After two years of marriage, my husband has filed for divorce because of his incompatible personality. What should I do?

Two years is neither long nor short, but it is enough to see a person's personality characteristics and living habits. Do you think your personalities are the same and reasonable? You ask this question because you don't want a divorce, so let's assume it.

First of all, suppose that your husband's "personality incompatibility" is true.

Generally, the marriage life with incompatible personalities will present endless quarrels because of incompatible personalities. As the saying goes, it is a truth that a leopard cannot change his spots. Can a person change for one person, yes or no, yes, because he loved you at that time. To be precise, he changed for love, not for you. If he loved someone else, he would do the same. Why did you refuse again? Because such a change has a price, once love is gone, such a change will disappear. At this stage, if you want to maintain this marriage, you can only change yourself to accommodate him. There is no other way. Who made you want to stay?

Furthermore, suppose your husband's "personality incompatibility" is not established.

If this reason is just an excuse, what is the real reason? I think, you should know fairly well. Let's not explore what caused him to find an excuse for divorce, but most of them just want to get together and leave, and don't want you to pester him. This is a side effect. He doesn't love you anymore Maybe he used to love you very much, maybe he didn't want to be too hard on you when he found an excuse for divorce, but he really doesn't love you and doesn't want to stay in this home anymore. Do you really want to be with such a person? A loveless marriage is sad, more lonely than a person's loneliness. Do you want to get yourself into such a predicament?

Finally, suppose he has ulterior secrets, such as serious illness, debt, business failure and so on. And he doesn't want to drag you down, so he makes excuses for divorce. If so, it will be much easier emotionally. After all, he still loves you. The rest is the real problem. Are you willing to accompany him in trouble?

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