and help their children grow up in a targeted way. Some parents may worry that playing a weak role will lose their children's respect, which is totally unnecessary. Children may be excited by the chance to play happily with you, and then pester you endlessly, but it's totally worth it. After the game, children will obviously be more affectionate, closer and unsuspecting to you, and sometimes their deeper feelings will be revealed. Games and laughter give your child complete confidence in the relationship between you and let you know more about his inner feelings. When children ask to play games with their parents, parents should not ignore or even scold them, but try their best to cooperate. You can say, "OK, let's play games together! "When you can't play games, don't refuse the children's request to play together, but learn as soon as possible:" That's good, but you must teach me how to play first. "In the process of playing games with children, be good at reminding and controlling children. You can say, "Let's have fun for an hour and then do our homework, shall we?"? "Respecting children's ideals, Lulu, 7, was led by her parents to see a doctor. Lulu has just entered the first grade of primary school, but she has been learning piano for two years. My mother told me that she cried as soon as she entered the teacher's house, and she burst into tears as soon as she started practicing piano. She also begged piteously, "Mom, I really don't want to learn. "Although my mother is soft-hearted, my father insists on letting her learn the piano, and combines her specialties with further studies. She thinks that after she finishes her studies, her children will have the opportunity to become special students, which is conducive to attending key middle schools. The piano teacher also gave her homework: she must practice four etudes every day. Once the child can't play the piano well, the father pokes her head with his fingers, pushes her and scolds her loudly. Lulu endured this for two years, and finally one day she couldn't stand it anymore: she often squeezed her eyes, pouted her mouth, shrugged her shoulders, and her arms and legs moved uncontrollably. The class teacher also reflected to the parents: "Lulu winks at class, shrugs her shoulders, often screams suddenly, loses concentration, and her academic performance drops. "Later Lulu was diagnosed with Tourette's disease and needed long-term treatment to recover. The above story is precisely because parents don't respect their children's ideals and force their children to learn piano, which causes children's mental stress and long-term depression, thus inducing diseases. In real life, parents often like to design ideals for their children. Since primary school, I have made a step-by-step plan for my children's ideals, and even thought about which university my children will go to and what major they will study in the future. To this end, parents force their children to develop according to their own design, regardless of their hobbies and ideals. If their children fail to achieve their wishes in one step, they will completely deny all their efforts and achievements, and even beat and scold them. As parents, it is understandable that they want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed, but it would be a pity to put too much pressure on their children for a good future and become overwhelmed and extreme. The so-called appreciation of children should be to respect their ideals and choices. When parents cultivate their children's hobbies, they should first seek their opinions and respect their ideals, and then understand their ideals and their real needs. Even if the children's ideals deviate from their parents' designs, we should communicate with them calmly. On the basis of respecting children's ideals and choices, let children fully understand their parents' ideas through discussion, and then give them the choice. When appreciating and respecting children's ideals, we should also pay attention to one problem: don't give them too much pressure and warning at the early stage of establishing their ideals, which will easily dampen their enthusiasm and make them give up their ideals easily. The correct way is to encourage children to set up their ideals and work hard for them. Father and the fourth grade children watch TV together. Seeing the majesty and demeanor of the lawyer on the screen, the child will quote the classics for a while, and then give examples to prove that everyone nodded and said yes, and the heart of admiration can't help but arise. He said to his father, "I want to be a lawyer in the future." Father immediately said, "Your ideal is very good, and I support it. Being a lawyer is very powerful and can defend people in court. However, if you want to be a lawyer, you must remember many legal provisions, learn a lot of other knowledge, and deal with various social relations in the future. If you want to be an excellent lawyer, you should be prepared to be a lawyer from now on! "After listening to his father, the child is more eager to be a lawyer. Since then, he has attached great importance to the courses and behavior habits that lawyers should learn. When children are exposed to new things, they will naturally sprout their ideals. If parents think it is reasonable, they should give them appreciation and support. However, support is not simply to say yes, let alone to ask for it immediately, or to ask for children with purely rational and very strict ultimate standards, which will make children retreat and give up easily. Real support should be based on children's realistic preparation, and appropriate inspiration and guidance should be given. When children are disgusted with their parents' arrangement, parents should give full consideration to their hobbies and interests. You can say, "Tell mom which activity you like?" When children express their hobbies and ideals to their parents, they should tell their parents: "Your ideal is really good, I support you, and I believe it will be realized through your efforts!"